The ancients said: friends in previous lives, father and son in this life.

The ancients said: enemies in previous lives, fathers and sons in this life. For example, the son in this life has always collected debts from his father, and the enemy in the previous life has collected debts in this life.

The sharp opposition between father and son is explained by fatalism. Father and son were enemies in their last lives, and they will continue to fight in this life. In the eyes of the father, the son is the continuation of his own life and the inheritance of his thoughts. As a successful father, I always expect my son to inherit his father's career; As a father who feels that he has failed, he will invisibly impose his unfinished ideals and ambitions on his son, dreaming that his son can help him realize them. But as a son, living in a different era and social environment from his father, he must have independent ideas. According to developmental psychology, after all, a son must be rebellious and get rid of his father's control before he can grow up. Therefore, the opposition between father and son is inevitable, and it is impossible to say that father and son were enemies in a previous life, but if the relationship is not handled properly, they will really become enemies in this life.

However, children who grow up in an environment full of father's love and encouragement, their father is their role model, they have a strong sense of security, self-confidence and sunshine, dare to try and break through, and often have a higher limit. In this way, father and son are not enemies in previous lives and enemies in this life, but can be kind to each other and achieve each other.