People's fate is predestined, do you agree?

Life is impermanent, things are unpredictable, and no one can predict his own fate. Everything in the world is ever-changing and everything has a destiny.

I think fate depends on myself, not all of it is destiny takes a hand. Some things are not necessarily destiny takes a hand, and sometimes you have to rely on yourself.

I don't totally agree with this statement, because some things are unpredictable. There is a saying that my fate is not decided by heaven. I think fate should be in our own hands. If it is providence, we can only obey, or let nature take its course and not resist.

Life is the same, ups and downs, ups and downs, everyone can't predict what tomorrow will be like, so don't expect it, let it be.

Sometimes, we talk about fate, but what is fate? I think fate can't be changed. If there is a way to change it and reverse it, why not try to change it and reverse it!

At least, I don't want to accept my fate. In life, as long as there is a chance, I will learn to seize it, grasp my own destiny and take it into my own hands.

My parents' neighbor aunt, who has been married twice, makes me believe that the fate between people is doomed.

My aunt's first marriage married a primary school teacher, surnamed Yu. They gave birth to a son after marriage, but when the child was one year old, her husband suddenly fell ill. Due to the backward medical conditions in the late 1950s, she died in a hurry because she could not get treatment. My aunt became a young widow.

Just after three years of natural disasters, in order to survive, my aunt took her children to Xinjiang to make a living, and was introduced and remarried to a local man.

Coincidentally, this person is also a primary school teacher. Because he couldn't have children, he took his aunt's son as his own, so the child changed his stepfather's surname.

In the first few years, my aunt was still in contact with her ex-husband's family. Later, due to the underdeveloped traffic information at that time, she gradually lost contact. In fact, my ex-husband's sister came to Xinjiang to make a living and settle down, asking about the whereabouts of their mother and son many times.

In the early 1970s, her ex-husband's sister finally knew her aunt's whereabouts and rushed to visit her mother and son. Before going to bed at night, my aunt's current husband carried water to wash his feet. Just as he put his feet in the basin, his ex-husband's sister was startled, and then she couldn't help secretly covering her mouth and laughing. It turned out that she saw that her aunt's current husband had six toes, and her own brother, the aunt's ex-husband, also had six toes.

Originally, there were very few people with six toes. My aunt's two husbands both had six toes, and they were both primary school teachers. Isn't this amazing?

Not only that, the aunt's son later found a wife, surnamed Yu, with the same surname as his biological father.

When my aunt talked to my mother about these things, my mother cried and said it was my aunt's life.

I was surprised when I heard these things! Is it really fate? Menstruation's life experience makes me agree with this statement.

I used to believe that people's fate was fixed. When I was a child, my father often said, "Sometimes there must be something in life, and there is no need to force it in life." "There are only eight buckets of rice in life, and it is not enough to travel all over the world." These two sentences let me enter my mind and become the highest criterion for being a man.

My father believes in Buddhism. One year, he took me to the temple to burn incense. When going down the mountain, a fortune teller on the roadside insisted on making a divination for his father. I don't know, it's nothing. My father asked him with a grain of salt to tell me how many people there were in my family, and he was right. He also said that I was a student, and I had to go to school when I lost all my money, and I succeeded in the future. His father happily gave him twenty cents and then hurried home to do farm work.

Since then, my father rarely asked me to do farm work, urging me to read books and do my homework every day. I didn't expect my grades in primary school and junior high school to be in the top five in my class. After graduating from junior high school, I was successfully admitted to the top class of key high schools. 1982, I was admitted to the university, took off my agricultural skin and became a cadre who ate state grain. In retrospect, I still want to thank the fortune teller. If he hadn't said I was promising, my father wouldn't have let me study. He has already asked me to learn carpentry or work in Guangdong and other places. Of course, I'm not saying that being a carpenter and working is hopeless, but that fortune-telling changed my father and my life.

A colleague of mine, in his fifties, suffers from diabetes, heart disease, hyperlipidemia, hypertension and other diseases. Now he doesn't drink alcohol and tobacco, and the food he eats has many taboos. Western medicine continues every day, and there are not many comfortable days all the year round. He often tells me that God has given everyone many things. Before the age of 50, he lived a drunken life every day and had no scruples. He used up all the food, drink and smoke that God gave him, and there was nothing left. He's a model. Either he dies early or he limits your spending. I sympathize with him, but I think what he said has some truth, maybe it's fate.

At ordinary times, I think that many people around me are alive and well, or they suddenly died in an accident, or they suddenly became seriously ill and never came back, or they were caught by greed and put in jail. I feel that there is a mysterious force controlling them. I know a leader who is red-faced, seldom gets sick, is as strong as an ox, works hard and is very kind to his friends. Everyone admits that he is a civil servant. Unexpectedly, he just turned 55 and suddenly developed malignant pancreatic cancer. He died less than half a year after treatment. Everyone feels sad and sad. This may be fate.

In life, there are many unexplained coincidences that no one can explain clearly. So, it's destiny takes a hand. In fact, the development of science and technology has proved that there is no scientific basis for fate without an immortal emperor, a monster and a savior. I used to believe that fate was predestined, and I made excuses for my success and failure. Now I believe that fate is in my own hands, and I can change it through hard work.

I'm Nong Liang, from my home, for reference only.