Positive life stories and negative stories are 200 words each.

First, the story of Amitabha and Wei Tuo

Anyone who has been to the temple knows that when he enters the temple gate, the first one is Amitabha, who welcomes guests with a smiling face, while to his north, it is Heikou.

Wei Tuo black face. But according to legend, a long time ago, they were not in the same temple, but in charge of different temples.

Maitreya Buddha is enthusiastic and happy, so many people come, but he doesn't care about anything and has no good management.

Accounts, so still make ends meet. Although Wei Tuo is the chef in charge of accounts, he is moping all day, which is too serious.

There are fewer and fewer people, and finally the incense is broken.

The Buddha found this problem when he was looking at incense, so he put them in the same temple, and Maitreya was in charge.

Pass, smile to meet guests from all directions, so the incense is booming. And Wei Tuo is impartial, comparing Pearl, putting him in charge of finance and strictly controlling it.

Close. In the division of labor and cooperation between the two people, the temple flourished.

Comments: In fact, in the eyes of the master of employment, there are no waste people, just like the master of martial arts, you don't need a nod, just pick flowers and fly leaves.

The key to hurting people is how to use it.

Second, the story of the boss and colleagues

Being a white-collar worker in a joint venture company, I feel that my ambition has not been appreciated by my superiors, and I often think: If I can meet you one day.

For the boss, I hope to have the opportunity to show my talent!

A's colleague B has the same idea. He went one step further and asked the boss the time of commuting, and figured out that he would probably be there.

When he entered the elevator, he also took the elevator at this time, hoping to have a chance to meet his boss and say hello.

Their colleague c went further. He has a detailed understanding of his boss's struggle, the school where he graduated and his interpersonal style.

, concerned about this problem, carefully designed a few simple but weighty prologue, take the elevator at a good time, and the old

After several pleasantries, I finally had a long talk with my boss one day and got a better position soon.

Comments: Fools miss opportunities, wise men seize opportunities, and winners create opportunities. Opportunities are only given to those who are prepared, and this preparation is two.

Words, not just words.

Third, the story of a madman.

A psychology professor visited the madhouse to learn about the living conditions of the mentally ill. After all, I think these people are crazy.

Epilepsy, acting unexpectedly, is an eye-opener

Unexpectedly, when I was about to return, I found my tire dropped. "Some madman must have done it!" Professor, like this

I thought angrily and started to get the spare tire ready to install.

This is serious. The man who got off the tire actually dropped all the screws. You can't get on without screws and spare tires!

The professor was at a loss. When he was very anxious, a madman skipped over and sang I don't know anything.

Happy songs. He found the professor in trouble and stopped to ask what had happened.

The professor ignored him and told him out of courtesy.

The madman smiled and said, "I have an idea!" " "He dropped a screw from each tire, so he got three screws.

Alice put on a spare tire.

The professor was pleasantly surprised and very curious: "How did you come up with this idea?"

The madman smiled and said, "I am a madman, but I am not a fool!" " "

Comments: In fact, there are many people in the world who always act differently from ordinary people because they have fun at work.

This fanaticism is hard to understand. When many people laugh at them as crazy, others may still laugh at him as a bookworm.

Stupidity and cleverness are especially a good attitude in China.

Fourth, the story of the doctor.

A doctor was assigned to a research institute and became the person with the highest academic qualifications.

One day, he went fishing in the small pond behind his unit. It happened that the director and deputy director were around him and were fishing.

He just nodded slightly. What are these two undergraduates talking about?

After a while, the director put down the fishing rod, stretched himself and walked briskly across the water to go to the toilet.

The doctor's eyes are about to fall off. Floating on the water? Really? This is a pond.

When the director came back from the toilet, he also floated back from the water.

What's going on here? Doctoral students are hard to ask, he is a doctoral student!

After a while, the deputy director also stood up, took a few steps and floated across the water to go to the toilet. Now the doctor almost fainted.

I can't help it. In a place where Jianghu experts are concentrated?

Doctoral students are also very anxious. There are walls on both sides of this pond. It takes you more than ten minutes to get to the opposite toilet and go back to work.

