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Can middle-class marriage get married?

Text | Qing Feng

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Marriage is the most important topic in a person's life, and it also has a great influence on a person's life.

A good marriage will make two people happier and happier, while a bad marriage will only consume one person and make one miserable.

In any case, marriage can actually be divided into three categories, each of which gets along in a different way and brings different feelings to a person.

And where are you among these three classes?

0 1 Inferior marriage is mutual hatred.

In marriage, the lowest marriage is to blame each other, that is, if something goes wrong, two people will only blame each other, but they can't really look at a problem rationally.

Sometimes we think it's because the other person has a problem, but it's actually our own.

Because you can't see your own problems, you will only blame each other. Because you can't see your own problems, you will only blame each other. This kind of marriage is also the most painful.

Because two people can't feel love, the only thing they feel is to blame and blame each other. You can't win alone.

Maybe it doesn't matter if you complain once or twice, but if you complain more often, your relationship and marriage will have problems.

This is the marriage between Cheng Juan and her husband. No matter what happens, they will only blame each other and never see each other's good.

When cooking, Cheng Juan cooked a dish that her husband liked. I thought her husband would praise him, but when the food was served, her husband took a bite and said, "There is less salt."

Cheng Juan said unhappily, "I worked hard to cook a dish for you. You can't see the good, only the bad. "

The husband said, "If you want to do it, do it well. There is not enough salt. You are still working hard. I think you did it on purpose. "

After that, the two men quarreled, and the more they quarreled, the more fierce they became.

Cheng Juan complained that her husband couldn't see his own goodness and couldn't speak, while her husband thought that Cheng Juan was not good at cooking and deliberately made things difficult.

So the two did not give in to each other, because the cold war lasted for many days.

In fact, there are many such things, and the two often quarrel because of such things.

The worst thing about the relationship between husband and wife is that they complain to each other every day, never see each other's intentions and efforts, and can't tolerate and understand each other.

Leading to a good marriage, every day is either quarreling or contradicting, and you can't feel the happiness of marriage.

And this kind of marriage is the lowest marriage and the most unfortunate marriage.

Medium marriage is a kind of mutual understanding and accommodation.

In marriage, medium-sized marriage is giving and taking.

That is, no matter what happens, two people can make concessions to each other and make the marriage relationship better.

Although such a marriage is rare, it can actually make people feel happy.

I think no matter what you do, we all know that the other party will let us go and understand us. Such a marriage will not only make them feel happy, but also make them happier and happier.

But in such a marriage, the bigger problem is that they are too polite to each other and lose their intimacy in marriage.

Lily's marriage with her husband is like this.

They met by introduction. Before the introduction, Lili had a boyfriend, and later broke up because of the rejection of her family, and so did her husband.

So finally, through the introduction of family members, they got together.

After they got together, they both thought each other was good and suitable for marriage, so they got married soon. After marriage, the two never quarrel, but they are not close enough.

For example, Lili never talks to her husband, and neither does her husband.

Sometimes when Lili does something wrong, her husband will say it doesn't matter, never mind, and her husband does something wrong, and so does Lili.

Especially sometimes when her husband has something to eat out, Lili never asks more and is never unhappy.

This kind of marriage seems to have no quarrel, looks good, but loses intimacy.

In fact, this medium-sized marriage sometimes feels good, both of them are very happy, but for a couple, it is still a lot less fun.

A superior marriage is mutual love.

In marriage, the truly superior marriage is mutual love.

That is to say, because we love each other, we also get along, so no matter what happens, it is easy to dissolve because of love, and we care about each other because of love.

In fact, this kind of marriage is the happiest marriage.

Maybe two people are not perfect, but because of love, they are better in each other's eyes. Maybe both of them have many shortcomings, but because of love, these shortcomings have become advantages.

So many times, in a marriage, it's not how good they are, nor how sensible they are, but because of love.

Even if the other party is not sensible, it will become sensible. Even if the other party has many shortcomings, even if the other party is not good enough, it will become an advantage in their eyes.

Wang Juan and her husband are like this. They love each other very much.

They always tolerate each other's shortcomings, always tolerate each other's mistakes, and even think it is good.

For example, when Wang Juan does housework or cooks, he doesn't do well. Her husband never complains or blames, but says, "Never mind, I'll come next time."

And next time, he will really do it.

And when he sometimes fails to do well, Wang Juan will not blame him, but will say, "Let's see how to do well together."

They never quarrel or blame each other.

Sometimes when Wang Juan is in a bad mood, her husband will accompany her. Sometimes Wang Juan is unhappy, and her husband will accompany her and never talk about Wang Juan.

Because of this, they always feel very happy and secure together.

In fact, a really good marriage is like this. Maybe one person is not perfect, but it is better in another person's eyes. Maybe one person is not good, but he is better in the eyes of another.

Because I love each other, I can tolerate everything and understand and understand each other better. Together, you appreciate each other.

Marriage is mutual and needs joint efforts.

Marriage is mutual, that is, whether you live well or not is the result of two people's business.

As a result, two people are each responsible for half, so at any time, once the marriage is not good, don't look at your own problems first, and then try to change your own problems and make the marriage more and more happy.

I hope each of us can have a good marriage, and I hope each of us can be with the people we love. They appreciate each other, care about each other, care about each other and spend the rest of their lives happily.

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The above is about whether middle-class marriage can get married, and it is about the sharing of marriage. I read "Life above average is a good life", I hope this will help everyone!