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I am a 27-year-old boy. I am introverted and can't chat. What if chatting is boring?

Actually, there are skills in socializing. As long as you have the right ideas, you can have a steady stream of topics. We can create an opportunity to start a topic in the following five ways.

First, find common interests.

Starting from common interests is the best way to start a topic. By browsing the content in each other's space, you can get a preliminary understanding of each other's life and preferences. If you find many travel photos in his space. Then you can talk about his position in the photo. For example, I have been there, and an interesting thing happened at the beginning. If you find that there are a lot of reading experiences in his space, then you can talk about related philosophical issues according to some experiences, and even connect with the current hot spots to deepen the topic, so that the three views of each other can resonate in the communication process.

Second, the problem heuristic method

Humans are usually curious about some special problems. By asking questions, you can stimulate each other's curiosity and make them expect your answer. So it will effectively enhance the initiative to communicate with you. Of course, it will be better if this question can be related to the content of another space. Because human beings are always more interested in things related to themselves. For example, if you see many photos of travel in the other person's space, you can ask him, "Do you know what are the three taboos of traveling now?"

Third, the advantage display method

If you are a person with good writing or good voice or high face value. Then you can send your work or voice or your own photos to each other to get their favor. When the other person is impressed by your charm, they will be more willing to take the initiative to communicate with you further.

Fourth, thermal empathy method.

Communicate on hot issues in the current situation. Generally, it will resonate and open the topic. For example, did you do nucleic acid today? Are there many people waiting in line? Has the epidemic affected your career? For these common problems, they will certainly resonate and are willing to further communicate with you and express their views.

Verb (abbreviation of verb) information interpretation method

By understanding each other's space. Find a point to guess. Then ask the other person if it is what you guessed. Even if the other person's space is blank, you can find the elements of asking questions from nicknames.

For example, another person's name is Mu Sen, so you can ask another person, does the fortune teller say he is short of wood? If the other person has an English name, you can ask the other person, are you a foreign Chinese? Or have you ever been at school? If the other person's name clearly expresses a kind of depression, then you can ask, is there anything unhappy recently? You might as well tell me that I am willing to be your tree hole.

Although different people will interpret different information differently, if you interpret it well, it will make the other person feel that you are his confidant, thus opening the topic and willing to chat with you further. In short, I hope you can learn more social skills and use them flexibly. Gradually, your mind will become active and you will naturally know how to communicate with the opposite sex happily. ?