It's too far. What should I do?

Doctoral students don't want to ask the two directors. After holding back for a long time, they got up and stepped into the water: I don't believe undergraduates can pass.

On the water, my doctoral student can't pass.

The doctor fell into the water with a bang.

Two directors pulled him out and asked him why he had to go into the water. He asked, "Why did you walk there?"

And then what? "

The two directors smiled at each other: "There are two rows of stakes in this pond. Because it rained these two days, the water just rose below the surface. we

The position of this stake is known to all, so you can step on it. Why don't you ask? "

Comments: Education represents the past, and only learning ability can represent the future. People who respect experience can take fewer detours. A good one.

Our team should also be a learning team.

Five, the story of dumpling skin

There was a rich boy who loved jiaozi very much and ate it every day. However, he is very cunning. He only ate stuffing and lost the sharp skin at both ends.

Go to the river in the back.

The good times didn't last long. When he was sixteen, a big fire burned his whole family, and his parents died in anger. This time, he is.

I'm penniless and embarrassed to beg. The neighbor's sister-in-law is very nice. She gives him a bowl of mushy noodles for every meal. He studies hard.

You must thank your neighbor's sister-in-law when you come back from your official position.

Sister-in-law told him: Don't thank me. I didn't give you anything. I collected the jiaozi tips you lost in those years and dried them.

After that, I packed a good bag. I originally wanted it for a rainy day. I gave it back to you just when you needed it.

Big officer person thought for a long time, for a long time. ...

Comments: There is a famous March 8th theory: eight hours of sleep and eight hours of work are the same for everyone. interpersonal

The difference lies in how you spend your spare time. Time is the most affectionate and heartless thing. Everyone has the same thing, right?

It's always fair But people with resources may not be successful, and those who make good use of resources will be successful. Live during the day and develop at night,

This is the requirement for talents in 2 1 century.

Six, the story of father and son and cow

Father and son live in the mountains, and they have to drive ox carts down the mountain to sell firewood every day. My father is more experienced and drives in town. The mountain road is rugged and winding.

Teddy, his son has a good eye and always reminds him when he wants to turn: "Dad, turn!" " "

Once my father didn't go down the mountain because of illness, and my son drove alone. At the corner, the cow refused to turn, and the son used up all his money.

In this way, get off and push and pull, lure it with grass, and the cow will not move.

What the hell is going on? My son is puzzled. In the end, there is only one way. He looked around and approached the cow.

Our ears cried, "Turn, Dad!" "

The cow responded and moved.

Comment: Cows live by conditioned reflex, while people live by habit. A successful person knows how to cultivate good habits.

Habit replaces bad habit. When good habits are accumulated, there will naturally be a good life.

Seven, the story of "the strong" and "the weak"

Five-year-old Hank went to work in the forest with his father, mother and brother. Suddenly it began to rain, but they only brought a piece of rain.

Wear.

Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank.

Hank asked, "Why did my father give it to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?"

Dad replied, "Because dad is better than mom, mom is better than brother, and brother is better than you." We all will.

Protect the weak. "

Hank looked around and ran to open the poncho to block a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.

noodle

Comments: This story tells us that the real strong man is not necessarily how powerful or rich he is, but how much he has paid for others.

Help! Responsibility allows us to accomplish things, and love allows us to do things well.

Eight, the story of choosing a good partner

What kind of people do I want to cooperate with?

Someone once interviewed Bill Gates about the secret of his success. Bill Gates said: Because there are more successful people working for me.

Work.

Chen Anzhi is> here: first work for successful people, then cooperate with successful people, and finally.

Let successful people work for you.

There are many successful people, but I don't know them all my life, and I can't work for them, but let successful people work for me.

At this stage, I don't have the strength.

Only cooperation is what I like and appreciate most. I also try to take advantage of the relaxed environment and active team, and so on.

More people cooperate fairly in order to run an anti-risk enterprise for themselves in the future.

My favorite partner should have the following characteristics:

First, I don't want to.

2 1 century, the biggest crisis is that there is no sense of crisis, and the biggest trap is satisfaction. People should learn to see the world through binoculars.

