What is a card?

Europe (Europe) card is called "subconscious projection card", which was created by German humanistic psychologist Maurize Egetmeyer and Mexican artist Ely Raman in the early 1980s. At present, there are more than a dozen commonly used.

Oh card is a mirror, through which players can perceive and sort out their inner beliefs and inherent patterns, cultivate their creativity and intuition, and finally realize "self-cognition and self-healing".

Second, why is it called the OH card? (Reading "Ouka")

Friends who have played OH cards will find that every time they draw out an OH card, they can't help exclaiming "Oh, my God", "Oh, how can you be so accurate" and "Oh, isn't this me?" That's why they call it Oh Card. In fact, we don't know ourselves as well as we thought.

Oh, cards are different from tarot cards. Tarot cards have a fixed meaning, but OH cards don't. Tarot cards are used for divination and prediction, while OH cards are used to perceive the present. What do you mean? For example, if a girl wants to see a marriage, using tarot cards can help her predict when she will find the right man; And if I use an OH card, I'll help her see why she hasn't met Mr Right yet.

Third, under what circumstances do you need to play the OH card?

There are one of the following three situations, indicating that it is stuck, which can be explored through the OH card:

First, do what you know you can't do. For example, I know that drinking more water is good for my health, but I often forget to drink it; For example, knowing that many friends have many roads and need to socialize more, but they can't; For example, knowing that life lies in exercise, but just can't move; Knowing that procrastination is not good, you have to start the work early to have enough time, and you can finish it better, but you can't.

Second, there is no way. For example, if you have no money, you can't help but buy it at buy buy with your credit card. For example, you love children very much, but sometimes you can't help yelling at them, such as getting fat, but you can't help eating all kinds of desserts, such as knowing to trust each other, but you can't help peeking at your partner's mobile phone.

Third, you are not happy. Some people have no worries about food and clothing, but they are just unhappy. Some people need to stimulate consumption to be happy for a while. For example, they can be happy for a few days when they buy a new pair of high heels, and they can be happy for half a month when they go out to travel, but after this time they become unhappy. In a word, I am unhappy.

Psychologist Jung said: Before you begin to explore the subconscious, it has been guiding your life, but you call it fate. Usually, our understanding of our own thoughts is generally the 5% on the iceberg, which is just the tip of the iceberg, while 95% under the iceberg is unknown. It is these unconscious thoughts that guide our lives.

Fourth, several forms of playing cards.

1. You can play by yourself (or with your family). When you are confused, draw out the corresponding cards, and then look at them intuitively to realize yourself. If you are confused about intimacy, you can draw a partner card; When you are confused about money or sex, you can draw a card to overcome it; If you want to find the reason, you can draw classic cards, indigenous cards and so on. If you want to interpret dreams, you can draw an oriental myth card or a recovery card; If you want to help children ease their fear of the night, you can draw 100 1 fairy card to let children read the card and tell stories, or you can unlock the card for friends.

You can also create art through the OH card, such as painting and writing.

2. Join the group. Under the guidance of an OH card consultant, 8- 12 people sit together and share the cards after drawing, and the consultant will guide them appropriately. Oh, Ka Salon is suitable for group building activities and theme discussion. For example, the salon of "career direction" for college students, "money relationship" for professionals and "parent-child relationship" for mothers can exchange views, learn from each other, broaden their minds and enhance their feelings.

3. Book an OH card box and return the cards one by one. The case owner made an appointment for consultation with the confusion he wanted to solve. OH card consultant chooses the appropriate card or card array for the confusion of the case owner, combs the chaotic and tangled thoughts for the case owner, and finds the deep reasons and solutions. This one-on-one way of playing cards will be more in-depth than playing cards alone and the OH card salon.

One-on-one consultation can be conducted in person or online. You don't need an OH card, the counselor will bring a card to interact with you. On-line consultation is a form of real-time voice call and picture sending. The consultant will draw cards according to the number of your reports and send you photos.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) Typical OH card case sharing.

