Several articles about leisure

The charm of ugly women is alive, and everyone wants to be beautiful and energetic. Girls, in particular, will be favored because of their good looks, which is a great advantage for their career success. However, things are not that simple. You can't say that a beautiful face has everything. In many cases, even in public relations, beauty is often not as popular as cleverness and honesty.

An advertising company in Shenzhen "recruited" two girls in the College of Literature of a key university, and both of them studied well. A girl named Shi is beautiful; Another girl surnamed Fang, with a dark face and plain appearance. Advertising companies "judge people by their appearances" and put Shi in charge of "field work", dealing with customers, entertaining customers, negotiating and signing orders; Fang was assigned to be the "back office", responsible for printing, answering the phone and making coffee. Although some people think this arrangement is unfair, China has no complaints. In the first three months, as some people expected, Fang did her best, but her performance was not good. It is estimated that it is only a matter of time before she is fired.

However, since the fourth month, the situation has reversed, and a lot of talk about the collapse of the list has actually been talked about by the parties, and its advertising fee has exceeded 250,000 yuan. This incident caused a sensation in the advertising company, and many people cast envy, admiration, surprise and even doubt on each other's success. Since then, Fang has got one advertising list after another from some foreign businessmen, and his performance is far ahead, completely covering up the glory of Shi. The other party was unconvinced and thought that someone was getting in the way, but the leader of the advertising company told her truthfully: "The list signed by Fang collapsed in a few words."

To this end, someone asked an American businessman who signed the bill. What actions did Fang take to impress him? The American businessman said: "In Fang, there is a keen desire for success and recognition. In the process of negotiation, she put her position very low, and the art of being humble, frank and meticulous about customers is like a young girl who always thinks about others in a big family. Her friendliness and stubbornness touched me, but she rarely gave in on substantive issues. Although she is not beautiful or fashionable, it may be that the neglected experience of her girlhood made her know how to observe and understand others. " Here, modesty, frankness and cleverness far outweigh the beauty of appearance.

The other girl is ugly, too She works in the advertising department of a TV station. She is proficient in business and is a "wrist" figure in advertising and social circles, which makes many beautiful peers lag behind. What is her "trick"? It is said that when she went to pull advertisements, she always smiled and said to her clients, "Don't think I'm ugly. I also know that because of this, I can't play any tricks like some people. I can only win your cooperation with my sincere and down-to-earth work ..." She talked about Kan Kan, and in her gentle and simple words, she flashed a sense of humor, confidence and wisdom from time to time, effectively infecting and conquering each other. Why worry about business failure? Someone advised her to dress up and cover up her appearance defects with makeup, but she said, "Why do you have to cover it up deliberately?" Sometimes a person's shortcomings are his characteristics, and my appearance is unforgettable. Isn't this my greatest advantage? Beauty's youth can only last for a while, but my reputation won by honesty and hard work is eternal. Isn't the mind armed with knowledge more attractive than the face piled up with high-grade cosmetics? "This ugly woman philosophy is really convincing.

Of course, we don't mean that the uglier a person is, the better, but that absolutely beautiful things in the world don't exist, and everyone will have defects of one kind or another. There's nothing to be afraid of. The key is to have a positive attitude towards life.

Fortune-telling boys always say that they are unlucky, their family is not good, and even going to college costs money. Some people say that there is a fortune teller in the city who is good at helping people with luck, so advise him to try. He went and asked the fortune teller in dismay, "Sir, why was I born poor?" I can't even afford to go to school. Isn't this life doomed to hardship and poverty? "

"According to your own statement, your fate has become a destiny. Why did you come to me? " The fortune teller replied lazily.

"I heard that you can help people change their destiny. Please help me! " The boy pleaded.

"yes! Here comes the money ... "The fortune teller stretched out his hand and said.

This sentence immediately made the boy angry. He shouted excitedly: "you ... you just boldly tried to figure out each other's wishes with sweet words, and with a few accidental coincidences, everyone believes that your fortune-telling will definitely help people change their destiny." But I have long seen that you are just an out-and-out liar and can't tell fortune at all, because fate is unpredictable. "

"yes! You are absolutely right. Fate is unpredictable, neither definite nor fixed. To tell you the truth, people only come to me because they can't control their own destiny, and I can profit from it. " The fortune teller said proudly.

