How to see if birthdays are worthwhile?

Love is what everyone yearns for. If there is no love, you can get it. I got it, but I was worried about losing it. How to see the quality of marriage from the eight characters? How to treat birthday marriage? Marriage is related to both men and women, and people have different views on marriage between men and women, which makes it difficult to adapt. One of the most popular sayings in the market is that men and women should not get married at the age of six. For example, a man born in 1950 found a girlfriend born in 1956. The age difference between men and women is six years. If his elders knew about it, they would probably object, saying that the six-year difference between men and women would conflict and be unsuitable for marriage. Where did this statement come from? Does it make sense? In fact, this statement comes from the twelve branches, and every six places must be mutually exclusive. For example, 1950, the ground branch is a cloudy year, the yin belongs to the tiger, and the five elements belong to the wood, while 1956, the ground branch is a monkey, and the five elements belong to the gold. When Jin Mu comes into contact with each other, they will inevitably repel each other. Similarly, Jin Kemu will be pushed up by six years, that is, 65,438. However, when we approve the eight characters, we must look at the overall cooperation of the eight characters in order to talk about restraint. Can we speak out of turn about good or bad just by relying on the contradictory words of that year? This is obviously unfounded, but why has it been circulating for so long? An ordinary people can't delve into the dialectical theory of eight characters and five elements. In other words, not everyone knows fortune telling. Secondly, there are very few eight characters. After the dialectical analysis of the five elements and eight characters, if the annual support happens to be the only one who uses god, then this use of god is undoubtedly equal to the penis of the sun god, so the penis can not be rushed, and every rush will hurt. Therefore, only in this special case, if you find a spouse who is six years older than you or six years younger than you, the other person's one-year maintenance will be washed away, which is really unfavorable. Therefore, combining the above two situations, ordinary people will rule out all factors that may have six reds just in case, and this statement that men and women are six years old and cannot get married has been handed down. In fact, real marriage is a very complicated and meticulous matter. There are many statements and types recorded in the book of life, which cannot be solved by one or two simple principles. Moreover, fortune-tellers used to talk about marriage by magic evil spirits, such as noble family, broken bone marrow, iron broom, six evils, eight defeats, peach blossoms, safflower, chaos, flying, great defeat, loneliness and other evils, all of which were named after the relationship between one and two characters in the eight characters, such as the word "annual support for life" and "monthly support", which are hard to compare with. However, for ordinary people who lack numerology knowledge, after being scared enough by these ignorant fortune tellers, they obediently listened to their mercy, and then hit the snake with the stick, saying that they would help you change your fortune, choose a date, resolve and so on. And all over the sky, asking for money and cheating. The author once passed a street fortune teller. Two rural-looking women squatted in front of a fortune teller and listened to the fortune teller in panic. I don't talk about the restraint of the five elements in the eight characters at all, what I like and what I don't like. I will tell them what I have done, what I have done, and I will teach them how to change their luck, how to resolve it, and then make an offer all over the sky. No wonder the reputation of Destiny Journey has gone from bad to worse, and it has almost become a tool to cheat money and color. One of the purposes of writing some numerology articles is to let the world have a correct initial understanding of the real numerology knowledge, so as to avoid credulity and blind obedience to the nonsense of those black sheep. It's not enough for a husband to tell people good or bad. How can he judge a disaster just by saying the word year and month? So, how should we treat marriage objectively and correctly from the eight characters? Some smart readers, after reading the article "How to Look at Business Partnership from Eight Characters" written in the last article, will think that if the partnership is changed into a marriage relationship between men and women, the principles expounded in the last article are basically applicable to the choice of marriage between men and women. That is, when the five elements of life are taken as the principle of restraint, those that can be adjusted should be taken: if men hit the five elements of wood, they like earth and gold, and they match women, then the five elements of gold and earth will flourish and they like wood. Or the five elements of women's life are filled with less water, and they like to make golden water. They can be matched with the golden water of men's life, which can blend and adjust each other, and the husband and wife love each other and be rich and happy! If a man hits the five elements of gold, there will be more weak fire, and he likes the creation of gold water, but it matches the life of a woman. Or women hit the five elements, the soil is weak and the wood is strong, and they like earth and gold. If you match it with a man's life and wood, you will help the murderer, but you will have more families and be poor! It can be seen that when a man and a woman get married, they must watch the five elements of the whole life together, so that they can learn from each other in detail and the fate of