China girls are adopted by foreigners. Twenty-four years later, they graduated from Harvard and returned to China to find their relatives. What was the result?

1992, Pan, a girl who was abandoned at birth, was found in Zhuyuwan Scenic Park in Yangzhou, and the baby girl was sent to the local children's welfare home. She was born on 1992 1 22nd.

▲ When Pan was a child.

There is a female worker in the welfare home who likes her very much. Every holiday, she will be taken home for the New Year. The family also liked this lovely little girl very much, and even had the idea of adopting her, but for some special reasons, she was finally not adopted home.

1994, an American lady came to Yangzhou to visit two-year-old Pan and offered to adopt her, so the helpless child had a home, and the American lady took her home and had no worries about food and clothing. Adopting a sweet lady is an expert in language correction. Her job is to teach disabled children how to pronounce and speak. It can be said that she is a very caring lady. Under her care, she grew up happily and studied well.

▲ Pan He foster mother

In 20 12, Tian Tian was admitted to Harvard University, a top school in the world. After graduation, she found a stable job.

From a very young age, Pan found that she was far away from her adoptive mother, who told her bluntly that they were not her own mother and daughter. She was born in China, which is far from the United States.

Sweet still vaguely remembers the amiable aunt who took care of her in the welfare home when she was a child, so she wants to go back to China to find her relatives when she grows up. She wants to know why she was abandoned. Did her biological parents encounter any difficulties? How are they now?

Return to China to find relatives

In 20 18, full of doubts, she returned to Yangzhou with the help of her adoptive mother and began a journey of finding her relatives. In her memory, she not only thought of her aunt who was kind to her, but also thought of her sister's house where she once lived. Soon after returning to China, she found an aunt who was very kind to her in Yangzhou, and both sides were surprised after meeting.

▲ Pan Tiantian

I want Aunt Yang to help her find her biological parents, but after so many years, there is no clue. Aunt Yang and his wife said that if Tian Tian can't find her biological parents in China, she should be her biological parents. Pan was very moved to learn that the other party had wanted to adopt her, and told Ms. Yang that Ms. Yang's home was her home. Although I didn't find my biological parents, I met Aunt Yang's family. Glad you came, so to speak.

Arouse a heated discussion

Once the incident of Pan's tracing relatives was reported, it caused a heated discussion among many netizens.

When the reporter asked Pan why she went back to China to find her biological parents, she said that she wanted to tell her parents that their daughter had grown up and lived well, and thanked them for giving her life and a chance to live.

▲ Pan and Aunt Yang

Online friend, when she was abandoned by her biological parents, it was probably because her family preferred sons to daughters. And no matter what the reason, Pan doesn't need to come back to his relatives, let alone thank them. The foster mother is the most important person to her. Another group of netizens said that she should thank her parents. If they hadn't abandoned Pan, she might not have become a student at Harvard University, and maybe that's her fate.

▲ Pan Tiantian

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Some netizens also pointed out that the reason why there are different views may have a lot to do with the cultural differences between China and the West. In the United States, adoptive families abound, and most adoptive parents don't mind that their children choose to find biological parents when they grow up, so that children can learn to be grateful and understand. Her adoptive parents have given Pan enough affection and warmth, so she will not have too much hatred for her adoptive parents, but will live with a grateful heart. As the netizen said: "Children who grow up in honey have only regrets and no resentment."