Do you have any stories about being cheated or friends being cheated?

During this period, the topic of online marriage fraud seems to have become the focus of public attention. From celebrities to small entrepreneurs, cases of being cheated by marriage and even committing suicide are one after another.

Public opinion tends to these three aspects:

Condemn love rat/love rat for moral corruption;

Accuse dating sites of being irresponsible;

Sigh that the parties have insufficient awareness of legal rights protection, or their psychological construction is too fragile.

For women, most of them belong to these three categories:

Cheat money.

Guy is looking for the mother of the child.

Slag mens Gao Fushuai.

Please click to enter a picture description. For the first one, it's simple.

The second one is heard more and more often now. Gay is actually a group of men who are very easy to cheat marriage, because they often have many advantages that straight men lack, but they are very touching girls' hearts. For example, gentle and considerate, meticulous, pay attention to clothing and personal hygiene, and know the taste of girls' gifts.

What's more, if their families know the inside story, it is likely that the whole family will go out together, and their parents are more enthusiastic than boys. Give a gift, a large bride price, a promise of a house, etc. Not a problem. The only condition is that you will have children.

But they all have a fatal point: they are extremely indifferent to intimate relationships, or even don't care at all. At this time, they often find various reasons to disguise themselves, such as respecting girls, such as religious beliefs, and wanting to wait until marriage; Or simply play the fool and pretend to be pure, just hold hands and actively promote marriage, and then get married first.

Girls who meet this pure prince charming, please wake up. First of all, respect does not mean that there is no desire. A straight man can't have no impulse to touch his hands. Even if they don't go into the Woods every date, they are more looking forward to being alone, rather than calling their friends every date and getting together in crowded places.

In addition, you might as well check their apps, traces on the Internet, followers in Weibo, and various small movies stored in the computer. On gay dating software or forums, Weibo paid attention to many gay big V. GayV's is stored in the computer, and you can pass it by touching one.

Third, Mary Su, who suffers from princess disease, is particularly vulnerable. The overbearing president falls in love with Cinderella is usually just a porn film of female Dios. If you have never been surrounded by waves of love letters and courtiers in your first half of life, the probability that you suddenly fall in love with Gao Fushuai is similar to the probability that you are chosen by Wang Jianlin as your daughter-in-law. Don't think that "you are so special" and "you have a lot of temperament" is a sincere confession. It may be that the other party really can't pick anything to praise you.

The development of the true story is often like this: after the handsome and rich "rich second generation" married you, he euphemistically revealed that his family owed tens of millions of foreign debts in business; A well-off family, claiming that he was badly hurt by his ex, just want to find a quality man who is considerate of his wife. Infertility after a few years of marriage, found that the other party's reproductive ability is problematic; Just as the whole world was showing off the diamond ring for marriage proposal, I suddenly found that my fiance had an unlicensed wife and children in his hometown, and he was just a mistress. ...

How to break it? It's a little difficult. Lengthening the front line of being hunted, don't get caught too soon, this is of course a big killer for scammers whose time is cost. Therefore, they often like the girl who hates marriage. When the latter saw the white horse, he had already walked up in high spirits, no matter whether the prince or Tang Priest was riding on it;

Therefore, girls should start from the periphery, contact each other's old friends, relatives and mobile phones, and pay attention to all contradictions and doubts (often there are, but many victims choose not to listen, watch or believe). The most important thing is to improve yourself and expand your circle of friends as much as possible. The sooner you recognize your own market situation, the more you can develop a pair of critical eyes.

There are still many people who always say after marriage, "I was really blind to find you" or "If it weren't for you, how could I marry you?" Dear female friends, if you really feel that you have lost in this marriage, you may wish to submit their photos and materials to the dating website, indicating "divorced" and "children/childless" to see who is more popular in the market.

Many data show that the bigger the city, the more high-quality older women there are. Sometimes, a man trained by marriage and ex-wife has a certain experience and economic foundation, and as long as he is not bald and paunchy, he wins even less favor than small meat. Women with the same conditions, even if they hook up all day before divorce and want to find the other half after divorce, those spoony men may immediately disperse in a hubbub. I can't help it Love rat, who wants to find a free gun in the world too much, is irresponsible. It's okay to stay together for a few months. If I really want to marry you as a stepfather, I guess people will feel cheated.