If you can't change the environment, change yourself.

First, I will tell you a story about my friend Ashin. A Xin and I grew up together. He belongs to the kind of person who jumped from childhood and has an optimistic personality. He likes management and interpersonal communication. He was the president and monitor of the student union for six years from junior high school to senior high school. In the eyes of others, he is a careless person, and nothing can beat him. ?

Apart from English, his grades are not bad. English can be regarded as his achilles heel, and I have been making fun of him. He was also afraid of failing in the English college entrance examination, so he joined the college entrance examination team and wanted to pass the college entrance examination for physical education. The sports college entrance examination team may be familiar or unfamiliar to everyone. They start training at 6 o'clock every morning, rain or shine, almost five hours a day. I remember that on the 28th of that year, his friend told him to go online and sing karaoke, but he didn't come because he was going to train for the physical examination. In this way, day after day, year after year, countless sweat, tears and blood have been shed, and it is time to break through your limits again and again. He sprained his leg in training a week before the exam, which backfired. Finally, he missed the university he should have gone to because of his foot injury. All the efforts made this year have been wasted. It seems that you are thirsty. You lift a ladder to pick fruit from the tree to quench your thirst. When you climbed the last ladder to get the fruit, the ladder broke.

? I still remember the feeling of confusion and loss when A Xin sat on the steps of the playground and looked at the sky after the physical examination. A Xin has two choices: repeating a grade or going to college. A Xin is very unwilling, he wants to repeat. Their coach found his parents. Because A Xin went to training in senior three, leaving his culture behind, he took two better books at most a year. The coach said that a new major is not bad, and the employment prospect is good. Finally, the coach persuaded A Xin's parents. Because A Xin was not sure about the lessons he left behind, he was also very confused at that time, so he finally came to a strange major-ballroom dancing, A Xin. The day after A Xin came to Changsha, it was his 18 birthday. After class that day, he went to the city by car, ate a crayfish himself, and then went back to school by car. A person had an unforgettable adult ceremony in this strange city.

? After the physical examination, A Xin stopped being careless and took the initiative to talk with others, which changed his character. Because I didn't study this major, I didn't learn well at first. Plus, after a long time, he doesn't like this major. He didn't like it very much, but his parents expected him and spent a lot of money. Therefore, he lives a very painful life every day. On the one hand, he dislikes and rejects his major, on the other hand, his parents pay and expect him. Finally, he didn't want to live up to his parents' expectations and controlled his refusal. Finally, he was admitted to the university through hard work.

? After entering the university, he found that the life he lived was not what he wanted. His heart rejected the major again. He wants to study hard in class, but he still doesn't like it. Because he was rejected and disliked, his professional achievements were not very good, and he lived a miserable life every day. Because of the change of A Xin's personality, he doesn't want to take the initiative to talk to others. He stays in the dormitory every day when he is free, and he doesn't attend parties and social activities as often as before, so he no longer controls his lifestyle. A Xin didn't tell anyone about the pain and discomfort in his heart. He didn't tell his parents because he was afraid that his parents would worry. So he kept it for three years. Since the physical examination, A Xin hasn't really been happy once.

? In this way, a year passed, and at the end of his freshman year, A Xin found that he couldn't stand such a life any longer. He wants to change himself and can't go on like this. Since you can't change the fact that you chose this major, choose to change yourself. A Xin began to change his view on his major, then changed his lifestyle, planned and demanded his future life, stopped being self-enclosed, and began to be cheerful and engaged in physical exercise and sports.

? When I was a child, my fortune teller said I was LMNT, so I added A Xin to my name. A Xin is who I used to be. Every time I experience setbacks, I am changing myself. Only in this way can we better get out of setbacks. Change yourself in prosperity and make yourself better and stronger, so that you can go further in prosperity and spend better in the next setbacks.

? Yes, we can't change the environment and many things in this world, but we can change ourselves and make ourselves better and stronger. In the future storms, we can better adapt to various changes. ? Life is like water, and people can only adapt to the environment. If you can't change the environment, change yourself. Only in this way can we overcome more difficulties, more setbacks and realize our true selves.