Why do most people think that Lin Daiyu is not suitable to be a wife? Group diagram solution

Yes, they must think that Xue Baochai is more suitable as a wife. In the eyes of many people, Lin Daiyu was born as a "love animal" and was not suitable for the marriage of daily necessities. But why doesn't Jia Baoyu see it this way? Why does Jia Baoyu just want to marry Lin Daiyu, and he wants to live and die together? This is precisely the reason why Jia Baoyu stands out from the crowd, and it is also the result of his light practice and empty life values. This is also the essential reason why we laity can't be Jia Baoyu. We live too sober, as sober as Xue Baochai, and can't do a dream of red mansions. Xue Baochai not only represents herself, but also represents almost everyone except Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, including you and me. Love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu ■ Zhu Hong's unconditional love is romantic. Romantic love is not only a feast of youth, but also a torture of youth. The banquet must break up, and breaking up is torture for those who don't want to break up. The love between Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu is not an isolated case. So is Liang Zhu. Daiyu buries flowers. Buried by flowers again. Liang Zhu has become a butterfly, and her hope for the afterlife proves that love transcends death. People who love each other will die, but love will not. Love is higher than life and death. This is true spiritual love without any dust. In the history of western literature, similar to A Dream of Red Mansions, Shakespeare wrote Romeo and Juliet, and Goethe wrote Young Werther ... all of them set off the wonderful love with suicide or death, which is both beautiful and dangerous. Thousands of roads and lines in A Dream of Red Mansions invisibly highlight "the troubles of young Baoyu". Daiyu's love for Baoyu is simply suicidal love, and it is a kind of chronic suicide, which causes her to burn out as quickly as lamp oil. Why do we still admire Daiyu? Because we can't. Failure doesn't mean that we don't appreciate it: we admit that the highest form of love is uncontrollable burning. This spontaneous combustion creates light and heat that are rare in this world. Love is one step closer to tragedy and one step closer to myth. People who dare not love also need the comfort of love myths. I need the love of others to warm myself. At this point, most people are no better than Baochai. Baochai knows how to cool love with reason until it becomes a cost-effective transformation. She loves Baoyu, especially the social value and material benefits attached to jade. The latter can satisfy her vanity and even realistic demands better than the former. This is our own tragedy: from an aesthetic point of view, we will all appreciate Daiyu like Jia Baoyu and stand on her side. Once we are not bystanders, but as parties, we can re-understand Baochai and think like Baochai. It is tantamount to agreeing with Baochai. Our own tragedy is actually more pitiful than Baoyu and Daiyu. When a series of articles I wrote about Lin Daiyu were serialized on Sina blog, some netizens left a message: Lin Daiyu is beautiful, but she is not suitable for being a wife. Yes, they must think that Xue Baochai is more suitable as a wife. In the eyes of many people, Lin Daiyu was born as a "love animal" and was not suitable for the marriage of daily necessities. They, even I, think it's right. But why doesn't Jia Baoyu see it this way? Why does Jia Baoyu just want to marry Lin Daiyu, and he wants to live and die together? This is precisely the reason why Jia Baoyu stands out from the crowd, and it is also the result of his light practice and empty life values. This is also the essential reason why we laity can't be Jia Baoyu. We live too sober, as sober as Xue Baochai, and can't do a dream of red mansions. Jianglin Daiyu

Xue Baochai not only represents herself, but also represents almost everyone except Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, including you and me. It is because of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu that the book Dream of Red Mansions looks young. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu will never change, never get old, and A Dream of Red Mansions will always be young. Without these two men, A Dream of Red Mansions is not a "youth novel", but a street novel. Romanticism did not sublimate, realism came and realism went. The people inside and outside the Jia family seem to be no different from those around us. We have everything around us except Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. But they are the soul of A Dream of Red Mansions. Our time has lost such a soul. Each of us has had youth. But each of us subconsciously eliminated the "genetic gene" of Jia Baoyu or Lin Daiyu in our bones: this unrealistic soul is very troublesome in reality. Only when reading novels and movies, we don't have to restrain our desire for romance. Pay tribute to the poetic soul beyond reality in the distance. But we don't want it to really fall on us. This is the complex feelings of generations of readers towards Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. Well, at least we still have feelings for Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. Because they have selves that we can't or dare not do. Compared with Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, it is not only Xue Baochai who looks young and sophisticated, but we never seem to be really young. (Lin Daiyu) The joys and sorrows of Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu in the book are probably when they were fifteen or sixteen years old. The era in which they lived, the time when Cao Xueqin wrote A Dream of Red Mansions, and the Qianlong period of the Qing Dynasty are all ancient to us. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu, and even Cao Xueqin, who wrote A Dream of Red Mansions, commented on the red inkstone in A Dream of Red Mansions, which is already regarded as ancient to us. But they are still younger and more emotional than us. We, after all, just readers who are aging before they get old, open a dream of red mansions in an attempt to relive the youth that we seem to have had and never had. Real youth has been taken away by Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu. Our youth lacks dreams, just some leftovers. Good dreams have been finished by others and the ancients. We deceive ourselves with the dreams of our predecessors to cover up the fact that we dare not dream in an era that is too realistic. I can't dream anymore. We have lost the ability to dream. Dreaming should be the patent of youth. It seems that we have never been young. I don't dream either. I have to be here, like an out-of-date fortune teller, worrying about the past and interpreting dreams is a mirage. Can you trust someone who has never had a dream to interpret it? You'd better not believe it. Jia Baoyu and Lin Daiyu are getting farther and farther away from us. 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