Are you a determined person?

The Zen master said, "A man listened to the fortune teller and said that he would become a rich man that day, so he went directly to someone else's jewelry store and reached for the gold and silver in the cupboard in front of others. He was arrested and sent to the yamen. The county grandfather asked him,' How dare you rob others' money in broad daylight?' The man replied, "I only saw money, not people!" " "

The Zen master went on to say, "People who have a Zen mind can only see dust in their eyes!

The Zen master rapped out, "Did you find a place to live when you went on a trip and ran between temples and jungles?" If you can only climb mountains and wade around, it's just a waste of time, waiting for the devil to collect your sandals! "

Disciple looked at his sandals and suddenly realized. Some people in life are indecisive, unplanned, simple and rude, and their emotions will erupt at any time like an active volcano. This is not just a matter of emotion, nor of personal ability, but of will. Weak-willed people always "follow their feelings", whether feelings take them to heaven or hell.

Life should follow fate, heart and joy. But not "whatever you want." If anyone who changes his mind can succeed, there will be no losers in the world.

In this world, many people are not necessarily smart in the team of winners, and many people are not necessarily stupid in the team of losers. In fact, one thing is more important than a smart head, and that is a person's mind and will. A person's poverty is largely the poverty of the soul, and a person's success is largely the success of the will!

However, with the passage of time, the change of environment, the difficulty of learning, the difficulty of the world and the warmth and coldness of human feelings, people's hearts and thoughts will gradually change, leading to the gap between people, so some people are very successful and some people are very unsuccessful; Some people are excellent, others are mediocre. If you want to be a very successful and excellent person in this highly competitive society, then you must have a heart that will never be cold or die! There is a will that both subjective and objective factors cannot beat!

Some people say that there must be a wise woman behind a successful man. In fact, it should be said that this man who wants to succeed has an iron will, a flexible mind and a balanced interpersonal relationship. This has nothing to do with his marrying a good wife. This is a natural quality. If we can take advantage of the woman's family relationship, it may help him succeed in his career. Marrying a bad wife can strengthen his belief that he will succeed. Because only career success can completely get rid of that evil wife.

Practice requires a strong will, which includes two aspects, one is "control" and the other is "strength". People with strong desire for control are as follows: being patient and not impatient; Once the goal is set, it must be completed persistently; When encountering setbacks, try to solve them until they are overcome; Be able to persist in doing ordinary and boring things that must be done every day.

If you are a strong-willed person, then you have the capital to succeed; If your willpower is weak, you should take certain measures to cultivate your willpower. For example, divide tasks, do a little a day, and don't rush for success. If your willpower is weak and you really can't stick to it, find someone who knows you to supervise yourself; Think about your goals, find motivation, and you can continue with motivation; Believe that you can hold on, once you start, don't give up easily, don't follow others' advice.

Those who do often succeed, and those who do often arrive. With a firm will, you add a pair of wings to your feet.