When the family suddenly ushered in what signs, indicating that it will decline?

Everyone wants good luck in his family, but good luck does not appear for no reason, but operates with a positive attitude, which requires family members to unite as one, understand each other and tolerate each other.

A family with good luck is created by love, not by waiting and imagining. A family is like a bundle of chopsticks. As long as they support each other, they will never fail.

Once a family with good fortune has the following two problems, it is estimated that it will decline, so we must pay attention to it:

One of them is addicted to gambling.

I have a little girl who hasn't been in touch for a long time. Once she recognized me at the dinner table of a party, and we talked a lot together, and then we started talking about marriage.

Speaking of her husband, we all know that their little life is very good. Her husband cooks for her every day and treats her well at ordinary times. We have always envied them, but we didn't expect her to tell the real life after marriage at this party.

Her husband started gambling with his friends after marriage, and later owed a lot of debts. Originally, he was very happy, thinking that marriage was the beginning of happiness, but unexpectedly it was the beginning of a nightmare.

Since her husband came into contact with gambling, he began to invest a lot of money in it, putting all his children's tuition fees into it, owing a lot of money, and the debt collectors came to the door and had to sell the house back to them. He lost all his savings in gambling.

Since then, their relationship between husband and wife has been at odds, and life has been difficult day by day. It wasn't long before they divorced.

She cried and said that it would be good for her to take care of the children alone now, without worrying about those people and worrying about debt collection every day. I can see that she still wants to be by her side, just because gambling on this thing has disrupted their lives. She said sadly, if her husband hadn't gambled, maybe today's party would be the three of them.

Hearing this, I can't help feeling that gambling is really harmful. What a happy couple they used to be, but they were badly hurt by gambling.

Don't touch gambling, it is a scourge that makes people run under the bridge and will tear a lucky family apart.

Second, a partner betrayed

Loyalty and trust are the starting points of family harmony and prosperity. If a family has no loyalty and trust, then everything is meaningless.

I overheard such a story, which was heard as a story before.

The girl's name is Xiao Xiao, and she met her husband in college. At the beginning of a relationship, it's just because we like each other. After being together, they are just like conjoined twins, and their friends are joking. You two show love every day and don't care about us. Will you score sooner or later? Both of them smiled and continued to shuffle when couples spend.

I didn't expect it to be time for everyone to graduate and find a job in a blink of an eye. Xiaoxiao and both of them also found a good job, but in a different place. After all, it's hard to find a job right out of school, and everyone wants to find a job they like, so they resolutely got a marriage certificate, and then stayed in a different place for a while, and then got together after stability.

In this way, long-distance love began.

Fortunately, both of them are weekends. When they first started living in different places, their smiling husband came to her city once every two weeks, and they enjoyed it. Every time they meet, they are happy. Say goodbye rather than get married.

Later, Xiaoxiao's husband participated in a project. Because of the problem of money and time, the number of meetings between the two people became less and less, and WeChat did not talk all the time as before.

On one occasion, Xiaoxiao was paid, which happened to be a holiday. She wants to surprise her husband and see what his usual life and work are like. Xiaoxiao got on the train to her husband's city and began to fantasize about her husband's surprised expression when he saw her.

However, full of joy, she saw her boyfriend holding another woman's hand. They went into the community together. At that moment, they laughed stiff, all their illusions were shattered, and her husband cheated.

Not surprisingly, in the end, I divorced before I enjoyed the sweet smile of the married couple world. The two of them lost to different places and lost to disloyalty.

If a family wants to have good luck, both men and women should be responsible. At the same time, two people need to respect, understand and trust each other. The man should learn to bear, the woman should learn to tolerate, and both of them should stay away from all kinds of temptations. Although mushrooms are beautiful and poisonous, roses are bright and stinging.

Above all, a lucky family must support each other. They twisted into a rope with love, and Qi Xin worked together to live. If you lose your love, no matter what your previous fortune is, whether you are a family or a couple, the future will inevitably go downhill.