Views on three wives, four concubines or three husbands

No man does not want to have three wives and four concubines. As for women, I don't know about other women, but I personally just want to spend my life with a man, not three husbands and four wives. This concept has not changed among men, but the national laws do not allow them to do anything, so some men secretly engage in three wives and four concubines. As for women, in the past, women had no jobs and jobs, and they had to rely on men to live and support them. What can a man say when he finds out that a woman has three wives and four concubines? He said he was not afraid of being divorced. There will not even be a place to eat. Now women can support themselves. Who can accept that his man has three wives and four concubines? Love is selfish and can't tolerate a third party.