Middle-aged people, the following six kinds of people visit, it is best to close the door to thank guests.

Middle age coincides with eventful autumn.

There are old people in the world, children in the world and lovers in the middle. When you go out, you have to make money and spend money.

Home is a place to rest. After a busy day, I finally got quiet. If someone keeps knocking at the door, I will be upset.

"Nothing goes to the Three Treasures Hall". If there is nothing special, don't drop by. If you have to go, be polite and try not to disturb other people's lives.

When you meet the following six kinds of people, you'd better close the door and refuse the guest. It doesn't matter if you offend him.

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First, drinkers who have no wine and no joy are hard to serve.

I have read a story: during the Chinese New Year, a man made an appointment with a dozen friends to drink at home. They play cards, smoke and cross their legs.

It takes a woman four or five hours to buy food, cook and clear the table.

Two friends were drunk and hung up. I collapsed on the sofa and fell asleep, snoring loudly.

The woman finally couldn't stand it and slammed out the door.

A group of drinkers, shouting loudly, can drink more than anyone else, and also arranged for the hostess to keep adding food through the strength of wine. After three rounds of drinking, men will especially like to nag and brag about how much they have mixed up, how many people they have in society, and how good their future development prospects are. You can pat your chest at any time, promise to help, and forget when you wake up.

Anyone who sees such a scene will be disgusted.

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Second, the ambiguous opposite sex destroys the family.

How many versions of the story about "Lao Wang next door" are unknown. But each version is not very good.

Neighborhood should live in harmony, but don't often visit other people's homes, and don't chat anytime and anywhere, otherwise the affection between the opposite sex is too deep, which is not good for anyone.

It is not easy for people to live in middle age, and they are more tired when they encounter emotional entanglements.

People who have loved have never been able to hold hands. He came to your house as a guest, and made it clear that he had "bad intentions", which aroused suspicion between husband and wife.

A third party, coming to your house openly, is a provocation. If he is allowed to sit in the room, it is "failure".

Husband and wife are right-hand men. You should close the door and let the extra feelings have nothing to do with your family.

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Third, Lao Lai, who borrows money, has poor money.

"It is not difficult to borrow again if you have borrowed and paid back", and it is a good thing to lend money to others. For those who want to do urgent things, having more money on them will give them more confidence.

However, nowadays, when we talk about Lao Lai, we are afraid.

My own money went into other people's pockets for no reason. When others spend money, they still dislike that you give too little money. When you go to collect debts, he is more "fierce" than you, and he releases malicious words from time to time, leaving you at a loss.

So it seems stingy not to lend money to others easily, but for yourself, less trouble is a good thing.

People who come to borrow money should be carefully screened. If they meet Lao Lai, let him stand outside the door.

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Fourth, gossiping relatives stir up trouble.

My little aunt gossips every time she goes to someone's house.

The master's daughter, married and divorced, returned to her mother's house, and her life was more bitter than Coptis chinensis; Jia Xi's son went out to work and didn't come home for many years. Maybe he met a bad guy and joined the pyramid scheme. A relative, who went to the wedding banquet last time, only gave a red envelope of 20 yuan. In fact, two people went to the table to eat together. There is also a younger generation who doesn't even care about grandparents. ......

It is difficult for an honest official to break housework. If a person likes to take housework out and study it carefully, it is to sow discord and make family relations worse and worse.

When relatives visit, they should pay more attention to others and keep in touch with each other's feelings, instead of creating human feelings.

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Fifth, most strangers who index by hand are liars.

Fortune teller, many people should have seen him. He knows your birthday just by looking at you, so he can show you the way.

Of course, predicting the future will do you no harm, and you can also seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.

The terrible thing is that most of these people are liars. I always scare you and make you lose everything. If you can't, you will be afraid for a long time and feel that you have done something wrong, and you will encounter disaster.

"Sometimes you have to have it in your life, and you can't always force it." Let it be. As long as you work hard enough, you will feel at ease even if you don't get much.

Struggle is fortune telling.

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Sixth, friends who avoid human disasters are disturbing.

A few years ago, my cousin lost a lot of money playing cards, and people found fault with him everywhere. In desperation, he walked dozens of miles and said to my mother, "Aunt, I want to stay for a few days."

After learning about it, my mother decisively refused.

For a person who doesn't study well, the better you are to him, the more harm you will do to him. What's more, if he stays at home for a long time, he will definitely get into trouble.

Man, don't think, like Mr. Dong Guo, that a wolf will become kind and worth saving after being injured. The rivers and mountains may change, but not one's essential nature

Of course, friends who encounter natural disasters deserve our sympathy. After all, his family is separated and needs a place to rest.

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How to refuse others to be guests correctly? Don't be too savage, be tactful.

First of all, find the right excuse to let the other party retreat. For example, a family will travel, children will go to cram school, and parents will accompany them.

Second, if you refuse others, you must not be ambiguous. Otherwise, it will give others room to maneuver and visit again and again.

Third, don't go to other people's homes and avoid unnecessary reciprocity. When you get used to being alone, there will naturally be fewer guests.

A large family is not necessarily a good thing. Only those full of positive energy can be welcomed. Don't associate with people with negative energy.

Family together, talking and laughing, business is business, happy.

Author: coarse grains in cloth.

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