The boy shouted angrily, "Liar ..."

"yes! I am a liar, a liar who specializes in cheating money. For those who have no money, I am not interested in cheating. " With that, he closed his eyes and hummed naturally.

The boy felt that his self-esteem was strongly stimulated. He clenched his fist and gnashed his teeth. "You wait, I just can't go to college, and I can't afford to study in my life. I will definitely make a difference." I will come back to see what kind of face you are. " Say that finish a face of angry left.

As soon as he left, the fortune teller opened his eyes, looked at his back and smiled cunningly.

In the middle of the night, a cock crows at the corner. There is a young man named Wang Cheng. He is a retribution child. His parents died young, and he lived alone in the house and lived a miserable and lonely life. However, Wang Cheng is a hard worker. He gets up early every day and works hard. In a few years, his old house was replaced by a new one, and his married life was flourishing, which made people drool, especially Wu Laoer who lived next door.

It doesn't count that people in Wu Laoer Tun don't bother him. They are in their thirties, doing nothing, fooling around all day and eating and drinking freely. They steal other people's things when they leave. It's disgusting.

Being jealous of such a person has no good consequences. Wu Laoer began to want to go to Wang Chengjia to eat and drink, but Wang Cheng ate some vegetarian dishes of cabbage and potatoes every day, which made him sick. Trying to steal from his house! These big eyes of the city stared at his hand tightly and never relaxed, so that there was no chance to start, but he still didn't give up. In addition, he also found a habit in this city. Every day when chickens crow in his yard, he would get up and go to work in the fields. Wu Laoer's little eyes suddenly had an idea.

One night, Wu Laoer squatted under the window of Wang Chengjia, watching Wang Cheng fall asleep. He sneered, stifled his voice and learned to crow. Wang Zhenzheng stood up in the room.

Wu Laoer was so happy that he flicker back to his home. He just needs to wait at home for a while, and then he can go to his house after going out in the city. By that time, he can take whatever he wants, haha! Thinking about Wu Laoer, he said with a smile: When I looked at my watch, ten minutes passed. Must have been out of town.

Wu Laoer walked quickly into Wang Chengjia's yard and looked into the house by moonlight. The quilts on the bed are neatly folded. It seems that this trick is really effective. Wang Cheng must have gone to the fields.

Wu Laoer was not worried at all. He pried open the window, jumped into the house, fumbled in the house, and found nothing. He didn't give up and kept looking.

Then a cold voice said, "Brother! Why didn't you turn on the light when you were looking for something? " As he was speaking, the light suddenly lit up and the city was not far in front of him.

Wu Laoer broke out in a cold sweat and pointed to the city and said, "Isn't it ... you ... go to the fields as soon as the chicken crows?"

"Brother, didn't you find that you didn't hear the cock crow? I sold the rooster a long time ago. How can a rooster crow? " The city responded.

When Wu Laoer heard it, he was in a cold sweat, thinking that he was to blame for sleeping too dead and didn't hear any crowing, otherwise how could he have made such a low-level mistake. He sighed and said, "Brother is planted this time, but I beg you not to send it to the public security bureau, because the neighborhood relationship is long. I don't want to go to jail! " "Say that finish, I squeezed out a few tears in my eyes.

Wang Cheng said, "I don't have to send you to jail, but you have to leave me an iou stating that you owe me 1,000 kilograms of food and pay it back at the end of the year."

"One thousand jins? Don't you want me to die? "

"Well, let's go to the public security bureau now."

"Don't! I can't write yet! "

Wu Laoer obediently wrote down the IOU and went home in frustration. After that, he had to get up early and work hard in the fields in order to owe money. Although he is a little tired, every time he sees his' grain' growing taller and taller, he has an unprecedented sense of satisfaction, which enriches his life at once.

When harvesting food in late autumn, he was very happy to see that his labor had turned into full grains of rice, but the thought that these grains of rice were going to enter the granary of the city made him feel bad, but he was even more afraid of going to jail.

