The fortune teller said that I got into trouble at the age of 22, and now I feel all kinds of bad luck.

There is no place for misfortune and happiness, and what people call is also. Misfortune and happiness are neither masters nor gods. Doesn't mean that he will bless you if you eat the pig that feeds you. If there is no support, ghosts will come to you. That is empty talk.

"It never rains but it pours", ghosts and gods can't be your master, nor can gods and bodhisattvas be your master. Only people have their own ideas. The so-called "only people call themselves" means that you call yourself. So all our experiences in life are strictly reflected, such as pain, happiness, trouble and so on. They all called it by themselves. Heaven is such a thing. Heaven is like a net, everywhere, just invisible, with true wisdom and no domination, but not natural or physical. In China's idioms, you can often see these two sentences: "Skynet is long, but it is sparse."

In fact, the biggest problem here is our concept problem, which is our problem. Because we have formed such a habit of complaining from the beginning, everything is pursued outward, and we don't know how to look back and reflect. We always want to change others or the outside world, but we don't know how to change ourselves. Because the outside world cannot be changed, or it is difficult to change, the only thing that can be changed is ourselves.

Therefore, as soon as we feel so unlucky, we will take corresponding "measures" to deal with our so-called "adversity" or trap, and always try to escape from it. The result is just the opposite. The farther you run, the deeper you sink, and you will never get rid of it. In this way, you will naturally fall into a vicious causal cycle, and you will fall into the quagmire of being misunderstood, framed, designed and so on. People are unlucky, not by looking at names, constellations and constellations. It's what this man did.

Some people suspect that people who have never done a good thing have done many bad things, but they live so rich and happy. What is the reason? When Sima Qian wrote Biography of Boyi, he also raised a question: "It's impossible to do a good job with heaven to reward hard work" and said, "I'm confused, and [t m 4 ng] said that heaven is evil, not evil". However, when he wrote this article, he did not give an answer to this confusion, but only asked a question for people who read his article to think for themselves.

When it comes to religious philosophy, people often ask such a question: religion is about right and wrong, good and evil; However, some people are good people who do good deeds all their lives, but they suffer the most and suffer the most. Even Sima Qian, who wrote historical records, had such doubts. Sima Qian was severely punished and tortured all his life in order to give Li Ling justice. He said in The Biography of Boyi Shu Qi, Is the so-called Heaven Road true? Is it fake? I don't know. There are many good people in society who suffer all their lives, while those bad people live comfortably and everything is fine. The worse people are, the better life is.

The Buddhist answer is simple: someone is a bad person in this world, but the reason why he has such a good situation is because his good deeds in his last life have not been finished; The bad things he did in this life will be solved when he is full of evil. From my personal life experience, Buddhism is right.

Or some people say that this can only be heard, and can't be seen in the last life and the next life! As long as we study this problem from the reality of our lives, we will understand that "there is no door to wealth, and people call it themselves." Because of my strict introspection, I will find that the biggest blow is the biggest blessing. If I don't get the biggest blow, I will probably die. Of course, living is not necessarily good! It is sad to live too long, although most people think that longevity is also a blessing.

From these many reasons, we can understand the meaning of what Laozi said: "The skynet is long, but it is sparse without leaking". There is no meaning, no dominance, no standards, but there are big principles and standards; This truth is the most profound truth in any religious philosophy. Simply put, it is the law of cause and effect, the cause of one's own creation, and the result of one's own nature, and no one can escape. -"Old He Zi said"

I have seen many people's life experiences, and the retribution is fast, which seems to be faster than computer calculation. In fact, many people are true, but the people who are reported don't understand it themselves. Therefore, there are four popular sayings in China society: "One good deed deserves another, and another evil deserves another. It's not that you don't report it, but it's not the right time." Everyone loves to say it. -"Mencius devoted articles"

Confucius said: Who can't leave the house? He Moyus Knife Master!

Although Confucius lamented the times so much, he thought it was right to take the right path. Gentleman should not bow to reality, the final victory, the final success, or belong to the right path. For example, he said, "Who can leave the house?" The door in the gate is a resident. He said that anyone who wants to go out can go out without going through the door. Only when you are out of the door can you embark on the right path. People should take the right path, go astray, and go left, but it will be tortuous and difficult to achieve results.

