Marriage is an avoidance rule.

Marriage is a taboo rule, and the marriage custom has a long history in China. No matter what you get married or do, it is to get a good sign. Couples also have a lot to avoid before getting married. So what is the taboo law?

Marriage genus avoidance rule 1 1. How to avoid marriage?

1, don't send the bride to get married, don't be a bridesmaid, don't be a best man.

On the wedding day, it is best for relatives and friends who have contradictions not to send relatives, not to receive relatives, and not to be the best man or bridesmaid, so as to avoid conflicts with the couple and affect their fortune.

Step 2 choose a good wedding day

In addition, if the zodiac signs collide, you can choose to get married and avoid it. Generally speaking, it is not recommended to choose March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because there are three traditional ghost festivals in China, Tomb-Sweeping Day, Magnolia Festival and Double Ninth Festival, which are not suitable for marriage.

Second, the avoidance rules of marriage

1. Women who belong to rabbits, pigs and sheep get married, while those who belong to dragons, rats and monkeys are forbidden to send their families off, be the best man and be bridesmaids.

2, the zodiac is a chicken, snake, cow's woman to get married, taboo zodiac is a tiger, horse, dog for their own wedding, be the best man, be the maid of honor.

3. Women who belong to dogs, tigers and horses get married, while those who belong to pigs, rabbits and sheep are forbidden to send relatives, be the best man and be bridesmaids.

4, the zodiac is a mouse, monkey, dragon girl married, taboo zodiac is a snake, chicken, cow for their own wedding, be the best man, be the maid of honor.

5. Tiger plus pig; Green tiger and black pig get married first, men and women get along well, everything goes well with abundant wealth, and the population is prosperous and energetic.

6. Longjia chicken; Huanglong white chicken is more congenial, and the door is developed for a reason. A child becomes a talented Sun Zhuang and lives a long life.

7. Snake monkey; The red snake and white monkey are full of red, and the marriage matches the ancient. Marriage is relative to children, and life is better than corning.

8. Majiayang; Red horse and antelope go hand in hand, such a marriage is the most perfect, the days are long and rich, and the descendants Shoulu win the championship.

Third, what is the emphasis on getting married and seeing off relatives?

1. On the wedding day, the number of wedding cars for the groom to pick up the bride should be odd, and the bride's family should make up an even number. Therefore, if the number of people who pick up the bride's family is odd, then the number of people who send the bride should also be odd, so that the odd number can be even, which means "both husband and wife go home." Moreover, people in China think even numbers are auspicious, and flying with me is a good idea. Therefore, it is the first thing to make up even numbers for the wedding car.

In ancient times, when a woman got married, she was usually carried to the groom's house in a sedan chair. At the four corners of the sedan chair, there are people from the bride's family who come to see the bride off. All four are men, who can be the bride's elders or equal brothers. This shows that the bride's family is positive about this marriage, and it also shows that the bride's family knows books and rituals. It is an ancient tradition that four male relatives escort the bride to the groom's house.

There are many things to choose bridesmaids. Most bridesmaids are m-girls, and girls are unmarried. The bridesmaid can be the bride's best friend or relative, but if the bridesmaid is a relative of the bride, she must be the same generation as the bride, not the younger generation or elder. Another thing to note is that the bride's own sisters can't send her.

4. There is also a particularly fun custom of seeing the bride off. For example, after the bride puts on her shoes, she can't go to the wedding car to meet her, but wants her brother or brother to hold or carry the wedding car. Some even let the bride sit in the chair, and the brothers and sisters carried the bride on the wedding car together.

Having said that, the question of the wedding zodiac that everyone wants to know most has also caused thinking, especially the question of whether the wedding zodiac is important. In fact, this is mainly paid attention to by the elders at home, as well as sending relatives and attending weddings, which may happen, so these are all things we need to pay attention to and can learn more about!