After the autumn harvest, he sent the grain to the city. When the city people saw his food, they smiled and said, "Brother, I don't want it. Take it back!" " ! Don't you think it's a brother who enjoys the fruits of his labor? "

Wu Laoer suddenly blushed. His eyes were red and his heart was hot. Since then, he has changed.

A girl with a broken leg had a blue sky and white clouds that day, and the weather was unusually good. I took my daughter to the park to play. When I was tired of playing, I sat on the bench to rest.

A girl with a broken leg is sitting next to her daughter. They are about the same age. My daughter couldn't help but look at her, and then she asked me rudely, "Mom, what happened to her leg?" I glared at my daughter and whispered to her, "Shut up, it's rude. You are hurting the girl's self-esteem. "

Although my voice was low, the girl heard it. She smiled without any discomfort and said, "Aunt! Never mind. " Then he pointed to his leg and said, "My mother said I was a miracle created by God. Because of my legs, I am different. My mother said I should be happy and not care about other people's eyes. "

I deeply admire her for having a great mother.

The daughter squatted down curiously and looked at her legs. The girl generously took her daughter's hand and put it on her lap and said, "Look! Is it different from yours? "

The daughter touched her leg, touched her own, nodded seriously and said, "Yes!" " "

"Isn't it amazing?" The girl asked proudly.

The daughter scratched her head and smiled and said, "Well! It's amazing. "

The girl is very happy. She took the girl's hand and said excitedly, "Come on! Shall we play? "

The two girls left the bench and came to the grass. I reminded my daughter: "Don't run."

My daughter ran after butterflies regardless of me and that girl. The girl's legs run very hard and look strange, but she keeps running, and the speed is not worse than her daughter's. I was a little worried that she might fall, so I told them to slow down.

Two children are running up. They will listen to me. I stood up nervously and tried to stop them from escaping, but it was too late. When I saw my daughter's foot trip over a stone, I jumped forward and screamed loudly.

The girl hurried to pull her daughter, and they fell down together.

The daughter stood up and cried. I looked at her body carefully, except that her knees were a little red and swollen, which was nothing serious. Then I remembered the girl. Because of her leg, she stood up slowly. I went over to help her and saw her knee bleeding, but she was strong and didn't shed a tear. I also comforted my daughter and said, "Don't be afraid! The fall is stronger, my mother said. "

The daughter seems to be infected by her strength, so she can't help but feel pain, wipe away a handful of tears and hold the girl's hand to continue playing.

In the afterglow of the sunset, the figures of the two girls turned golden. I can't help feeling that a girl's strong character comes from her having a good mother, and my daughter seems to be much more delicate than a girl. Is it because I gave my daughter too much love? I can't help thinking deeply.

Snowflake and the girl dragged their sick bodies onto the roof. Looking at the flying snowflakes, she cried. Her cry attracted a small snowflake, and it asked, "Girl! Why are you crying? "

The girl said with tears in despair, "I ... I'm sick." I spent all my savings for my sick family. My parents work several jobs every day to make money for my illness. They are too tired because of my burden. " After that, the girl opened her arms and wanted to jump.

Snowflake quickly shouted, "No, no, you can't jump. Your parents are very busy for you. If you die, it will be the greatest harm to them, and they will definitely die of grief. "

The girl retracted her arm after listening, but then stretched it out again. She said: "I know my parents will feel sorry for me for a short time, but their future life will be easy and they will not be in debt for me."

"No, they would rather you were alive. You are their spiritual pillar. Without you, they will collapse. "

The girl drew back her hand again. She looked at her home with tears and smiled sadly: "What's the use even if I don't die? I am as fragile as a clay doll and can't do anything. "

Snowflake smiled. It shook its body and said, "if I can still blossom in the coldest winter, you will know how strong I am." But if you put me in the palm of your hand ... "The little snowflake falls on the girl's palm, and soon it becomes a small water drop, and it flows to the ground along the finger, and soon the small water drop that falls on the ground becomes hard ice.

