Empathy is empathy (there is an experience called empathy)

0 1 Mr. Lu Xun wrote such a fragment in "Just a Collection-Little Miscellaneous Feeling": a person downstairs is critically ill, and the family next door is singing the phonograph, opposite the child. There are two people upstairs laughing wildly; There was also the sound of playing cards. A woman was crying for her dead mother on a boat in the river. The joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected. I just think they are noisy.

Mr. Lu Xun said that "the joys and sorrows of human beings are not connected", which means that individual human beings can't actually feel the same.

In fact, it is difficult for others to feel your emotions. Because, if the needle doesn't go into you, you never know how much it hurts.

I don't know if you have encountered the following experiences:

When you are lovelorn, sad and crying, your friend says-

I understand you, but don't be so sad if the old one doesn't go and the new one doesn't come.

When you are depressed and complain to your parents that you have worked hard but have not been recognized by your leaders, your parents say-

We understand you, young people have this stage, which may indicate that you are not good enough. Keep working hard!

When your relationship with your husband is cold and you feel that you are in a widowed marriage, your best friend says-

I understand you, but your husband doesn't gamble or cheat, which is much better than some men. You should be satisfied.

When you encounter the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you complain to your husband, and he says-

This is my only mother. She is an old man. Can't you let her go?

You see, no empathy? Yes, just self-knowledge.

When people feel sad and painful, they mostly talk to friends or relatives. But many times, their comfort may actually make people more painful. Your experience, your painful past, others can't feel it, and it's hard to understand you from the bottom of my heart.

At this time, the phrase "I understand you" is particularly perfunctory and harsh.

Yes, many times, people's joys and sorrows are not connected.

An epidemic has made people realize that empathy is no longer just a word.

At the beginning of the new year in 2020, the sudden novel coronavirus began to wreak havoc. "blockade cities, roads and communities" and "go out less, wash your hands more and wear masks". Under the epidemic, people's normal life was disrupted.

At the beginning of the epidemic, the bustling streets in the past became scarce and the busy shopping malls became empty. People no longer visit relatives and friends during the Spring Festival, and online chatting is no longer just about greeting "Happy New Year", but asking "How many masks did you buy?"

Panic, anxiety, anxiety and uncertainty about the future, when the epidemic began to spread, people all over the country felt the same way.

Staying at home and having less contact with people has become the most direct and effective way for people to avoid the epidemic at first. The planned trip, visiting friends, clubbing, partying and playing mahjong were all put aside. The kitchen, balcony, living room and bedroom have suddenly become the most important places, and the time at home has never been so long. After a long time, many people find that their houses have so many defects and life pains.

During the epidemic, Liu Ping's family of four living in Fengtai District of Beijing was confined to their homes. They were very glad that the house of 100 square meters that they started earlier can become a health shield against the epidemic at home. But who knows, the security risks brought by poor property services, imperfect residential facilities and damaged circuit equipment are coming to Liu Ping one after another, just like looking in a magic mirror, revealing the true colors of the house that has lived for six years.

What's more, because the epidemic has not been completely eliminated for a long time, except Liu Ping's husband, other family members have to stay indoors most of the time for safety reasons. Adults can tolerate it. The two children feel "flustered" at home from time to time and want to have fun. But in the downtown area, the public space in the downstairs community is narrow and cramped. Who dares to let children go out to play in an epidemic situation?

Liu Ping said, "I almost collapsed. If it weren't for the epidemic, I didn't know that the house I bought could reduce my family happiness so much. It is simply not worthy of my house price. "

In fact, it's not just Liu Ping that is about to collapse. Similar plots and feelings are staged in many families in Beijing. When the media frequently exposed "other people's houses, other people's properties, and other people's services", you and I seemed to be in a state of collapse across the screen of the mobile phone, surging with the idea of changing rooms.

According to the survey of relevant institutions, the demand for changing houses under the epidemic situation is as high as 56%. According to a recent survey data, during the epidemic period, only 20% people were satisfied with their home environment, 56% people wanted to change their living status, and as many as 52% customers had plans to buy houses. Yes, countless people feel the pain of living under the epidemic.

Pay attention to WeChat official account property, look forward to dcliaowang, consult before buying a house, and come to me when defending rights. In fact, regarding the pain point of housing, as early as before the epidemic, some housing enterprises predicted people's yearning for healthy living and quality living, and began to study and think about the demand for livable products in a forward-looking way. This real estate enterprise is Beikejian.

Surrounded by mountains and rivers, livable and suitable for business, complete facilities and convenient life ... The ideal residence that people yearn for seems a bit out of reach. In fact, such a life is not far away, and such an ideal living mode is in Huairou, Beijing.

