Yu Fengzhi: Happiness is better than perfection.

This is the fortune teller's assertion and one of the reasons why Zhang chose to be a daughter-in-law.

Judging from Yu Fengzhi's chart, this is not a compliment. This is a special astrolabe commonly known as the "half-man-half-god disk", which indicates high talent, studious understanding and religious fate. It naturally likes to explore the intellectual and spiritual fields.

There is a talent line in the chart, and talent is intelligent. He is also a whole-brain person with balanced development of left and right brains, and his talents are also widely distributed. More prominent are creativity, art, logical analysis, leadership implementation and imagination, followed by eloquence expression, service dedication and design thinking. Have leadership and team spirit, have influence on others, know how to gather people's hearts, have group charm and make people love.

Peach blossom has a high interpersonal index and is easy to get the favor of others. As long as you take the initiative to make friends, your popularity will not be bad. There are innate and acquired, and people will take the initiative to lend a helping hand when they encounter difficulties. There are post horses, which are suitable for development away from home, easier to get money, and have strong adaptability when meeting nobles.

Wealth belongs to the upper-middle class, and it has access to the state treasury and part of the state treasury, as well as financial management and investment. Although I work hard, I have a good ability to make money and a sense of thrift. Although there is a lack of positive treasury, a natural lack of awareness of saving, and a tendency of intermittent, scattered and irrational consumption, we can make up for it with diligence and rationality.

Reward for good, high religious wisdom and strong intuition. At the same time, the eight-character god of food often receives gifts from others, and it will be good to be young and suffer.

I am affectionate, thoughtful, intuitive, considerate, willing to contribute, opinionated, able to analyze things rationally and give original opinions. What is lacking is planning talent and adventurous spirit. The former is easy to supplement, and the latter is often not regarded as a shortcoming.

She is almost impeccable in both talent and temperament.

In his later years, Zhang Xueliang talked about his marriage with Yu Fengzhi: "My wife is three years older than me. At that time, we all had to get engaged first, but I had no idea what she looked like. Therefore, my wife and I were not very friendly afterwards. I don't like my wife because we are matchmakers and parents. I told my wife that you married the wrong person. You are a good wife and mother, but Zhang Xueliang just doesn't want a good wife and mother. "

In Yu Fengzhi's memory, they got along well before marriage, and after marriage, the piano and harp were harmonious, so whenever there was a military and political event, Zhang Xueliang would discuss it with her. She once explained to Song Meiling: "This is because we have known each other since childhood, and it has become a habit to talk about everything. Especially after his father passed away, the burden was heavy, and he told me big things and listened to my opinions so that things could be considered comprehensively. "

What they say is actually the truth seen from different angles.

Zhang Xueliang, a right-brain type, is impulsive, casual and has a strong peach blossom luck. In addition, he is honest, affectionate and righteous, regardless of his status, even his personality itself attracts the opposite sex.

His talent focuses on creativity, art and imagination, and his character is also related to it. Be opinionated and opinionated; Careful and caring, but good at arguing and sticking to one's own opinions; Intuitively sensitive, but easy to dream, even neurotic.

Although he changed the historical trend of China, he never became a thoughtful politician in his life.

The theme of his life is cooperation and introspection. For him who is frank and too idealistic, it is always difficult to cooperate with others and reflect on himself.

Planning, analysis and execution are also abilities he does not have. He worked enthusiastically for three minutes, acted spontaneously, and even lacked leadership. His influence stems more from his natural personal charm and affectionate personality.

She and he are more like sisters and brothers. People often prove that he loves her: when she was dying due to dystocia, he refused his family's proposal to let him have a second wife. But judging from his chart, this is just "righteousness". To him, she is a kind and generous sister, a decisive and wise business partner, but not a lover. Emotionally, he doesn't like her.

But thoughtful, like other people in the world, she is willing to interpret "righteousness" as "love" and his dependence and dependence as love. Common career goals can deepen love, but if the skin does not exist, the hair will be attached. If love itself does not exist, how can career support make love more textured?

For him, her love is too mature and tender, lacking passion. She can tolerate all his willfulness and is an important source of his sense of security, but she can never be a "lovely" person in his mind.

His affection for her is like a child playing in the park. Sometimes he has to look back at his mother, make sure she is still there, and then continue to dawdle.

She and the palace, the core of his life, are vine stars, just like two vines intertwined.

Even if he doesn't love her, he has to admit that she is the most reliable partner both emotionally and at work. He has a strong appearance, but he still has an instinctive dependence on her. She helped him through the difficulties more than once. After Zhang was killed, she remained silent to stabilize the situation, and he was able to calmly return to Shenyang to take over the Shuaifu. After he was under house arrest, she tried her best to rescue him and clear his name.

For her, he is the whole of life and a lifelong career. After marriage, in order to better assist him, she has been quite talented and often goes to Shenyang University to attend classes to enrich her knowledge. She advocates knowledge and is keen on education. She started running a school when she was in the northeast, which not only won him a good reputation, but also practiced her own ideas.

If a vine star wants to succeed in his career, it is best to be able to cooperate with others and act as a think tank. The role of "My wife's help" really gave her room to display her talents and helped him feel at home in his career until he launched the Xi 'an incident, which was a bit impulsive.

After going to America, livelihood became a problem. However, with her excellent financial management and investment talent, good analytical skills and keen intuition, she opened up a world in the Wall Street securities market and successfully invested in real estate. In this regard, she just downplayed: "I buy and sell stocks by my economic knowledge. Every time I have a surplus, I buy a nearby property for rent and settle in the United States. "

In fact, she accumulated enough wealth to buy two adjacent villas, one is Linquan Villa in ingrid bergman, and the other is Elizabeth Taylor's former residence.

She has super adaptability, and she took Imag to other places. On the one hand, she has too much helplessness, on the other hand, she has another vision. And once she focuses on her talent and is in a positive energy state, she can give full play to her great potential.

With wisdom, courage, experience and beauty, she deserves happiness and has the ability to make herself happy, but she chose the latter between happiness and perfection and insisted on being a perfect wife.

Not only did she spare no effort to fight for his freedom, but she always tolerated his relationship with Zhao Si. These two villas were decorated according to her lifestyle in Wang Fu, Shuncheng, Beijing. One is for myself, and the other is for him and Zhao Si. When he returns to freedom, he will come here to spend his old age.

However, to be a perfect person, you need many imperfect people and things to set off. These imperfections and disappointments will inevitably make her accumulate too much psychological pressure, what's more, she has a tendency to be depressed and manic, and will not decompress herself, let alone enjoy it. 1940 almost fatal breast cancer, expressing her inner depression and resentment.

From 1940s to 1990s, she thought she was waiting for him, but what she did was more to escape from her heart. She attached the meaning of all her efforts to him to forget his cool thin.

But she can't wait for the happy ending. He was finally buried with Zhao Si, and the grave she left him was always empty.

Fate is decided by heaven, but whether you live well or not depends entirely on people. Cultivating one's mind is certainly the way to create an ideal life, but if one can't learn to love oneself while improving oneself, there will always be a hole in the heart, perfect in appearance and exhausted physically and mentally. Happiness is better than perfection.