If you find out some of the other person's dirty laundry when you get married, will you still choose to get married?

I won't. What does marriage mean to you?

Some people say that marriage is the continuation and sublimation of love; Some people say that marriage is the grave of love; Some people say that marriage means that two people make do with each other; Others say that marriage is mutual support and guarantee ... Life is different, and everyone has different family environment and growth experience, so naturally there are many different views and opinions on marriage.

Marriage is an inevitable topic in everyone's life. Whether you want to get married or not, it doesn't matter whether you get married or not. Living in society and having contact with the outside world, the social topic of marriage is everywhere.

Whether you are married or not, I believe you will know a little about various problems in marriage, and have participated in discussions and have your own views. "Should privacy be kept in marriage?" I'm sure you've heard this classic question about married life.

With the development of society, we have entered an information explosion society, receiving complex information from the outside world all the time. With the advent of the era of big data, our personal privacy issues have become more and more serious, and people have increasingly emphasized the importance of privacy.

For outsiders, we know that we need to keep privacy. Without emphasis and reminder, most people will consciously keep an appropriate social distance and become the default social rules. So, do people who are close to us, such as husband and wife, also need to keep privacy?

Is there privacy with your lover? Do you think privacy should be kept in marriage? Is privacy really necessary in marriage, and will it have any influence on married life and two people's feelings? I believe everyone has their own answer to this question. Some people think that privacy is very necessary, and even the closest people will have some little secrets from each other.

Some people think they are husband and wife, so there are so many secrets, and having secrets can only mean distrust; Others think that privacy will breed all kinds of marriage crises, such as extramarital affairs, such as causing marriage to have nothing to say; Others think that privacy will not only affect the feelings of husband and wife, but also increase each other's mystery and "keep the marriage fresh".