80-year-old needs a nanny to tell fortune _80-year-old must find a nanny.

My mother-in-law just died and my father-in-law is 82 years old. I have to find a nanny, okay?

The 82-year-old father-in-law wants a nanny, and the son-in-law not only does not object, but also strongly supports it.

From your husband and wife's point of view, your father-in-law is old and your mother-in-law is gone. If there is no one around to take care of you, it is difficult for you to take care of him for a long time. An 82-year-old man lives alone, with no one to talk to and take care of his daily life. This kind of old age life is very lonely in bad karma.

You can get through it in three days or two. In the long run, the elderly will feel that life is dull, their health is getting worse and worse, and even diseases such as Alzheimer's disease will appear. The old man is inconvenient to move and may fall at any time. If no one is around, if the fall happens in a cold winter and they fall in a narrow bathroom, they will not be able to get up. Even if you don't fall to death, you will fall to the ground and freeze to death. The old man was not tortured to death by disease, but still alive after falling. In case this happens, as future generations, there will be eternal debts in my heart.

I want to find a nanny to live with my father-in-law, at least there will be someone around. Even if the nanny has something unsatisfactory, at least you can inform future generations and tell them in time if there is anything.

Old people are most afraid of loneliness. No matter how filial children are, they also have their own jobs and families. It is impossible to always compensate the elderly. Just find a caring nanny to take care of the elderly at all times. And if the old man has an emergency, he can find it immediately and deal with it immediately, which is very good. You can rely on the elderly, find a full-time nanny to take care of the elderly, and let the elderly live a happy year. Of course, children should also take time to visit the elderly. Looking for a family nanny for the elderly is also considerate of the children and reduces worries.

We have two similar things here. First, his wife died three years ago. The old man was less than 70 years old, and both children were very filial and wanted to live with them. After living for a while, the old man went home, because it was inconvenient to live with the children, or he went home alone, but he was lonely at night and didn't even have a speaker. So the old man also wanted to find a live-in nanny. After the two children discussed it, they found him a 40-year-old nanny. The old man had a good job when he was young, so his pension was high. Plus two shops and several rooms for rent, he earns less than 2 yuan a month. He also bought a big gold necklace and other valuables for the nanny. Now the children come back for dinner once a weekend, and the live-in nanny also eats with them, otherwise the old people don't want to.

Some people question its authenticity. I want to say a few words. In another neighborhood near us, there is a retired man who is almost 90 years old and spends more than 10 thousand a month. He has found an old lady in her fifties to call a nanny. After coming, the children of the old man made a clear attitude. First, dad pays her a fixed nanny fee, and the rest of the money is spent as he likes, regardless of the children. Second, when Dad left, the employment relationship ended, and the real estate had nothing to do with her. Third, she cooks for her children when they come back every week. Usually, it is dad who helps her. Nanny often leads the old man out for a walk, so everyone in the community knows that the old man has her pension. Not only that, the meals every day are very popular with nannies. Think about it. Children are smart. When their father is gone, is that how money works? Now they are happy, and their home is still a home.

I know the child of one of the old people, and she talked about the process of her family finding a nanny for the old people. They are a little too demanding of live-in nannies. Besides being young, you should be clean, work neatly and cook delicious food.

Finally, she found a satisfactory nanny. She is only in her forties, rural, very simple, the kind she likes. So we agreed that when the old man was happy and wanted to get married. Others can grow their own snacks.

Caring for the elderly is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. You can have doubts, which shows that you care about the elderly and your extended family. It is certain that each of us will get old. Respect the old and love the young. As the saying goes, a family is better than a treasure house, and it is the greatest happiness for the elderly to live in their old age.