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What should children do if they feel inferior and timid?

1, give more encouragement to children, no one does not make mistakes, let alone children; Don't beat and scold children when they make mistakes, but guide them slowly and tell them where they are wrong and how to correct them; Beating and cursing may be counterproductive, making children timid and afraid of making mistakes, fearing that they will make mistakes in whatever they do, slowly doing less and less, and even afraid to express themselves.

2. Go out more and communicate more. Don't always keep the children at home. When parents are resting, they should arrange more opportunities to go out and communicate with others to make their children more confident and gradually overcome their timidity and shyness.

3, learn to let go, children are naturally curious about the world, and 100,000 whys are the best testimony. On the premise of ensuring safety, let the children do one thing independently as much as possible. You just have to watch silently. No matter what the result is, we must affirm it and point out the shortcomings.

4. Don't compare children with others. Don't always compare children with other people's children. This will not only encourage children to make progress, but will always live in the shadow of others. Parents should learn to find the bright spots in their children, not stingy with their own praise, praise and encourage their children through every little thing, so that children can increase their self-confidence and get rid of inferiority.

5, the father's company, often the mother's request for the child is obedient. My father is more outgoing, braver and more decisive. Accompanied by his father, the child's character will become stronger and braver, and become cheerful and confident; Because the father dares to let the children try.