Not seeing the world with myopia. Think about finding a way out for yourself in prosperity, and know how to find a way out for yourself in adversity.

Second, strong learning ability.

Education represents the past, and learning ability controls the future. Know how to learn and feel from any detail and everyone, and

You should know how to draw inferences from others. Mainly learning, in fact, is the word learning and learning. Learn once and do it a hundred times before you really master it.

Take it. Learning, doing and teaching is a complete process. Only when we reach the level of teaching can we really understand. More commonly,

Learning is an attitude. Only modest people can really learn something. The sea is the sea because it surpasses everything else.

All the rivers are low.

Third, strong action.

Only actions will have results. Different actions lead to different results. Knowing whether to do it means not knowing whether to do it.

If you have a result, you didn't do it. If you don't make mistakes, you will make mistakes, because those who don't make mistakes must not try. Wrong. Don't.

Tight, we must be good at summarizing, and then do it until the correct result comes out.

Fourth, we should know how to give.

If you want to be outstanding, you must pay first. A man who haggles over every ounce has only two pounds in his life. Without a little dedication, it is impossible to create.

Industry. Let others know that your value is greater than what you get, and others will pay a higher price.

Fifth, have a strong sense of communication.

There is no limit to communication. It is more an attitude than a skill. Of course, a good team should have the same vision, not

It can be done in a day. Need to communicate all the time, from goals to details, even to family and so on. , are the contents of communication.

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Sixth, sincere and generous.

Everyone has different positions, so it is impossible to ask for the same interests. The key is to talk openly, isn't it?

Seek perfection through injustice. Believe that honesty is the best cornerstone of cooperation.

Seven, have the most basic moral values.

Once a reporter was writing at home, and his four-year-old son clamored for him to accompany him.

The reporter was very angry, so he tore the back cover of a magazine and said to his son, "You put the world map on it first."

Qingcheng, dad will play with you. "After less than five minutes, my son came to hold his hand again and said," Dad, I'm finished. Please stay with me.

Play! "

The reporter was very angry: "It is understandable for children to play, but it is not good to lie." How can it be so fast?

Put together the map of the world! "

The son is very wronged: "but I really fought!" "

When the reporter saw it, it really happened: No? There are prodigies at home? He asked curiously, "How did you do it?"

what's up "

The son said: On the back of the world map is a person's head. I spell it backwards, as long as this person is good, the world is complete.

Yes

Comment: So be a man in advance. If a person does well, his world will be good.

As you can see, I hope that the seven characteristics of cooperation are related to age, gender, appearance, weight, educational background,

Background has little to do with ability. Because the biggest difference between people is not the above factors, but the treatment of people and things.

Have different attitudes towards yourself. There will be different creations and different attitudes.

Hank, 1 year-old, went to work in the forest with his father, mother and brother. Suddenly, it rained heavily, but they only brought a poncho. Dad gave the poncho to mom, mom gave it to my brother, and my brother gave it to Hank. Hank asked, "Why did my father give the poncho to my mother, my mother gave it to my brother and my brother gave it to me?" Dad replied: "Because dad is stronger than mom, mom is stronger than brother, and brother is stronger than you, so we will protect the weak." Hank looked around, ran to one side, spread a poncho, and blocked a delicate flower swaying in the wind and rain.

This story tells us: the real strong man is not necessarily how powerful or rich, but how much help he has to others! Responsibility can make things perfect, and love can make things better! !

2. Chen Atu is a farmer in Taiwan Province Province and has never been far away. Finally, he got an opportunity to join a tour group to travel abroad. Everything abroad is very new to him, especially joining a luxury group and staying in a standard room, which makes him feel novel. This morning, when the waiter knocked on the door to deliver breakfast, he shouted to him, "Good morning, sir!" " Chen Atu froze; What does this mean? In my hometown, strangers usually ask, "What's your name? Thinking of this, Chen Atu shouted: "My name is Chen Atu!" ! "If so, knock on the door every day for three days in a row and say loudly," Good morning, sir! ".Chen Atu also loudly replied:" My name is Chen Atu! "After a few days, he was very angry: the waiter was so stupid that he asked his name every day. Tell him he doesn't remember. What a nuisance! Finally, he couldn't help it and ran to ask the tour guide, "Good morning, sir!" " "What do you mean? The guide told him the answer, "Oh, my God! What a shame! " After returning to his room, Chen Atu repeatedly practiced "Good morning, sir!" This sentence allows you to deal with the waiter with dignity. The next morning, the waiter knocked at the door as usual. As soon as the door opened, Chen Atu shouted, "Good morning, sir!" At the same time, the waiter shouted, "I'm Chen Atu!"

