Blind date and fortune telling

Why did he ask you for your birthday to tell your fortune? Explain that your family agrees with this young man and you, why not give it to him? Besides, whether you charge him 20 thousand or 30 thousand, you still charge someone else's money, right Since you don't like him, why do you want to accept his money? Why didn't you make it clear when dating? Personally, I don't think you are a good thing either.