A daughter, her father's surname is Gao and her mother's surname is Chen. The fortune teller said that the name should be matched with a wooden character.

That's because you hit the four pillars and eight characters, which has nothing to do with your parents' surnames. Naming with wooden characters can make up for this vacancy and balance the four pillars and eight characters, just as Chinese medicine pays attention to the balance of yin and yang in human body. People who are overcast are afraid of cold and need warm food and medicine to make up for it. People who pass through the sun need cool food and medicine to get angry.