This story tells us that the communication between people is often a contest between willpower and willpower. Either you influence him or he influences you. If you want to succeed, you must cultivate your influence; Only people with great influence can become the strongest in life! ! !

3. A man went to buy a parrot and saw a sign in front of it, which said: This parrot can speak two languages, and the price is 200 yuan. The sign on the front of another parrot reads: This parrot can speak four languages, and the price is 400 yuan. Both of them are shiny and cute. Which one should I buy? The man turned and couldn't make up his mind. At this moment, he suddenly found a parrot with an old tooth missing. Its coat color was dim and messy, and the price was 800 yuan! The man quickly called the boss: "Can this parrot speak eight languages?" The shopkeeper said, "No."The man was surprised. "Then why is this parrot old, ugly and incompetent? Is it worth it?" The shopkeeper replied, "Because the other two parrots call this parrot boss."

This story tells us that a real leader may not be strong in his own ability. As long as he knows how to trust, how to delegate and how to cherish, he can unite forces stronger than himself and thus enhance his value. On the contrary, many people with very strong abilities feel that no one can match themselves because they are too pursuing perfection. In the end, I can only be the best public relations staff and sales representative, but I can't be an excellent leader.

4. People from a small country came to China and paid tribute to three identical gold people. The emperor was very happy. But the people of this small country are dishonest, so they gave Emperor China a difficult problem, asking who is the most valuable of the three gold people? The emperor thought of many ways to invite a jeweler to check, weigh and watch the work ... the result was exactly the same. What should I do? The messenger is still waiting to report to the king. A great country can't even handle this little thing, can it? Finally, the old minister said that he had an idea, only to see that he had three straws with confidence, pulled out one of them and inserted it into the ear of the first gold man, and the straw came out of the other ear of the gold man; The straw inserted in the second gold man fell directly out of his mouth; And the third golden man, after the straw went in, fell into the golden man's stomach. The old minister said, "The third gold man is the most valuable!" The messenger was silent and the answer was correct. ...

This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most talkative person. God gave us two ears and one mouth to listen more and talk less. Being good at listening is the most basic quality of a mature person.

5. A said to B, "I want to leave this company because I hate it!" B suggestion: "I agree with both hands! You must give the company some color to see see! However, now is not the best time for you to leave. " A asked why, and B said, "If you leave now, the company will not lose much. You should seize this opportunity while you are still in the company, try your best to attract some customers for yourself, become an independent figure of the company, and then suddenly leave the company with these customers, the company will suffer heavy losses and be very passive, and then you ... "A felt that B made sense, so he worked hard. After more than half a year's efforts, A has many loyal customers. When we meet again, B asks A: "Now is the time, hurry up and act!" " A smiled indifferently: "The boss and I have talked for a long time and are going to promote me as assistant to the general manager. Now I have no intention of leaving for the time being ... "

In fact, this is also the original intention of B. When a person works, he always writes a resume for himself. Only by paying more than you get, and letting the boss really see that your ability is greater than your position, will you be given more opportunities and create more profits for him.

