Should women get married early or late?

Personally, I don't think we should get married before the age of 25.

Entering marriage prematurely, both of them are immature, and being forced to grow up in marriage will cause many problems. There is also the fact that if you get married too early, you will not be able to support a family financially. If you have another child and feel stressed, you will feel that your life has been completely dominated by children, especially women.

Married at the age of 26, husband 3 1. For a man of his age, a man in his thirties is fully capable of supporting his family, and he will have a certain economic accumulation if he struggles to a certain extent. We met when I was 22 years old and talked for almost four years.

I remember very clearly that I really wanted to marry him in 20 14, and then we went to take wedding photos in a daze, but I got the license in the second half of 20 16.

Looking back now, there are indeed many places between two people that can be run-in. If we get married too early, my husband can't afford a house. If you want another child, you can imagine the pressure.

Moreover, two people can have fun without children. With children, you will find that you have little chance to live alone. If I remember correctly, we have watched movies almost once a year since our child was born. We can take Valentine's Day as Children's Day to celebrate various festivals, and go out for a walk on weekends mainly to accompany the children.

It's not that we don't want to let go of the child, but that we have no chance to let go of the child at all, because we are taking care of the child ourselves.

After the baby was born, the only two times I went to the movies were because my grandmother or grandmother came to live. I managed to escape for three hours, and when I came back, the children were anxious to call their mother. Especially for lactating mothers, if they go out for three hours, their breasts will rise like stones.

When you have children, you can't help but think of them, and you have concerns inexplicably, and the time you can come out is getting less and less. When I can't sleep, I will remember when I was in love before, and then I regret not going to many places.

When you are not married and have no children, you can occasionally date romantically; After getting married and having children, just take a dress and make do with it. It's already the mother of the child anyway. Just make do with it. And what is the most critical? Marry and have children too early, but be bound at the age when you should be free to fall in love.

Before I get married, I can go wherever I want. Before I got married at the age of 26, I had a backpacking trip and walked alone for two and a half months. This is my first time to travel to so many places and I had a good time. But after the trip, my husband told me, "It's time to get married and want to get over it." We solved the pre-marital conflict and got married. Looking back now, it is a good thing that I went to play, because I haven't been out for a long time. After having children, you can't take care of them at all You wander around them every day, even if you go out to play, you will take them with you. You can't completely relax and play by yourself.

So there is no need to get married too early. No matter from the physiological age or other aspects, it is more suitable after 25 years old.