How can we change the fate of a family?

To change, we must first understand what fate is, and then we can talk about whether and how to change it.

A person's life experience includes two parts, one is what we can choose and the other is what we can't choose. We call the part we can't choose "fate", and the concept of fate is "the part of life experience that we can't choose but must experience by ourselves."

"Fighting against fate" is actually giving full play to one's initiative and striving for more choices in life.

"Holding the fate by the throat" is actually to make a positive and correct choice at the most critical moment in life.

The third family next door was ignorant and made a fortune by using the policy. Your family is poor, which is the result of fate. Xiao San is a nouveau riche, letting his son not be strictly disciplined, but you were born in a traditional family and educated your children strictly in your father's way until one day, your son sat on the bench and sentenced Xiao San's son to death. This is the result of choice. It can be seen that "choosing forever" is more important than "fate".

Since choice is more important than fate, why do you have to tell fortune?

Fortune-telling is actually a means to fight against fate. Just like a war, know yourself and know yourself. You don't even know your destiny. How do you fight it? Once you know your destiny, you can make targeted choices and strive for more initiative. Now the problem is coming again. If I had more choices, would my fate change? If my fate changes, then the previous calculation is wrong. Since it is wrong, what is the reference value? How to guide your choice correctly without reference value? This problem seems to be in a paradox.

Let's take the wealth of a person's life as an example:

The wealth of a person's life is limited, just like a water cup. Although Bill Gates is extremely rich, in fact, the wealth that really belongs to him is only the part that he has used up under his own choice. If he leaves the rest to future generations, the rest of the money will belong to his family. If it is donated to the country, it belongs to the country, but it is not his own. We will discuss the fate of individuals and families later. How big this cup is, how much wealth one should bump into. However, not all the hit wealth can be obtained, and many wealth will be missed for various reasons. The size of the cup is fixed. How much you get depends on how much you get in the ocean of wealth. The harder you work, the more you win. People like Bill Gates obviously won a full glass. Another strange thing about this cup is that it has no bottom. When a person dies of debt, his wealth is negative, which will also affect the wealth of his family.

Back to the previous question, is the fate between the third son and your son natural? Why does your choice affect your child's fate? Here we also need to know a concept: your personal destiny is a link in your whole family destiny chain. So is your son's fate. Your family will have an official at the same level as a judge in your son's generation. Whether you are a judge or any other official depends on your choice and that of your son. The small three families should be extinct by his son's generation. As for being shot, killed or accidentally killed, it depends on the choice of Xiao San and his son. Here, I want to remind those who choose to divorce that your choice will affect the fate of your family. It is not that children are worthless after divorce, but that the probability of children's promising after divorce will be reduced.

Our life is actually a cup. If the part that can be selected is water and the part that can't be selected is air, then a horizontal line will appear in the cup, and what we need to do is to make this line as close as possible to the mouth of the cup. You can't change the size of the cup. This problem is very deep and will involve sensitive topics such as Buddhism, so I won't discuss it here.

How is fortune telling applied to real life?

First of all, you should find someone at the top to do the math for yourself. It is impossible to find those charlatans who cheat money, so we can only delay the time.

Know your destiny curve, know how big your cup is, and then position your life and develop in a direction that suits you. If you are destined not to study, then you should consider learning something else after reading to a certain extent, so as not to lose reading and delay time. If you find that it is not reading material, you will not study hard. Is this right? It must be wrong. First, because you gave up the right to choose easily, you became a despised fatalist. I don't want to talk to people who have fatalism in my life. Second, reading is to arm yourself and try to read as much as you can. How much do you think an illiterate person can scoop into his wealth cup?

Take a businessman as an example. Knowing his own destiny curve, he will know when to increase investment and increase wealth, when to reduce investment and avoid losses, or increase wealth with the help of geomantic omen, so that the horizontal line in his cup will rise.

The key to all this is whether you know that your destiny is reliable. If you find a charlatan and do what he says, the result will be miserable. Verifying the forecaster's level is actually very simple. Just make your own rational judgment. Having said that, it just shows that prediction is positive and is a necessary means for people to fight against heaven.

Say a few more words about the fate of family and divorce:

Whether you believe in fortune telling or not, you must admit that children from divorced families will be affected to some extent in the future, and most of them are negative. Whether you play a good role or a bad role in the family fate chain depends entirely on your choice. Don't tell me you met the love of your life after you got married. That's extremely narrow individualism. You only care about your feelings at different times, regardless of your family and family fate.

Why are there so many divorced families in modern society? Why are so many children suffering from pain that does not belong to them? How to avoid divorce? What can we who study prediction do?

About pain, it is more accurate to explain it with Buddhism, so I won't discuss it here.

Under normal circumstances, moral people don't want to divorce after marriage. There is a marriage disaster in life, and I don't divorce for the sake of family fate. This is a struggle against fate. How can you fight?

First of all, we should know our destiny and find the most suitable constellation, which is the most basic prerequisite for a happy marriage. Forecasting is an empirical study. Our ancestors summed up the method of predicting whether a couple can grow old together through the experience of countless people matching horoscopes.

After finding someone, try to fall in love. When can we get married? When it comes to the lack of love, people usually misunderstand the sentence "Marriage is the grave of love". In fact, this sentence is correct, but there is still a half sentence behind it-"the family is the baby of marriage." Love is a comprehensive emotion, which is extremely unstable and even changes because of aesthetic fatigue. If marriage is based on love, there is no guarantee. People are

How do you know that two people have feelings and can get married? Try to do a quiz. Suppose your partner was knocked unconscious when he came home, and the good-hearted man was taken to the hospital. He didn't wake up until this morning. You don't know, the more anxious you are sitting at home. What are you thinking at this moment? Are you thinking about whether the other person is playing cards with others or having sex with others in bed, or are you sure that something has happened to the other person, or even going to the hospital one by one like obsessive-compulsive disorder? We said that you can get married as long as you can be sure that something happened to the other person. Love will only make you complain and envy, and only family can convince you that the other party will not make you anxious and will not stay out all night without calling.

It is not enough to have matching eight characters and family ties. Have you found that some people "don't lose the red flag at home, but the colorful flags are fluttering outside"? We also need a correct view of marriage, which is part of a correct outlook on life. Only a correct outlook on life can cultivate "restraint". Sometimes if you don't mess with peach blossoms, peach blossoms will mess with you. Without restraint, everything is in vain.

Marriage+affection+restraint = happy marriage.

Marriage can depend on foresight, and affection and restraint can only depend on oneself, which is also the reason for the high divorce rate now.

In fact, these are still the lowest understanding of fate. Just look at the Buddhist scriptures, where you can truly understand the meaning of life.