Three people are going to be put in prison for three years, and the warden gave them an achievable request. Americans love to smoke cigars, so they lit three boxes of cigars and went to prison. The French are romantic and want a beautiful woman to accompany them; The Jew said he wanted a telephone to communicate with the outside world. Three years later, the first person to rush out was an American. He saw his mouth and nostrils stuffed with cigars. He shouted, "give me a fire, give me a fire!" " "It turned out that he forgot to make a fire. Then the Frenchman came out and saw a child in his hand. The beautiful woman also held a child in her hand and was pregnant with a third one. Finally, the Jews came out. He held the warden's hand tightly and said, "I have been in contact with the outside world every day for three years." My business has not stopped, but has increased by 200%. To express my gratitude, I will send you a Schlais from Laos! "

This story tells us: what kind of choice determines what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choices three years ago, and today's choices will determine our life three years later. We should choose to get in touch with the latest information and understand the latest trends, so as to create a better future for ourselves.

7. Two people were walking in the forest when suddenly they met a big tiger. A quickly took off a pair of lighter sports shoes from the back and put them on. B was in a hurry and scolded, "Why, you can't run away from the tiger if you change your shoes again!" " ! ! "A said," As long as I run faster than you ... "

2 1 century, no sense of crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially after China's entry into the GATT, telecommunications, banking, insurance and even civil servants, which we always thought were very stable and guaranteed, will face many variables. When more tigers come, are we ready for running shoes?

8. A scholar went to Beijing for the third time to catch the exam and stayed in a shop where he often lived. Two days before the exam, he had three dreams: the first dream was that he planted cabbage on the wall; The second dream is rain. He is wearing a hat and an umbrella. The third dream is that my beloved cousin and I are lying naked together, but back to back. These three dreams seem to have some profound meanings, so the scholar quickly found a fortune teller to interpret dreams the next day. Hearing this, the fortune teller sighed in continuous shooting's thigh, "You'd better go home! Think about it, isn't it futile to grow vegetables on high walls? ! Isn't it unnecessary to wear a hat and an umbrella? ! Lying naked in a bed with my cousin, but back to back, isn't that impossible? ! ! ! "Hearing this, the scholar was disheartened and went back to the store to pack his bags and prepare to go home. The shopkeeper was surprised to see it and asked him, "Isn't there an exam tomorrow?" Why are you going back to your hometown today? " When the scholar said this, the shopkeeper was happy: "Hey, I can interpret dreams, too. I think you must stay this time. Think about it, isn't it high to grow vegetables on the wall? Doesn't wearing a hat and an umbrella mean that you are prepared this time? Lying naked in bed with your cousin doesn't mean you should turn over? " Hearing this, the scholar felt that what the shopkeeper said was more reasonable, so he was inspired, took part in the exam, and actually won a flower exploration.

9.camel

The little camel in the zoo asked his mother, "Mom, why are our eyelashes so long?" Mother camel said, "When a sandstorm comes, long eyelashes can make us all see clearly in the storm." The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our backs so camel and ugly!" " "Mother camel said," This is called hump. It can help us to store a lot of water and nutrients, so that we can endure it for more than ten days without drinking water or eating in the desert. The little camel asked again, "Mom, why are our soles so thick?" "Mother camel said," This can prevent our heavy bodies from sinking into soft sand and facilitate long-distance travel. The little camel was very happy: "Wow, we are really useful! " ! But mom, why are we still in the zoo and not hiking in the desert? "

I was born useful, but no one uses it now. Good mentality+successful teaching materials+infinite stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited, and the key is to find a stage where you can give full play to your potential.

10, porridge

Seven people once lived together and shared a big bucket of porridge every day. Sadly, there is not enough porridge to eat every day. At first, they drew lots to decide who would share the porridge, one serving a day. So every week, they are full only one day, that is, the day of porridge sharing. Later, they began to elect a noble person to share the porridge. Power will lead to corruption, and everyone began to try their best to please and bribe him, making the whole clique filled with smoke. Then everyone began to form a three-person porridge Committee and a four-person selection Committee, but they often attacked each other and quarreled constantly, and the porridge was all cold in their mouths. Finally, I came up with a method: divide the porridge in turn, but the people who divide the porridge have to wait for everyone else to pick up the last bowl left. In order not to eat the least, everyone tries to distribute it equally, even if it is uneven, you can only admit it. Everyone is happy and kind, and life is getting better and better.

