What are the three great pleasures of life?

People have to experience a lot in their life, so what can be remembered in life? As the saying goes, there are three major events in life. Which three projects are they?

The first happy event: being the first time.

(In ancient times, he was the top scholar. If you pass the exam, aren't you happy to death? Fan Jingang was crazy with joy when he won a prize. )

The second happy event: the wedding night.

There is only one chance in life (I mean in general, the conservative kind). Relatives and friends have come to congratulate, watching the people they love finally belong to them, thinking about tearing them up for life. How sweet! )

The second happy event: meeting an old friend in another country.

(far from home, working and living in a foreign country, no one knows. You can only do it step by step on your own. But who would have thought that I saw a good friend from my hometown in this place. How many hearts are a little square. )

Three difficulties in life

A bitter: I can't get it, so it's miserable.

(I can't get it, so it's very painful. On weekdays, in the complicated world, I keep searching and pursuing. For example, I feel that I like a person and pursue it hard, but I fall into a traditional love triangle or four-corner love. There are always some regrets, dissatisfaction and resentment. Is it true that Yue Lao signed the wrong line and made a mistake in marriage? Maybe what you can't get is always the best. There will always be a figure in my heart in my later life. If you work hard and carefully, I hope your name will be on the next appraisal, but the expectation brings disappointment, so the disappointment spreads all over your body. You do injustice for yourself, complain and even slander others. The whole life seems to be spent in sadness. )

The three happy events in life are the details of the three happy events in life.

Erku: You got it, but that's all, so you feel pain.

I got it, but that's all, so I feel pain. We often say: "The contented are always happy". However, in modern society, people's demand is increasing, and it is often that one mountain looks at another. If you can't get power, do your best. When you get to the top of the mountain, you realize that the height is not very cold, so you sigh that it used to be good, but now there is less leisure and freedom, and more sadness and indifference. I realized that there is so much life with high power. Such as feelings, many poems and stories all perform sad love songs. Zhang Sheng in The Biography of Yingying forgot the vows of eternal love, and he hoped to get married with wealth. Yan Jingxi in "Golden Powder Family" tried his best to pursue Leng Qingqiu, and finally separated inevitably. )

Three sufferings; You gave up easily, only to find out later that it is so important in your life that you feel pain.

Give up easily, and then find that it is the most important thing in your life, so you are miserable. As we often say: "Why don't you know how to cherish after losing it?" For example, relatives, perhaps because of misunderstanding or other reasons, you hate your relatives, or your grandmother, or your parents. So in their lifetime, they are always unwilling to forgive them and refuse to admit each other. Moreover, it is not uncommon for a child to repent hard and grieve in vain before dying, so it is not uncommon for a child to want to raise without waiting for relatives. For example, lovers may have heard the saying, "There was a sincere love before me, and I didn't cherish it. If someone can give me another chance ... ",true love can't be forgotten. Giving up easily is not only the pain of one person, but also the pain of two or even three people. I have spent my whole life in regret. Maybe I no longer have love in that life, just for him or her.