How to deal with the husband and wife, how to resolve the husband?

The so-called "husband and wife" means "wife's husband" or "husband's wife". "Wife's husband" means that after a man marries her, he is either dead, injured, ill for a long time, or his career is not smooth, or his money is hard to get together, or he quarrels, or he is divorced, and so on. A "husband's wife" is a woman who is dead, injured, ill for a long time, has a bad career, is hard to get money together, quarrels endlessly, divorced, and so on.

It is very important to improve "husband and wife", numerology and feng shui. Sometimes from the perspective of numerology and geomantic omen, you can get miraculous effects. This aspect has been verified in the practice of geomantic omen for thousands of years.

First, the husband and wife room, see if there are any feng shui taboos.

For example, facing the mirror on the bed can easily lead to haggling and nervousness between husband and wife; Irregular and irregular rooms easily lead to frank treatment between husband and wife, and many strange things happen; The bedside is not suitable for life, and it is easy to have troubles, dreams and false alarms, which is reflected in the lack of patience in marriage life; It's not good for a couple's room to be too small or too big. Too small can easily lead to narrow-minded couples, too big can easily lead to weak feelings between husband and wife. There are beams on the bed, which easily leads to dull and depressing life of husband and wife; The husband and wife room is too dark, which easily leads to confusion and mutual suspicion between husband and wife; The wires outside the husband and wife's room are messy, which easily leads to subtle relationship between husband and wife and cranky thoughts; When the husband and wife's door faces the bathroom, abnormal diseases may occur, leading to bad relationship between husband and wife, emotional disharmony, and so on. Under these circumstances, we should try to change.

Sometimes living in one room feels that marriage is not smooth, so it may be better to change rooms.

Second, compare the birth dates of husband and wife to see if there is a phenomenon of cross-certification.

The first is to see if there is conflict and punishment in the marital palace of husband and wife. For example, in the male horoscope, the Japanese branch is Hai, and in the female horoscope, the Japanese branch is Si, which is called the marriage palace. Men are ugly every day, and women are ugly every day. It's called marriage castration. Generally speaking, there is no external reason for the marriage palace to punish each other. That is, both husband and wife are irrational, unable to handle their feelings correctly, and even nervous about family chores. This problem is easy to solve. As long as both husband and wife are aware of this problem, self-avoidance can effectively improve the relationship between husband and wife. If both husband and wife are punished by other life support, such as monthly support and hourly support, it will lead to discord between husband and wife and even divorce due to other external factors. This situation can be solved by analyzing the five elements of the ecliptic. But people who don't understand the five elements of numerology don't know how to do it, so they need to ask feng shui experts for guidance.

Second, both husband and wife should understand the marital problems they faced in that year, so as to attract attention, and don't do anything to ignite contradictions or increase contradictions. The tension caused by this situation is at most a time war, and generally it will be all right after that year or stage.

In the case of the contradiction between husband and wife caused by numerology factors, it is generally solved like this:

1, go to a place that suits your five elements. This is called the Azimuth Feng Shui Dafa. If the five elements belong to wood, they will develop in the east; The five elements belong to fire and go to the south to develop; The five elements of life divination belong to the soil and go to the southwest or central part for development; The five elements belong to gold and should be developed; The five elements belong to the water and go to the north to develop.

2. Living and living in an environment suitable for one's own five elements is called home feng shui solution.

3. Arranging the geomantic array of Wang Ming's hexagrams is called the material solution of geomantic array.

4. Combining the personalities of both men and women, this is the popular Feng Shui Dafa.

5, a good attitude, use your own ideas to resolve the contradiction between husband and wife, this is called psychological Feng Shui Dafa.

6. Wear ornaments to enhance or dissolve the energy of both parties, so as to avoid conflicts.

Third, choose a good wedding date to avoid unnecessary harm to the relationship between husband and wife.

1, it is more appropriate to choose leap month year. China people pay attention to the choice of wedding date, but not to leap year. Choose a wedding day, preferably in a full moon year, because it will have a good omen. Of course, if there is no "Runyue Year", there is no need to force it.

2. Avoid the March, July and September of the lunar calendar. It is best to choose the wedding day in March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months meet "Qingming", "Magnolia" and "Respect for the public" respectively, which are traditional festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events.

3. Avoid Sanniang's evil day and the anniversary of Yang Gong's death. It is said that Yuelao won't lead Sanniang to get married. Based on revenge, San Niang opposes the old moon and specializes in the wedding of new people. Therefore, it is not suitable to get married on the evil day of three mothers every month, that is, the third day, the seventh day, the third day, the eighteenth day, the twelfth day and the twenty-seventh day.

In daily life, people have taboo customs, that is, saying auspicious words instead of unlucky words, and there is also a saying that "being angry is not ugly." In taboo customs, it is especially forbidden to say or use the number "thirteen". No one needs the 13th lunar month to get married. Legend has it that a long time ago, there was a man named Yang Gong who gave birth to thirteen sons. Everyone said yes, and Yang Gong was proud of it. He often says to people, "I have thirteen sons, even if I encounter three disasters, I am not afraid." Even if one dies in twelve months and one month a year, the other son will die for me. " What a coincidence, it happened one year, which happened to have a leap month. Yang Gong's sons got an epidemic and died one after another. By the end of1February, Yang Gong's thirteen sons had all died, leaving him alone, and the scene at night was very bleak. It is said that everything that happened to Yang Gong was due to his own ugly words. From then on, people will avoid saying bad things, and once they say them, they will spit out good things. At the same time, the number "thirteen" is also considered an ominous number.

4. One principle of choosing the date should be based on the date of birth of the woman, and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries." It can be seen that the woman's choice of date is very important. If this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to marriage problems, which should not be underestimated.

5. Be sure to avoid parents' birthdays. In traditional numerology, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding days, that is, parents' birthdays should not be married. Otherwise, it's still bad for couples.

6. Registration and wedding date If you decide to separate the registration (the date when the marriage certificate arrives at the marriage registration office) from the wedding date, it is best to act in these two days. If you have to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding ceremony and banquet day. Because China tradition has always regarded this day as a real wedding day.

In addition, it is also a good thing that many people put the wedding date and holidays together, which can be described as adding joy to happiness.

In short, the relationship between husband and wife can be effectively improved through the change of feng shui environment and the dissolution of the eight characters and five elements. A couple is not terrible. As long as it is properly resolved, both husband and wife pay attention and still love each other.

The above is about how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, and it is about the sharing of feng shui. I saw how my husband solved it. I hope this will help everyone!