The following is a typical case of my OH card consultation. When we change our subconscious thoughts, our real life will change.

Money problem

Owner of the case: Yun Fei (pseudonym), male, 35 years old, lecturer.

Trouble: making money is slow and hard.

Through the case of OH Card, I found that he had two beliefs subconsciously: "Talking about money hurts feelings! Give up money to have good friends. " He realized that such a belief prevented him from making money, which was not good for him.

After arriving at the case, I dared to talk about money with my friends, and my income increased significantly.

The trouble of intimate relationship

Owner of the case: Juanzi (pseudonym), female, 42 years old, cosmetic agent.

Trouble: After more than ten years of marriage, the relationship between husband and wife is getting weaker and weaker. She has been a full-time wife, asking her husband for money, and sometimes she doesn't give it. She felt very unhappy, wanted a divorce, wanted to find a job, but couldn't get out, struggling painfully.

Through OH card consultation, I saw that she had a subconscious belief: It's pitiful for women to earn money to support their families! After the communication between consciousness and subconscious, she found it ridiculous to have such an idea.

After the case: I found my favorite job and got better relations with my husband. I'm not going to get a divorce.

Parent-child relationship trouble

Case owner: Mix (pseudonym), female, 4 1 year old, institution.

Trouble: communication with her son is not smooth, and her son is in a bad state (her father has died, she remarried, and her relationship with her stepfather is ok)

Through the consultation of OH card, she saw that she had not let go of her "dead husband" and subconsciously regarded her son as him, and his son was also very sensible, always taking care of her emotions, following her and not expressing his true feelings. This "role dislocation" makes the son, the current husband and himself uncomfortable.

After the case: the relationship with the current husband is better, the son smiles more and the communication is smoother.

Emotional distress

Owner of the case: Lu Xiao (pseudonym), female, 29 years old, company employee.

Worry: I lived with my parents after divorce. I felt good at first, but later I felt inexplicable irritability in my work and life and often suffered from insomnia.

Through the consultation of OH card, she saw her childhood wish: I don't want anything, just mom and dad! She found that divorce was also to realize this "wish", but now she is not a child, but an adult. Her childhood wish has come true, but she is not happy.

After the case happened, there was no irritability and insomnia, and the working condition improved.

oneiromancy

Owner of the case: Yi Ping (pseudonym), female, 45 years old, freelance.

Trouble: I always have the same dream, dreaming of my dead mother and crying.

Through the consultation of the OH card, it can be seen that the reason why she has been having this dream is because she subconsciously always thinks that her mother loves her younger brother, does not love herself, and is the least close to herself. Unfortunately, she didn't kiss her mother until her death. In the consultation, I also showed her that this is actually the character of my mother. In order to maintain the dignity of parents, she doesn't get close to children, but she doesn't love children. In fact, of the three children, she is the closest to her mother.

After the incident, the number of dreams decreased, the living conditions became better and the mood became more pleasant.

Occupational distress

Case owner: Pearl Krabs (pseudonym), female, 38 years old, employee of state-owned enterprise.

Trouble: I don't like my present job, I want to quit my job, and I want to develop a sideline, but I am particularly entangled.

After consulting through the OH card, she clearly saw the advantages and disadvantages of her current job, the advantages and disadvantages of her desired sideline (psychological consultation) and the preparatory work that needs to be done. She knows the time, energy and money she needs, and the worst result she can bear.

After the case: clear the direction, no longer entangle, while continuing the current work, while preparing for favorite psychological counseling, start all kinds of learning.

Six, oh card experience-self-awareness and portrait card

Gestalt master Bowles once said that consciousness is healing. You can realize yourself through the following OH card, and experience it!

# Play cards and smoke a cigarette every day # Everyone can realize themselves through this card:

1. What's the name of intuitive ta?

2. How old is 2.ta?

3. What is the status of 3.ta now?

4. does 4.ta have any wishes?

5.ta is there anything to tell you?

6. If so, what do you say?

7. If you used one word to describe ta, what would you say about ta?

8. What does this card have to do with you?