This is life! -What's the difference between fate and submission?

The so-called "submission" is not a negative attitude, cowardice and compromise. The book points out that submission means letting go of personal likes and dislikes and letting life be the master. "The real submission is to bravely put down yourself and fully embrace the changes now. Then, we will see all kinds of unexpected surprises in the life arrangement. "

-Michael Singh

Surrender experiment: the journey from hermit to CEO of listed company makes life at the helm.

Fate refers to fate, so what is fate?

Fate is the sum total of various factors that have direct or indirect relationship with people in their living environment.

Krishnamurti said that the whole process of being restricted and drawn by a particular culture or civilization can be called "fate". Therefore, fate is the sum of my inner personality, traits, fears, desires and other things, and it is the interaction with external people and things.

Many people say that my life is like this, but they don't see that it is caused by a certain personality of "self" and blame everything on fate. This is destiny. Fate will only keep flowing in causal karma.

Surrender means going with the flow, which requires a high degree of insight. Only by seeing clearly the relationship between "self" and the outside world, jumping out of "self", seeing clearly the main mode of life from a higher angle and following the flow of life can we get rid of the entanglement between "self" and the outside world and accept anything in life. The fundamental difference between the two lies in perception.

Fatalism people don't realize why they have caused such a result. If they go with the flow, they can clearly see what kind of influence their personality, persistent fears and so on will have and what kind of results they will have. For example, a mother always complains that her children don't come to see her often, and her mother goes to tell her fortune. The fortune teller said that her mother's life had no children's life, so her mother said, "Yes, that's my life!" " This is destiny.

Usually fatalistic people don't look at themselves and make changes. If the mother realizes that she is grumpy and always borrows money from her children, quarrels with them, or even breaks off the relationship, and then makes changes, then the children naturally like to be close, and they can visit less when they are busy, or they can be happy! Another example is a divorced woman who resents her ex-husband, denies her marriage, and has never been married since, regretting her bad life and not meeting the right one. This is destiny. If she can make clear the differences and similarities between her previous marriage and her personality, keep open, and give it to life when she meets or doesn't meet, this is a life of resignation.

Therefore, to have the wisdom to follow the flow of life, we must first cultivate a clear sense of self. The former is just self-escape, and the latter is surrender after awakening. There is a big difference between the two, so don't be careless!

Finally, I attach an article about the submission of a Buddhist, God's plan and mine.

God's plan and mine.

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My plan is to go out and climb mountains.

God's plan is rain;

So I changed my plan-sitting indoors,

Of course, I can stick to my plan, but that will be a bit troublesome.

I have my plans,

God has a plan,

I can make my plan,

But God's plan is bigger than mine.

I like my plan-

That brilliant, magical and powerful creation;

But I love God more-

Its plan is more grand, perfect and incredible.

I can't understand God's plan,

I don't want to change it, transform it, change it,

I just need to understand it. I found that,

It's better to accept God's plan than mine.

02

I submit to god,

Surrender to God is a perfect life experience.

I can plan to replace god's with mine,

But how much pressure will that bear?

I am a subject of God,

I followed it—

I will change when it is time to change, and I will never force it;

I insist on being consistent with it.

My plan is to reply to my friend's email,

God's plan is to rest.

So I readily accepted God's plan,

Enjoy another job it temporarily assigned to me: rest.

I like God's plan better than mine.

So I don't have to stick to mine.

I relaxed my plan,

If I fail, I accept God's better.

03

A plan, if successful, represents providence;

If it fails, it also represents providence.

I am not immersed in the success, failure, joy, sadness and joy of my own plan.

I live in the certainty, authenticity and mirror-like clarity of reality.

Reality is the face of God, the expression of God,

Whenever I want to know God's will, I just have a look.

I always like to watch its eyes move,

I'm not addicted to my dreams.

I have my plans,

God has God's plan;

But people are not as good as heaven,

So I stopped calculating and looked at God's abacus.

Why should I have my own way?

What am I trying to prove? Show what? Express what?

This is all self-deception,

I would rather become a tiny drop and fall into the ocean of existence.

Follow the whole sea movement, without myself!

04

Even if I have a plan,

My plan is also part of God's plan;

I don't think I can exist beyond God,

Unless I'm extremely confused.

I'm not confused, I woke up,

Therefore, I prefer the idea of God.

God said there was wind, so I joined the wind.

God said it was raining, and I was in the rain.

Only a fool would go against God.

Follow god. You don't have to worry about yourself.

Everything becomes peaceful and natural;

How many people are happy and beautiful,

Are treasured in this great providence.

God's plan is always successful,

When I joined its plan—

I've never failed,

I always love God's plan more than mine,

I am a believer in it, and I am a believer in reality!

Xiaoyuhe

Born in Taiwan Province Province, 1972, he is a senior psychological counselor, hypnotist and explorer with a deep mind. ? Because of the loss of childhood and her mother's experience of recording her suicide note, she was imprisoned in the abyss of depression for a long time, but she had a nightmare with no way out. She took her through fortune telling, philosophy, religion and so on. But she can't escape. After the attempted suicide, she vowed to find a better way of life. From the entrance of psychology to meditation, she went deep into her own consciousness, found herself, and took off her coat layer by layer. Finally, she "saw" life and realized that every stage of life is leading the way and leading us to settle down in life, so she sorted out what she had learned, shared her "life mentality" and lived with everyone.

Figure: Source petal net.