Your noble person is yourself first.

? I always hear people say with envious voice: this person has met a noble person, so he will have a successful career. When I say noble, I mean someone who can make you expensive.

? Then the question is, why do some people meet noble people, some people just don't, some lucky people often meet noble people, and most people can't even touch their skirts all their lives?

The most classic example in my memory is that Ding Lei found Huang Zheng because of a technical problem, and then introduced Huang Zheng to Duan Yongping. Duan Yongping became the person who made Huang Zheng more valuable, and even almost ascended the throne of the richest man.

? Duan Yongping should be regarded as a noble person in Huang Zheng, so why should Duan Yongping help Huang Zheng? First of all, when Ding Lei needs technical support, Huang Zheng can help him solve the problem. If Huang Zheng knew nothing, would Ding Lei introduce Duan Yongping to him? Even if introduced to Duan Yongping, if he is not a plastic surgeon, will Duan Yongping make great efforts to help Huang Zheng? It can be seen that meeting a noble person is not simply by luck, but mainly by strength.

If you have your own unique advantages in a certain field, you can do things that others can't do, or you have some particularly attractive qualities. With these, you are willing to help others and be good at sharing. "If you have the ability, people will naturally come."

Or take Huang Zheng as an example. Ding Lei wouldn't have asked him if he didn't have the ability to solve technical problems. If you don't show your strengths, technical influence in a group or forum, and technical advantages, Ding Lei will not find him.

Although modesty is a good habit and was once regarded as one of the Chinese virtues, it must be said that in many cases, modesty is also restricting our development. Of course, proper modesty is still necessary, but excessive modesty may lead us to be unwilling to show our advantages. In fact, as long as we have advantages, we must dare to show them. For example, if you have some good suggestions and opinions at the meeting, you can speak out boldly. If you don't tell, no one will know. Write more and share more if you like to write.

Times have changed. Nowadays, the smell of wine is afraid of the depth of the alley. In this era where the smell of wine is everywhere, it is becoming more and more important to actively show your advantages, let your fragrance float further, let more people see the wine, smell the fragrance and let more people see your value. Only by showing one's own value can one meet people with the same frequency and succeed together with the noble people, just as Duan Yongping helped Huangcheng to have a successful career and wealth rolled in, while Duan Yongping's achievements in Huangcheng were praised by the world and became a beautiful talk.