Why is the blood relationship of the daughter who has been raised for so many years worse than extramarital affairs?

If the father-daughter relationship is good, maybe the blood relationship is really not that important. But the main problem is not blood relationship, but wife's infidelity to marriage. To tell you the truth, I have some sympathy. In the news, the three daughters that Mr. Chen has raised for so many years are not his own. Blood relationship is not the only connection of family ties, but most people still want their children to be their own.

We can first analyze Mr. Chen in the incident and learn that his wife is unfaithful to him, and the daughter who has been raised for many years is not his own. What was his mood at that time? First it may be shock, then it may be anger. After all these years, maybe he found out about his wife's infidelity, but he wanted to keep the marriage because they had children. But now I know that even the children are not my own, and my heart is likely to be unspeakable. It is a question whether to insist or not. If the wife is very loyal to this marriage, it is impossible to have children that are not her own!

After all, whatever Mr. Chen does is understandable. Maybe he will be pitied by the people around him. After all, this cuckold husband is a bit big. It is impossible not to be talked about by people around you, unless you live in another place. Otherwise, the name of the green hat may be worn for a lifetime. So if you're not your own daughter, you don't have to raise it? Even if you continue to raise it, it is difficult to get along with your daughter back to the way she used to be.

If kinship is not only a natural blessing of blood relationship, it can also be produced through years of companionship and support. People are not vegetation, how can they be ruthless? After raising them for so many years, you must have feelings. But we used to adopt our children as our own, and suddenly it will be very uncomfortable to find that the children are not our own. Maybe we can get out of this misery and continue to be kind to the child, or we may not. Among birds, there is a kind of bird called cuckoo. They are the kind of birds who like to lay their eggs in other people's nests and let others work hard to raise their children. Moreover, it can be said that it is too much for one's own children to crowd out the children of parents who are nurturing. So I knew that after the cuckoo was born, I didn't like this "smart" bird. Therefore, I will feel very sympathetic to Mr. Chen's experience. Although the daughter is not her own, she can be treated as a daughter after so many years.

Although consanguinity is not the only factor of family affection, it is the key factor. As for Mr. Chen, whether he can get out of the shadows depends on whether he can get out. In any case, his experience is sympathetic.