The same seven people, different distribution systems, will have different ethos. Therefore, if a unit has bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem, and it must not be completely fair and open, and there is no strict reward for diligence and punishment for laziness. How to formulate such a system is a problem that every leader needs to consider.

8. always hold this ticket

Life is really interesting: if you only accept the best, you will often get the best.

There is a person who travels a lot and often can't buy the right ticket. But no matter how long or short, no matter how many cars there are.

He can always find a seat when it is crowded.

His method is actually very simple, that is, patiently looking for one car after another. This method sounds

It doesn't look brilliant, but it works. Every time, he can run from the first car to the last car.

Yes, but every time he doesn't have to go to the end, he will find an empty seat. He said that this is because not many passengers are so persistent in finding seats. Often there are some seats left in the carriage where he sits, which are connected with the carriages in the aisles of other carriages.

Boss, it's very crowded.

He said that most passengers are easily confused by the superficial phenomenon of one or two cars being crowded and don't think much.

During the ten stops, there are many opportunities to provide seats in the crowd from more than a dozen doors of the train;

Even if I thought about it, I didn't have the patience to find it Most people are easily satisfied with a small foothold in front of them, and some people think it is not cost-effective to squeeze one or two seats with their bags on their backs. They are also worried that if they can't find a seat, they will return.

The boss doesn't even have a good position. Just like some people who are content with the status quo and afraid of failure, they can only stay at the starting point without success. Most of these passengers who are unwilling to take the initiative to find seats can only stay at the beginning when they get on the bus.

Stand until you get off.

Tip: Self-confidence, persistence, foresight and diligence in practice will make you have a life journey forever.

Tickets.

9. The stone in my heart

What hinders us from discovering and creating is only our psychological obstacles and stubborn stones in our minds.

Once upon a time, there was a big stone in a family's garden, about 40 cm wide and 10 cm high. reach

People in the vegetable garden will accidentally kick the big stone, either falling or scratching.

The son asked, "Dad, why don't you dig up that disgusting stone?"

Dad replied, "You mean that stone? Since your grandfather's time, it has been put in the present, and it's.

It's so big, I don't know when to dig. If you have nothing to do but dig stones, you'd better walk carefully.

Can train your reaction.

Ability. "

After a few years, this big stone was left to the next generation. At that time, my son married a daughter-in-law and became a father.

One day, my daughter-in-law said angrily, "Dad, the more I look at that big stone in the vegetable garden, the more disgusted I am.". I will invite someone else another day. "

Move out. "

Dad replied, "Forget it! That big stone is heavy. If I can move, I will move when I was a child.

Come on, how can you stay here? "

Daughter-in-law's heart is very bad I don't know how many times that big stone made her fall.

One morning, the daughter-in-law took a hoe and a bucket of water and poured the whole bucket of water around the big stone.

10 minutes later, the daughter-in-law used a hoe to loosen the soil around the big stone.

Daughter-in-law has been psychologically prepared, and it may take a day to dig it out. No one expected that the stone would be dug up in a few minutes. Look at that.

Look at the size, this stone is not as big as expected, and it was deceived by its huge appearance.

Tips: You can't climb the mountain with the idea of going down. If your world is dreary and hopeless,

That's because you are slow and hopeless. To change your world, you must first change your mentality.

10, pursuing ecstasy

Don't think of yourself as a mouse, or you will be eaten by a cat.

1858, a rich family in Sweden gave birth to a daughter. However, soon, the child was infected with an incurable disease.

Remove paralysis and lose the ability to walk.

Once, the girl and her family traveled by boat. The captain's wife told the child that the captain had a bird of paradise. she

Fascinated by the description of the bird, I really want to see it with my own eyes. So the nanny left the child on the deck and went to find it herself.

Captain. The child couldn't bear to wait, so he asked the waiter on board to take her to see the bird of paradise at once. The waiter didn't know that her legs couldn't walk, just took her to see the beautiful birds. A miracle happened and the child was too thirsty.

Hope, even selflessly holding the waiter's hand and walking slowly. Since then, the child's illness has recovered. When the girl grew up, she devoted herself to literary creation and eventually became the first woman to win the Nobel Prize in Literature, namely Selma.

La grove.