What does it mean to say that you are not short of money, but you can't enjoy family happiness in your later years? I am sad.

There is a destiny in life, but you should know that your destiny is in your own hands. You should take the initiative to meet, not passively accept. Even if you can't live with your son, you can still visit him regularly, and he can come to see you. As for the child's care, you can go to him or bring it to you as long as you reach an agreement with your son. As long as you work hard, I believe you will have a happy old age. This is not a very sad thing, but you think too much. Even if you can't live together, you won't be lonely. In the future, the community pension service will be very good and perfect.