Speaking of Huairou, people will naturally think of Huairou Science City and Huairou Reservoir. These advantages of Huairou are recognized by more and more people. Coupled with the test of this epidemic, people began to re-examine the value of Beijing suburbs. Huairou not only has three national industrial functional zones, such as Huairou Science City, New International Exchange Zone and Film and Television Industry Demonstration Zone, but also has a beautiful and livable environment, which is both livable and suitable for business.

Beikejian, a state-owned enterprise, knows the value of Huairou. In this land with strong scientific and technological attributes and international exchange atmosphere, Beikejian takes advantage of the general trend of the rise of Huairou region to build high-quality houses and realize the rise of project asset value. Up to now, Huairou has had three sons: Hua Ting, Yanqi, and Huafu, which opened a new pattern of Huairou strategy.

In order to meet the market demand for healthy living in the post-epidemic era, Huairou Beike Construction has been deeply cultivated. Recently, through the linkage of its three sets of Emerald Hua Ting, Waterfront Yanqi and Emerald Huafu, we will give back to the buyers who know how to live in Huairou and yearn for a healthy life with product advantages and cost-effective advantages.

Emerald Hua Ting renderings

First of all, Emerald Hua Ting, as a comprehensive market of Huairou New Town, is a high-end service project supporting Huairou Science City (under planning), aiming at providing a perfect living system for the people with high knowledge. The project is close to Wanda, Peking University World, Huairou City Forest Park and Huairou Hospital, with complete facilities. The theme business district, living supporting area, all-round office area and star hotel are built by ourselves to create a multi-functional compound real estate format to meet the living needs of all ages. At present, the products on sale are 86- 158 square meters of two to four bedrooms, all of which are decorated in park houses, and the unit price starts at 28,300 yuan/square meter. Some products are presented together with intelligent furniture and household appliances.

Aerial view of waterfront wild goose habitat

Secondly, Waterfront Yanqi, as the only pure commercial housing project for sale in Yanqi Lake District, is very close to Yanqi Lake. The project is located in the handshake area between Yanqi Lake International Conference Capital and Huairou Science City (under planning), surrounded by one mountain, two waters and eight scenic spots, with an ultra-low plot ratio of about 1.2, a planned garden of about 200,000 square meters and a green space rate as high as 57%. It is a low-density villa residential area. At the same time, the project plans to build a block of about13000m2, striving to build a block in China, realizing the ingenious integration of residence, commerce and environment, and bringing a brand-new way of life. At present, the building area of this villa is about 83- 152㎡, which is in hot sale.

Rendering of Emerald Huafu Building

Finally, positioning the high-end improved Emerald Washington opened the first year of Huairou's high-end improved living. The project is located in the center of Huairou Science City, occupying a key development area in the future. Enjoy the convenience of 1 high-speed rail, 2 intercity express lines and 3 suburbs, and have many high-quality supporting resources such as10/middle school, Experimental No.2 Primary School and Huairou Hospital. The project is a 4-6-storey villa with wide water features and new Chinese architectural style. The park is well planned, with a greening rate of 30%, a parking space ratio of 1: 1.2, a plot ratio of only 1.5, low capacity and low density, and high overall living comfort.

In 2020, the sudden black swan epidemic made people begin to comprehensively examine the relationship between housing and health for the first time. Under the epidemic situation, we have never felt so deeply that the natural environment and the comfort of life are so important. The appearance of the epidemic washed away the seemingly decent life on weekdays. From "moldy houses" to "collapsed troops", fewer and fewer houses can stand the test of the epidemic. After this epidemic, the house that can save lives makes people realize that the house that can provide a comfortable and healthy life is the hard demand and hard currency of today's times.

In Huairou, where Beijing's natural landscape is among the best and Huairou Science City is being planned and built, Beikejian has built a livable house for buyers. More importantly, Huairou is not only livable, but also suitable for business. At present, 22 Chinese Academy of Sciences 12 Institute projects and 46 nano-industrial park projects have been put into operation in Science City, and there are 139 high-tech enterprises and 10000 more than teachers, students and researchers of graduate schools of Chinese Academy of Sciences studying and living here. In the next three years, Huairou Science City will settle in 25 research institutes. The landing of these projects will attract more high-tech talents and inject strong impetus into Huairou's future development.

Beikejian has been deeply involved in three sets of Huairou linkages, from "Kechuang Mansion-Beikejian Emerald Hua Ting" to "Beautiful Landscape Residence-Beikejian Waterfront Yanqi" and then to "Zhihui Community-Beikejian Emerald Huafu". By launching different styles of real estate, from just need to improvement, from self-occupation to investment, from pension to vacation, there is always one for you. At the same time, Beikejian has also formulated a series of home ownership solutions and preferential activities, so that buyers with different needs can choose their favorite houses.

On July 25th, there will be more wonderful releases on the linkage of the three episodes of Beikejian. Bekejian will meet you in Huairou, be there or be square!