Excuse me, what character is hard?

What are the characteristics of stubborn people? This life must be a perfect star, a civil and military home, selfless, rigid and flexible, able to save and release, auspicious and fierce, life is not dirty, old and restless, love to listen and win, will be divided into green and white, a wife should be diligent, and can prolong life. This sentence is guiguzi, my husband's life is in two pliers. Does his wife have to be hard?