What does getting married mean? If you are not married, are you talking about the last person you married?

In the old society, the wedding procedure was complicated, so we should take care of the marriage of young men and women according to the wedding customs in the workshop. First, the man's parents asked the matchmaker to propose marriage, and the matchmaker explained the man's financial situation, the groom's appearance, head portrait and occupation to the family. Parents initially agreed to the matchmaker's proposal, and the wedding was called a happy event. After the matchmaker matches the bridge, the man's house should prepare gifts, and the matchmaker takes the gifts to the woman's house to ask for the bride. This is the so-called birthday