life can be tested without any discomfort! The above principles are indeed the best chance for men and women to get married. I have also helped others see countless marriages, all of which have been tested. The application of the above principles has made great contributions. It is also strange to combine his parents' lifelong marriage. If some readers have read and remembered the article "The First Trial of Knife (Part II)" published in issue 14, it is said that the wood in my father's eight characters is too strong, and it is strong from the wood, while the wood in my mother's eight characters belongs to the five elements of weak soil and strong wood, and the soil and gold are born together. Therefore, the wood that is too strong in the father's eight characters is not just for the mother's eight characters. The horoscopes of both sides have no power to adjust and help evil, so the family has changed a lot in life. They are not only rough and poor, but also quarrel and spit almost every day. When they were young, they felt very uneasy and miserable. They didn't know what to do until they learned numerology. They suddenly realized that everything was fate! As mentioned above, how to judge marriage from the horoscope of both men and women, but how to judge the quality of their marriage if only from the horoscope of one party? Since marriage is determined by the past, how can this fate be seen in the eight characters? Because many fortune tellers are unmarried and have no other birthdays, how can we predict their future marriage? It turns out that in the eight-character theory, the male life has the so-called wife star and wife palace, and the female life has the husband star and husband palace. A man's wife star is a fortune star in the eight characters. If you look at the five elements to which this wealth star belongs, you can infer the likes and dislikes of the wife star in this eight-character character. Because the theory of destiny first discharges the eight characters, and then through the dialectical analysis of the eight characters and five elements, the likes and dislikes of the Japanese Lord are brought out. If the positive fortune star is the five elements that the Japanese Lord likes, his wife will help him; On the other hand, positive fortune stars are the five elements that Japanese hosts are jealous of, so having a wife is not helpful to others. A woman's husband star is the official star in the eight characters. If the official star belongs to the five elements that the Japanese Lord likes, it will be helpful to her husband. On the contrary, if the official star is the five elements of the Japanese taboo, it will help her husband less. The husband's palace and wife's palace refer to the position where the sun sits. If someone's birthday is Wu Jia, A is for himself, and it is called the sun, and the afternoon when he sits down is the house of his husband (or wife), because the afternoon belongs to fire, then we can see whether the fire in this afternoon is happy or taboo for the sun, and basically we can see whether his destiny takes a hand marriage is happy or taboo. Therefore, the most important step in judging life is to take out the happiness and jealousy of the Lord and know the likes and dislikes of life before going on. If happiness and jealousy are wrong, they are all wrong. Therefore, the Book of Life says that choosing and using God is the basis of judging life, and this kind of happiness and jealousy is dialectical according to the overall eight characters and five elements. For example, a man who created life celebrated his birthday in Wu Jia. If he was born in summer at noon, summer is a fire, the force of the moon accounts for 40% to 50% of the overall situation, and it is a fire at noon, then the proportion of fire in fate is already very heavy. If the proportion of golden water in the year and month is too small to balance the fire that has already accounted for a large proportion, then this eight-character hit belongs to it. This golden water is the god of life, and fire is a taboo. Looking at the husband's (or wife's) palace now is noon fire. In order to prevent God from entering the husband's (or wife's) palace, it can be said that marriage can't help in this life, and it can also be seen that the lifelong marriage born in this life is debt collection, so we must be cautious about marriage. On the other hand, Wu Jia also has a birthday, because it was born in the middle of the night when it was freezing in winter. It was born in the middle of the night. There is much water in winter, and it belongs to water at noon. If the rest of the words are matched, there is still too much water, then this life can be judged as liking fire and avoiding gold water. The husband's (or wife's) palace thus built is noon fire, and XiShen enters the husband's (or wife's) palace. It can be said that with the help of the husband (or wife), the relationship between husband and wife will be harmonious and happy. It can also be seen that the old marriage in this life is to repay kindness. Even if you are blind and dumb, you will find a good couple. However, some horoscopes have no positive fortune stars or official stars, especially from the perspective of strength or special pattern. There is only one line in the whole world, or two lines prosper and the other lines are missing. Can't you find a husband or wife in these eight characters? Not exactly. Because of the eight-character theory of marriage, it is necessary to synthesize all aspects of information. The likes and dislikes of zhengcaixing and guanxing are just information, which is far less important than the husband's palace or wife's palace. In other words, the couple's palace is more important than the couple's star. Therefore, if you can't see the fate of husband and wife in the eight characters, then talk about the likes and dislikes of husband and wife's palace. But many times, in a