Who is Lulu in Heartbroken Utopia?

The TV series Struggle focuses on the emotional drama of three couples. If the feelings for the South and Yang Xiaoyun are realistic, complicated and trivial. Then Hanako and Lulu are the cruelty of reality. Why do you say that? There is a scene in the struggle, I believe everyone is impressed. Lulu knelt in front of the bodhisattva by the room and made a spiritual prayer. "Dad, today is my big day, but I found that I still love Hanako, very much. But love is just a part of life. For people like me, love is a luxury. I can't be insatiable and want everything. I must know how to be satisfied. I am very satisfied now and I will be very satisfied in the future. " In fact, he loves Hanako in his heart, but as a migrant girl from the north, Hanako loves her and gives her a place to live when she arrives in Beijing. But that's all. Lulu is in charge of many things at home, including her disabled brother. What should we do about these poor situations at home? When he comes to Beijing, he must shoulder this responsibility. But to bear this responsibility, she has no ability, and Hanako has no ability to help her bear it. So her marriage is a very realistic economic marriage. Although he loves Hanako very much, he finally decided not to marry Hanako.

I still remember what Lulu said when she married Hanako, "Hanako, you are all from Beijing, but I am not. The south is a white-collar worker, and Lu Tao is a golden collar. You are a little unlucky. From the first time they asked for my ID card, I knew what I really needed. I'm just a woman. I can't do anything. So I can only rely on men. That's why I think the pig wife is my real identity. With this identity, I feel safe. " I think this scene, many people drifting north will feel sour in their hearts. A large number of people have to bow to reality in the process of marriage choice. But this kind of submission is not like a vain girl who chooses not to choose for her own food and drink. But many girls, even many boys, choose to get married because of their own burdens. When a relatively beautiful love has to bow to reality. No one feels good. But this is very helpless, and this is the reality of society. Among this couple, it is worth mentioning that Hanako came at the wedding of Pig's head and Lulu. . His girlfriend married his best friend. Hanako didn't feel ashamed and humiliated because of this. He couldn't lift his head. And he fully understands Lulu and wishes Lulu well. He also knows that he can't help Lulu change anything at the moment. So he chose to quit generously and left the pain to himself. How does Lulu feel when she sees Hanako in such pain?

Actually, I admire Lulu. I think she is the strongest heroine there. She is not as good as the other three. She has no parents to rely on when she is lost, and no rich family to support when she encounters difficulties in life. She doesn't even have a complete family. Now she only has her brother and mother. She will choose a pig's head just to find a man who loves her but can accept her brother. How many men in today's society can accept such a big drag bottle Her choice is very rational, and it can be said that it is more for the family. In fact, the pig's head is kind to her, ok, not what she likes, but loving herself more may be a woman's best choice.