A capable person is often "helpless"

Life is like a ship drifting on the sea, and the person at the helm is the person who controls his own life.

What life is like depends on your mentality and your ability.

If you have dreams in your heart and encounter setbacks, you will never dare to move forward for the goals in your heart. If you dare not take action to work hard, you will never live the life you want.

In this life, the biggest enemy is yourself.

Oscar Wilde said in From the Abyss:

"Once you make a wrong excuse for yourself, you will soon make another hundred excuses for yourself."

In this life, the person who needs to overcome most is himself.

No one's life is smooth sailing, and all beings suffer, only to die.

Difficulties are like springs. Strong is weak, weak is strong.

If you run at the sight of spring, your life is doomed to mediocrity.

Dependence on others will prevent you from growing.

In the TV series In-laws, Su Wenxing is the son of Su's second wife and the only male in the family.

He only knows a little about how to do business, but he has no skills and always gets into trouble.

Every time I encounter a problem, I hide behind his father and rely on my family to solve the mess I left behind.

Even if you are 30 years old, you can't be independent.

It is precisely because Su Wenxing is always used to relying on his family that he stopped growing.

When a person always depends on others, his heart will never be exercised.

If something goes wrong, I always feel that someone will help me instead of relying on my own efforts, and I will gradually lose my independent ability.

Over time, it will form a dependent personality.

Excessive dependence will slow down a person's growth.

Excessive dependence will make people hesitate, timid and afraid to face difficulties when facing their own decisions.

I'd rather wait for help in a difficult situation than find a way by myself.

Rely on others, you will lack the courage to face difficulties, infinitely magnify your shortcomings, but it is difficult to find your own advantages.

Under the condition of extreme inferiority and conceit, I gradually became a cowardly person.

A person's failure is sometimes not because the enemy is so powerful, but because he lost to himself.

On your own, the road to life is safer.

Goethe once said:

Life is a long road, and there are always times when you face difficulties alone.

Isolated and helpless, the best reliance is on yourself.

When you really experience something, you will grow.

After a long time, in the face of social reality, we always have our own way of dealing with the world.

On the road of life, one's best reliance is on oneself.

People who love us will not always be around, and we must learn to be independent and strong after all.

Life is alive, and it is more secure and practical to come out on your own.

At least face the future and stop being afraid.

No matter how difficult you encounter, please learn to rely on yourself and exercise yourself more.

Do what you want to do and achieve yourself.

Believe that God will not close one door, but he will open another.

All the difficulties experienced will be a light to illuminate the road ahead.

We should learn to make peace with ourselves, turn our enemies into friends and move forward without hesitation.

People who learn to rely on themselves will become stronger and stronger.

Not afraid in the face of difficulties, but more confident to overcome difficulties and get a better life.

"Helpless" people are more likely to succeed.

Romain rolland said:

Helen Keller, an American writer, was seriously ill when she was young. She lost her sight and hearing, and her life fell into darkness.

I thought she would give in to fate, but she didn't. By chance, her teacher gave her new hope.

From then on, Helen Keller used her sense of touch to "communicate" with the outside world, practice pronunciation and learn words.

She accomplished what ordinary people thought impossible by her own efforts, and her world reappeared from then on.

"Helpless" people are more likely to succeed.

A person who wants to change his destiny after losing dependence can only rely on his own efforts.

Because, there is no dependence, no retreat, free to work hard on your own, and strive for a tomorrow on your own.

People live in the world, even if they have shoulders to lean on, they should learn to be "helpless" and strive for a tomorrow by themselves.

On the road of life, there is no dependence, only by our own efforts can we go all out to realize our self-worth.

The mountain will collapse, but everyone will run.

Only by yourself can we not worry about who will leave and affect the status quo. If you have never relied on it, why worry about the other person leaving?

Capable people are often "helpless".

Capable people never pin their hopes on others.

Instead, I firmly hold my destiny in my own hands, and I can still face it bravely despite the storm.

People only push themselves hard when they are most helpless, and their beliefs will become stronger and stronger.

When you are helpless, you have strength and confidence. In adversity, you can ride the wind and waves and turn the wheel of fate.

On the road of life, ups and downs are the norm.

Life is full of challenges. If you are under pressure, you will have the motivation to move forward.

The hardest part is actually in the beginning If you get through it, you will get ahead one day.