This series of changes in snowflakes made her suddenly realize, and then she muttered to herself, "Look at me, I really shouldn't have done stupid things." I should try my best to overcome my illness and help my parents do something I can. Snowflake, thank you. Teach me that since I can't change the bad environment, then I will change myself. " As she spoke, she slowly walked down from the rooftop, stood up straight and leaned against the wind ridge.

Grandma's view (Part II) Interesting things on campus (37)

There is a market near the residential area where Gao Ming and his wife live. Whenever there is a party, grandma will go to the party for an hour or two and sell the children's shoes saved some time ago. This kind of shoes sell well, because the old lady and daughter-in-law nearby all know that the shoes made by Grandma Gao are easy to wear-soft and strong, and children don't hurt their feet. So her stall is always surrounded by some women, old and young, who choose shoes for their children and buy at least two pairs at a time-children's shoes get dirty quickly and can be easily replaced by buying two pairs.

When grandma is doing needlework at home, Xiao Gaoming is most willing to help her recognize needles.

Grandma's eyes are blurred, so she has to wear reading glasses when sewing. I think it's very difficult for her. She must hold the needle high and thread the thread into the eye of the needle in the sun or light. Because of dizziness, there is more than one needle eye in the eye, which is difficult to get through accurately.

When Xiao Gaoming, who is playing at this time, sees it, he will run to get grandma's needle and thread. He can accurately thread the thread into the eye of a needle at a glance. Whenever this happens, grandma will smile happily and say, "it would be nice to have a baby's bright eyes!" " "Gao Ming always feels very sweet and proud to hear what grandma said in a favorable tone. He thinks he can help grandma.

Maybe this is his first experience of studying and working. Although things are small, there are complex factors such as initiative, fun and sense of accomplishment. -although Gao Ming was still young at that time, he couldn't think so much and understand so deeply. He had a very simple feeling, as long as he could make grandma happy.

However, the most effective thing is that he has developed the habit of loving labor, which is in sharp contrast with many other children of the same age who hate labor.

Xiao Gaoming's first simple housework is sweeping the floor. At first, he couldn't clean it at all. Grandma's evaluation was "big face". However, after several times, his hands and eyes were very accurate. "The big face is gone." Grandma said happily, with an approving smile on her face. At this time, Gao Ming is still a preschool child.

He remembers that when he was on duty for the first time in grade one, the teacher saw him sweeping the floor cleanly, and he specially praised him before class the next day, so that he could taste the pleasure after work in public.

Of course, grandma also told Gao Ming to learn to do some small washing work. The earliest washing was to wash the handkerchief yourself. When the handkerchief was dirty, grandma taught him how to wash it-carefully wipe the obviously dirty place with soap, then wash the rest many times and then rinse it clean.

Later, Gao Ming learned to wash clothes (by hand, not by washing machine), but his washing method was developed on the basis of grandma's teaching: the dirty places such as neckline and cuffs of clothes are brushed with a brush, which is cleaner than rubbing them by hand.

Gao Ming is a little older. When he was in the senior grade of primary school, his grandmother taught him to cook. Besides simple meals such as stew, porridge and rolling noodles, his favorite pasta is pancakes. He learned the whole process, from stirring, kneading, oiling and adding salt, to pancakes. He can bake soft, lively and delicious pancakes.

He not only learned to cook, but also learned simple needlework. Xiao Zhi saw Gao Ming do this with his own eyes: No matter whether clothes were sewn or socks were broken, Gao Mingcan picked up a needle and thread and mended it in a short time.

"Your work doesn't affect your study? When I was at home, my mother never let me work, just for fear of affecting my study. " After hearing many stories about how he learned to do housework, Xiao Zhi couldn't help asking Gao Ming.

"In fact, the work I do is a small part at home. Grandma asked me to do this and that just to let me learn how to do it, not to rely on me, so it won't affect my study at all. But I realize that doing some odd jobs will not only affect my study, but also improve my study efficiency. In fact, it is killing two birds with one stone. " Gao Ming explained.

"I suggest that from now on, if you haven't done anything in your daily life before, then don't do it or avoid it, just try to do it. Practice makes perfect. " Gao Ming said again.

Under the brilliant guidance, Xiao Zhi really learned a lot of working methods, which is another story.