Where does a person's confidence come from?

In fact, a person's inner confidence mainly comes from the following three points.

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1, self-knowledge of life consciousness;

As the saying goes: Know yourself and know yourself,

It can be seen that people who are truly self-aware can be counted as extremely smart people.

A person with wisdom in his heart and mind can naturally face life calmly and feel confident from the heart.

So, where does a person's "self-knowledge" come from?

In fact, it comes from what you think, from what you see and hear on weekdays, and from the process of shaping a person's temperament and values.

This is what people often say: in your temperament, there are roads you have traveled, books you have read and people you have loved.

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In the words of the ancients, it is: reading thousands of books is not as good as reading Wan Li Road, and reading Wan Li Road is not as good as reading countless people; Reading countless people is not as good as the guidance of a famous teacher, and the guidance of a famous teacher is not as good as your own understanding.

Zeng Guofan also specially endowed "Ming" with the meaning of life in "Ting Jing Qiang Ming Pian". He said: "Qiang Ming" is the word that plays an important role.

He also divided "Ming" into two categories: smart and smart.

Cleverness comes from nature, and shrewdness comes from continuous learning and questioning the day after tomorrow, which belongs to the kind that diligence makes genius.

In The Doctrine of the Mean, this "shrewdness" can be summed up in one sentence: erudition, interrogation, deep thinking, discernment and persistence.

He also said that if you can really do this, you can be born stupid or smart, weak or strong.

If we have a good understanding of the above, strive to make ourselves grow and progress, and then know how heavy we are, and have a certain degree of self-knowledge, we can feel at ease, naturally feel confident from the heart, and then transcend inferiority.

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2. Self-improvement attitude towards life;

The Book of Changes says: Heaven is strong, and gentlemen are constantly striving for self-improvement.

Thousands of years have passed, and the Chinese nation has gone through countless hardships, and it is precisely because of the spirit of self-improvement and perseverance that we are still able to stand proudly among the nations of the world.

And this is also the root of the strong national self-confidence of all our Chinese sons and daughters.

This is true for the country and the nation, and it is also true for individuals: the self-confidence of each of us actually comes from our own past experiences and from our unchanging attitude towards self-improvement.

If we have made a lot of achievements and honors in our study, work and life in the past, and look at a lot of honors and certificates in front of us, won't we be proud of ourselves and full of confidence in the future?

The road we have taken before will not be in vain; What we have suffered before will not be eaten for nothing.

Now, we are glad that we have worked hard in the past; I will definitely thank myself for my efforts now.

Just as life doesn't come out of thin air, so does our confidence.

When we look back on the road of self-improvement, although it is full of hardships and sadness, we will feel gratified, more confident and more determined that our choice is correct.

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Just like Jobs gave a speech.