constellation, the wife star and the wife palace are not the same, that is, they have different likes and dislikes for the Japanese Lord. For example, they find it a pleasure to beat their wives' stars, but their wives' palace is jealous of immortals, so it can be said that their marriage is not worth the candle; If the wife star is taboo, but the wife palace is pleasant to use, that is to say more than the loss, because the wife palace is more important than the wife star. The same is true of a woman's life, but it's just a husband's palace. If in a constellation, both husband and wife stars and husband and wife palace are taboo, then there must be something wrong with the marriage of this constellation, so we must pay attention to how to resolve it. On the other hand, if in a Chinese character, the couple's palace and the couple's palace are both XiShen, congratulations. If you go to them with your eyes closed, you will find a good wife, or a good husband, because this is a good result of your past life, and a thousand miles of marriage is a thread. When you were born, it was convenient to catch up and repay you. In my fortune-telling career, even in my own marriage, I have fulfilled this matter countless times, and I can escape the above principles almost without exception. When I first started out, according to this principle, sometimes I found that 10% or 20% people did not realize it. Who knows that a few years later, the people who had calculated it at the beginning were found back, and they all said that in the later years, as they said at the beginning, they were all realized. Shortly after I came out, I calculated it for a middle-aged lady. Obviously, the husband's palace is a taboo, so there will be barriers in marriage and we must be careful. But the lady said, no! Husband and wife have always lived in harmony. My husband is ten years older than her. As a successful business owner, he is very accommodating to her. I can only tell her to be careful. Who knows, three years later, she came to me again, took out the tape I calculated for her in those years, and said that all the calculations about her marriage in those years had been realized, and now she is divorced. Another friend's relatives invited me to her house to do a batch of calculations. After the eight characters are arranged, the official stars are willing to use them, and they are officials and nobles. Good luck all the way. He should have a successful career and a position. The only flaw is the jealousy of the husband's palace. According to the principle that the husband's palace is more important than the husband's star, his marriage still lost. But her husband was there at that time, and she belonged to the honest Muna. Naturally, she is ugly and indulges in everything. After we entered the room, she ordered her husband to make tea and get a cup, and then asked him to go shopping and cook. Obviously, she is the head of the family, and her husband indulges everything. Why is the marriage unhappy? But I know that fate depends on arguments, not looks and senses, so I bluntly say: you are all right, your work is smooth, your career is satisfactory, and you have a position. The only thing I'm not satisfied with is that you think your marriage is not ideal. A stranger from strange bedfellows, husband and wife, is suspected of separation, and they are patient in everything ... At this point, her face is flushed, and I've had enough. After I came out, I asked my friends, if I didn't read the eight characters, I really couldn't see what their home would be like. What happened? The friend said: You were right just now. She is really all right, but she is not satisfied with her marriage. She has been clamoring for a divorce several times, because she thinks her husband is too Mu Na, too honest, too inactive, too plain and not funny enough. But for her parents' opposition and her husband's gentle personality, she never dared to quarrel with her. I'm afraid she got divorced a long time ago. Oh, my god, will this also be a reason for divorce? It can be seen that if a person's husband [wife] is in a bad position, there will always be ways to make you feel unhappy in your marriage and let you pay off the debts you have owed for a long time. If both husband [wife] and husband [wife] are unfavorable in a character, is it doomed that your marriage will be unhappy and cannot be changed? Don't! So, how can we change? First of all, we should understand that marriage is the cause of previous lives. If a person is really unhappy in marriage, it is necessary to understand that it is to pay off the karma owed in the past. Then, in the eight-character numerology, when the karma is paid off, most of them should be when they are unlucky. Once the karma is paid, it is also reflected in the eight characters. It is time to make good luck and they will have a chance to change. Of course, everyone owes different debts, that is to say, some people owe 50 thousand and some people owe 500 thousand when they borrow money from the bank to buy a house. Some choose to pay off 15, and some choose to pay off in 30 years. Some began to pay back in the early stage, some did not pay back in the middle stage, and some did not pay back in the later stage. For example, college students apply for loans from the government when they are studying, and some of them will be paid back when they graduate and work. Therefore, in marriage, some people have been married for less than a year and a half, and they make a fuss and have no peace; Some people 10 years, married for 8 years before the emotional crisis, the other third party stepped in, stirring up darkness and dying; Some people don't turn over until their old age. Peach blossoms will not hesitate to abandon their wives and children and find new lovers when they get old. There is still a lifetime left, and I will pay it back in the next life. So now, once people's marriage lights