The fortune teller said that the wedding could not be held within three years _ Is it true that the fortune teller said that the wedding could not be held within three years?

How long will it take for someone in the family to die before they get married?

Many times, the accident will come tomorrow, which will surprise everyone who is happy, and so will marriage. Two people who were supposed to get married suddenly had an old man died at home. Why didn't they get married on time? We all pay attention to filial piety, which is also a tradition left over from thousands of years and the foundation for people to stand on the world. However, sometimes contradictions are hard to prevent. For example, after the death of the old man, how long can the grandson get married? How long can someone in the family not get married? Now everyone seems to be watching whether and when the old man can get married after his death.

First, can an old man get married at home after his death?

1. It is stipulated in many areas that children and grandchildren need to be filial after the death of the elderly at home, but the key to filial piety is children.

During the period of filial piety, that is, within three years, it is forbidden to hold big happy events to prevent weddings and funerals. That is, after the death of the old man in the family, the younger generation can't get married for three years.

3, but it is also a necessary and sufficient condition, that is, if you can get married within the first three months of filial piety, it is also possible.

The above are some old customs in marriage customs, but with the opening of ideas, many areas do not pay strict attention to filial piety. However, we should observe at least one hundred days of mourning, wear mourning clothes every day for one hundred days, avoid wearing brightly colored clothes and trousers, and not go to leisure and entertainment clubs to overeat. Until the end of three months, young people are free to get married and can choose whether to get married or not.

Second, how long can people get married after death?

1, three years

In some areas that attach great importance to Confucian culture, people think that people can't hold a wedding for three years after death.

2. 1 year

In most areas, it is generally necessary to observe filial piety for one year after the death of a family member. However, if you are ready to get a marriage certificate before, just let nature take its course. Otherwise, if the wedding reception is delayed, the loss will be very great. If the time of family members' death is close to the time of their own marriage, then _ still be cautious.

3, one hundred days

Some areas pay attention to filial piety _ some areas pay attention to it, and it is generally impossible to hold a wedding in one day. Everyone thinks that when people die, they will go to another area for daily life, so people in the world should stay happy. After all, old people want to see their offspring happy when they are alive.

4. Pay attention to three years of filial piety.

(1) Ancestor Post

If you want to write calligraphy on red paper, you can use some golden words on red paper, otherwise it is disrespectful to the dead old man.

(2) Reject bright red objects

Within three years after death, people can wear red clothes, light red candles and hang red lanterns.

(3) Don't post couplets/double happiness words/blessings.

In the process of the Spring Festival, you can't post couplets, double happiness and blessings. How long will it be before you can get married after someone dies in your family? If you want to paste couplets, you must write them on red paper with white characters on a black background, indicating that the family is mourning.