Love deafness _ What is the source of your indifference?

The so-called love deafness often occurs between couples or couples who have been in love for many years. Because I am too familiar with it, I am getting speechless, or I don't want to tell each other at all. So what is the root of your indifference? You will know the answer after the exam. Let's do a love test together.

Are you a talkative person? A, speak quickly b, speak normally and quickly c, speak slowly d, speak quite slowly.

Answer: A. The other party can't communicate completely. Your feelings are indifferent because you can't communicate well at all. Either the other party blocks himself back with a word, or he doesn't even have the desire to speak. You used to have a lot to say, but now you have no idea as soon as you meet.

We are all too busy. You are all very busy people. To promote your career, you always spend a lot of time on it every day. So you have no time to spend with your family and your other half. At home, the other party hasn't come back yet. When the other person wakes up, you have already gone out, so there is a lack of communication.

C. everyone thinks that the other party has paid too little for the family. You are indifferent because both sides feel that the other has paid too little for the family, so there are many grievances in your heart. You feel that you have to take care of your family while working, and you are a little overwhelmed. And the other party feels extremely hard (online fortune telling) and you can't understand it, so the contradiction arises.

D, often look at each other's faces. Your emotional indifference is that you often look at each other's faces. In case of poor communication, the first thing to give to the other party is a bad face. So the other party had an idea to tell you, and suddenly lost the desire to communicate. So don't look at things, or you will alienate each other even more.