up, they immediately separate, divorce, walk away and find the next one. In fact, his/her marriage is not good, so he/she is required to repay the debts owed. When the debt is paid off, he will be comfortable for the rest of his life or the next life. However, people nowadays are becoming more and more ignorant. They only see that once asked to pay their debts, they will quit. As a result, it will not be finished in this life, and it will continue to be returned in the next life. Marriage in the next life will also be very troublesome. This is why China ancient society and the elderly did not advocate easy divorce. Nowadays, people talk a lot about personal freedom and women's liberation, which has caused the high divorce rate, the decline of family and ethical values and the increasingly unstable society. The author once counted an acquaintance. In the eight characters, Fuxing and Fugong are both jealous of gods. It can be seen that her daily work is very stressful. In addition, she had been unlucky until she was 33, so her marriage broke down and she was often oppressed by her husband for no reason. Fortunately, after middle age, I worked well and lived comfortably in my later years. It turned out that when she was an educated youth in the countryside, her father ordered her to marry a local overseas Chinese rural child who was three years younger than her. After three days of marriage, there was friction, and then it developed into grandma and aunt bullying her. Quarrel has been a common occurrence for her for many years, and she often punches and kicks each other until her front teeth fall off. Coupled with hard work in the countryside, I was beaten and scolded when I came home, and I wanted to die many times. Later, after the establishment of diplomatic relations between China and the United States, the whole family was able to get out of the United States, but it was still intensified. Men even have a chance to have sex, and this hellish marriage lasts 16 years. In the early years, when educated youth went to the countryside, she asked III to tell her that she had been a mountain thief in her previous life, and of course she had done many bad things. She also pointed out that when she was a mountain king in her last life, she once stripped a poor old man's cotton-padded jacket off in the mountains, so she suffered in her life and was not married at that time. So she was tortured for no reason after marriage, and she gritted her teeth and stood up as a debt. Until the age of 40, her husband complained that she was three years younger than her husband, with only three daughters and no son, so he filed for divorce and said that he would go back to the mainland to find a young unmarried woman. She was very angry and wanted to break up. At the end of the road, I went to a witch for divination. The witch said: if the old one doesn't go, the new one won't come, so why insist! A word woke her up. She felt that finding any man in the street would be better than her current husband, so she resolutely agreed to divorce, took three daughters and paid off the first mortgage. Less than a month after the divorce, the man immediately flew back to the mainland and married a young unmarried woman. It's time for her to pay off her old debts, and her luck has changed. When her brother learned of her divorce, he introduced her to an unmarried man in the mainland. A few letters have been solved. She flew back to the mainland and married the man, and immediately applied for a visa. Within a few months, she and her new husband returned to America and started a new life. Up to now, her second marriage has lasted 13 years, and has been living well. After remarriage, she gave birth to a son, completely getting rid of the unfortunate shadow of the last marriage. Why is there such a big difference before and after her second marriage? Why can she get out of an unhappy marriage? There are three factors: the first factor is that women hit trees too much and don't have enough water, so they like to use gold water; However, her ex-husband was born in summer, and the fire was too heavy. Therefore, the fire hit by her ex-husband not only did not help her, but also helped her hit enough water. Therefore, the eight characters of both sides could not complement and adjust each other, but also helped each other, which also doomed her early debts. Her remarried husband was born in autumn, and the hit itself was too much golden water, which made her happy. Therefore, if it matches her horoscope, the extra golden water from the male hit can make up for the lack of water in the female hit, while the female hit. This is a major factor. The second factor is that the woman's husband's palace is taboo, and the ex-husband's wife's palace is taboo, both of which are taboo, so the unfortunate marriage is inevitable. The husband-and-wife palace that she remarried later was the Western God, and it may be that his wife helped, so the bad influence of the husband-and-wife palace was alleviated. The third factor is that a woman's worst luck is in her early years and begins to get lucky in middle age. Later, her husband was unlucky in his early years, so he never got married until he was in middle age. Therefore, both parties are lucky to get married, and it can also be seen that the debts in their previous marriage have been paid off, so they have changed from a doomed personality. Of course, her unfortunate marriage 16 years ago has paid off the unfavorable debts of the husband's palace, which is also a very important factor. This can be judged from the good or bad luck. If you don't return it at all, it is absolutely impossible. Otherwise, the eight-character fortune-telling is not accurate and will not spread to today. Tip: You can't generalize everything. No matter how good the theory is, there will be imperfections. What this article says is for reference only and cannot be regarded as absolute truth.