Do you believe in eight-character marriage? Is the eight-character marriage credible?

Believe it or not, you are a female member of Jin, and all the conditions are excellent, but Ye Dajie, the gold medal matchmaker of Jin, was directly rejected by the man several times when she helped the girl, on the grounds that her parents actually cared about being a sheep. It's a pity that this Yuzryha sister thinks, but Xiao Ju is very wronged.

Just like a friend said: Don't look at personality, don't look at personality, because people in the zodiac and zodiac really shouldn't put obstacles in marriage and love. What age is it now? Come on! However, Ye Jie said that the actual situation she encountered when helping members find objects was actually worse. "Not only are girls who are sheep rejected, but some parents and children also have a lot of bad feelings about the age gap between boys and girls aged three and six." Regarding the related taboos of these parents, Ye Dajie said that most young people still respect their parents' opinions and directly screen out the blind date at one time, even without the procedure of meeting. "Nowadays, the life circle of young people is relatively narrow, and there is really no need to find their own objects because of some artificial taboos." Sister Ye said.

First of all, let's put aside the concept of eight-character marriage for the time being, because the things left by the older generation contain too many abstract things and condense a lot of wisdom, so it is not appropriate to comment blindly. Briefly explain why girls who belong to sheep are avoided by some people when talking about marriage. People often say that "ten sheep are incomplete", which means that nine sheep out of ten are unhappy. In history, people thought that sheep was a symbol of stability, wealth and beauty. The saying that "ten sheep are incomplete" was in the late Qing Dynasty. At that time, some people objected that Empress Dowager Cixi was a sheep and called her the Zodiac. Ten sheep and nine incompleteness were originally taken from the proverb "Ten sheep and nine blessings", which means that people born in the year of the sheep have better luck. Later generations mistakenly wrote "ten sheep and nine blessings", and "blessing" means "nothing". Over time, there is a myth that "ten sheep and nine blessings are not complete". People's misinformation, coupled with the guidance of metaphysics, led everyone to mistakenly think that women who belong to sheep can't marry.

Sister Ye said that although some parents have many taboos about finding objects for their children, in fact, in the final analysis, these are not problems. Aside from everything, as long as two people really like it, even if outsiders strongly oppose it, they will eventually come together. "For example, among our members, there are boys born in 1984 and girls born in 1990, as well as boys born in 1987 and girls born in 1990. The age difference between 6 and 3 years old is taboo for some parents, but they still got married by their own efforts. " Ye Jie said that most of the people involved in marriage and love are parents and elders. At that time, they had a low level of education and thought for a lifetime. What we need to do is to enlighten them slowly and make their parents believe in science instead of blindly following their wishes. It's not easy to meet true love, don't lose it.

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The above is about whether to believe in the eight-character marriage, and it is about the sharing of the eight-character marriage. See the eight-character marriage, is it credible? I hope this will help everyone!