Marriage Zodiac Avoidance Rule 2 Marriage Zodiac Avoidance Rule

All the women belonging to the zodiac are married. People who are forbidden to belong to snakes, chickens and cows in the zodiac should see their loved ones off, be the best man and be bridesmaids.

In the zodiac, women who belong to chickens, snakes and cows get married. People who are forbidden to belong to tigers, horses and dogs in the zodiac are their own groomsmen and bridesmaids.

Women who belong to dogs, tigers and horses in the zodiac get married. People who are forbidden to belong to pigs, rabbits and sheep in the zodiac are supposed to be groomsmen and bridesmaids.

Women who are rabbits, pigs and sheep in the zodiac get married. People who belong to the dragon, mouse and monkey are forbidden to send their relatives off, to be the best man and to be bridesmaids.

What should I pay attention to when I get married?

Newcomers should avoid three aspects.

On the wedding day, the bride should avoid people in conflict when she goes out and enters the door. The specific operation method starts with the bride's zodiac, and the zodiac corresponding to the first, fifth and ninth positive numbers is the zodiac to be avoided at the wedding. For details, please refer to the above rules on taboo animals.

Zodiac marriage cannot punish each other.

In the zodiac of marriage pairing, mutual punishment refers to the relationship between husband and wife. If we punish each other, there will be many contradictions between husband and wife. It is more harmful than conflicting and hurting each other, so they regard each other as enemies.

Zodiac marriages cannot collide.

If there is a conflict between the two, it is easy for couples to have disputes, especially in terms of luck. The most common thing is that rats collide with noon horses, and people who belong to rats and horses are difficult to deal with.

Choose a good day to get married

This is called "invitation" in ancient wedding etiquette. That is, the man sends a matchmaker to the woman's house to "ask for marriage", and then asks the fortune teller to choose an auspicious day for the wedding. Although many families are vague about this concept now, marriage, as a major event in life, is definitely indispensable to the happiness of the young couple after marriage. Because the date is well chosen, many unlucky things can be avoided. For example, it can effectively ensure the normal holding of the wedding and avoid unfavorable accidents, which is more conducive to the happiness of the couple after marriage in the long run.

Rule of marital avoidance 3 I. Rule of marital avoidance

1. Women who are monkeys, dragons and monkeys must avoid people who are snakes, chickens and cows when they get married; Women who belong to dogs, tigers and horses need to avoid people who belong to pigs, rabbits and sheep when they get married; Women who belong to chickens, snakes and cows need to avoid people who belong to tigers, horses and dogs on their wedding day; Women who belong to rabbits, pigs and sheep in the zodiac need to avoid people who belong to dragons, rats and monkeys on their wedding day.

2. The above are the rules to avoid the marriage zodiac. The reason for avoiding it is that the zodiac and the zodiac collide, which is unlucky from the perspective of geomantic omen. Nowadays, young people don't pay much attention to the zodiac. These are just some geomantic sayings handed down from the older generation.

On the wedding day, in addition to paying attention to the zodiac, we need to pay attention to everything, things in pairs. If something is singular, it is also unlucky, so when you are alone, you must make up a double number.

Second, can you be a bridesmaid when you get married?

1. On the wedding day, people with contradictions are not allowed to be their own bridesmaids. Before the wedding, the couple will ask their family members to tell their fortune. If the bridesmaid's family conflicts with you on this day, he is not only your bridesmaid, but also can't appear in the line where you see the bride off.

China people still pay more attention to the traditional wedding customs, and they should listen to their parents on the wedding day. But now many young people think that these are feudal superstitions without any scientific basis, so they don't pay special attention to them. However, parents do things just to get lucky, after all, for their own good. You shouldn't do things according to your own temperament on the wedding day.

3, in fact, there are no natural signs of conflict, mainly depending on the personality between two people. Before couples get married, if the fortune teller says that there are signs of conflict between you two, don't trust him too much. After all, everyone's temper and personality are completely different. It is certainly no problem to maintain mutual respect, trust and humility in marriage.