In other words, people should have the standard of being a man. Although many people are proud of not going the right way, there are still problems in the end. However, many people still only care about the present, regardless of their own consequences. Although we see many people doing evil and still enjoying life, this account will be settled in the afterlife after all. -The Analects of Confucius

Buddhism talks about what goes around comes around, and thinks that you are what you plant. For example, yesterday you scolded a person, and he smiled at you, and he already had hatred in his heart. If they have the chance, they will repay you, and they will not be polite. This is karma. This is karma.

Then we can think that you were scolded by someone or something you thought was unlucky because he was getting back at you. Therefore, it is said that "if you are innocent, don't fight, don't scold, and if something bad comes, it is to give you virtue, not only to endure, but also to thank him"-"Jing Si Quotations"

If you can't stand it, then continue later, or in the next life, the next life, go back and forth until you repent.

In ancient times, there was a man with good moral cultivation, named Lin Tuizhai, who was rich and had a lot of children and grandchildren. On his deathbed, all his descendants knelt before him and said, "You are leaving us. Let's leave something for our life. "

He said, "You should learn to bear hardships." This is his greatest concern for his children and grandchildren, and let them know that suffering is a blessing.

It is often said in society: "A small amount is not a gentleman, but a non-toxic husband." It is originally an "excessive husband." Misinterpreted as "non-toxic and not husband", people mistakenly think that "vicious" is the husband. "Degree" is measurement and tolerance. A man without measurement cannot be called a husband. "Less is not a gentleman, more is not a husband" is a good motto to cultivate people's ability.

Confucius said, "Life and death are fixed, and wealth is in the sky."

Your present life is what you used to call it, and your future life and your present life can be resolved by what you do now. So in order to give your future a good life, you must accumulate more virtues, do good deeds now and live seriously. If you don't steal, you will be rich, and if you steal, you will be poor. After you are ready to help others, you have a noble person. No one will help you if you don't do what you should do. You are the one who is called rich and expensive and poor and poor. In the face of adversity, fate is bad. There is no resentment [[chē nhui]]. Karma has disappeared; In good times, follow the fate, without greed or delusion, with wisdom and blessing. Help yourself! I recommend you an article that can be changed, and search for "four major disciplines of Mandarin" on the Internet.

Man is the soul of all things, and your heart is the most spiritual! People have such great spirituality that you don't know and complain blindly. Can your life be good? It can't be good! Someone said, "My life is not good. I have had bad feelings in my life. " Well, the more you talk, the smarter you get. That's enough for you. In fact, everyone has enough Buddha nature and only listens to himself. This is very clever. If we say, "Oh, this will definitely not work." The more you say it, the worse it gets. Don't say that good intentions are not rewarded, and don't say that there are no good people around you. Some women say, "Even men have no good things." Can I arrange it for you? Because you asked "men have no good things", this is your wish and your conclusion. Don't lose at the best, mistakenly thinking that worry is kindness. Remember, worry equals curse and curse. We should be careful when we draw any conclusions, so the middle word of the doctrine of the mean is to put a seal on the word and tell you not to talk nonsense and seal your mouth first. We should throw away those benign procedures: "I am surrounded by good people", "I am blessed when I suffer", "this person is not good to me" and "the more I get sick, the more I catch a cold and detoxify". Who heard that the colder I am, the shorter my life will be? Not necessarily. Take medicine when you are sick. Therefore, we have to lose good programs. I often throw away good programs for myself: "It's lucky to lose money", "The colder a cold is, the healthier it is", and most people say that "jumping with the left eye is a fortune, and jumping with the right eye is a curse". I'm not the program. I am a person who "jumps with my right eye", and everything jumps for beautiful things.

Karma is the natural law of the universe and the law of natural development. However, it is relative, not eternal in a certain time, but changes with the change of everything in the universe. There is no absolute law of cause and effect in the universe, and it is everyone's own view of value existence that ultimately determines fate. Simply put, only he can decide everything and master his own destiny.