How to choose an auspicious birthday is equally important.

Marriage is no more trivial than life, and it is a once-in-a-lifetime event. Choosing an auspicious day for engagement and marriage is also not to be ignored by both parents! Birthdays, for couples, will be analyzed to welcome the beginning of harmonious marriage life. Today, let's take a look at what factors need to be considered when choosing an auspicious day from engagement to marriage. In ancient times, there were six ceremonies for getting married: first, asking the name; second, subscribing to the alliance; third, accepting gifts; fourth, accepting coins; fifth, inviting the bride; and sixth. It can be described as cumbersome procedures. Seeking a name is to mention a relative, which is also commonly known as matchmaking. The lecture notes on choosing names said: "The questioner visits, and the famous person is famous." The matchmaker will send the man's birthday to the woman's house first (propose marriage). If the woman is interested, she will send the woman's birthday to the man's house through the matchmaker, and then the fortune teller, regardless of sex, will be invited to marry and invite her ancestors. Wen Zu usually writes the birthdays of both men and women on the altar. Three days later, if nothing unlucky happens, then there will be a home visit, which is equivalent to a "blind date" for modern people. Modern blind date is to introduce men and women to meet and see each other. If both parties are in the same mood, they can enter the next procedure-subscription. The second of the six rites is engagement, commonly known as "Jieyi", called Wen Ding, also called small engagement. Usually shortly after a blind date, the man's parents will bring money, rings, betel nuts, rock sugar and other things to the woman's house. It is equivalent to a modern man proposing to a woman's ring. Nacai, the discussion form of engagement, is commonly known as about and big engagement. There are also people who only hold big ceremonies and omit small appointments. Paying money, that is, giving gifts, is commonly known as leaving your job. In modern times, Nacai and Nabi are combined in the engagement ceremony and held at the same time. The date of the invitation is usually decided by the man, who chooses an auspicious day to pay tribute to the bride and ask her permission. Although the invitation period is one of the six gifts, it can be omitted in combination. Wedding ceremony is marriage, female dialect marriage, male dialect marriage. The wedding procession of modern people has changed from a band to a luxury motorcade, and the bride's float has replaced the sedan chair. Except that the bride must be married by the groom himself, there are many relatives and friends who accompany the groom to get married, commonly known as "new best man" or "groom's companion", and the bride also has relatives and friends who are commonly known as "new bridesmaid" or "bride's companion". After the bride and groom paid their respects, the six ceremonies were completed. Wedding etiquette varies from place to place, customs are different, and details are different, so I won't elaborate here. The six wedding ceremonies of the ancients were too complicated to be merged. But as far as modern marriage is concerned, there are two major procedures that cannot be omitted, one is the engagement day, and the other is the wedding day. Now let's talk about the skills of choosing an auspicious day on the day of engagement. The day of engagement is the day to go to the civil affairs department for marriage registration. After the signing of both parties, a marriage combination was born. The eight characters formed at this time are the birthdates of marriage combination, which will have a certain impact on the marriage trend. Please refer to the related blog post "". The following principles can be followed when choosing the engagement date: 1. Harmony is the best. The heavenly stems or earthly branches of the four pillars of the daily class should be five-in-one and six-in-one, and the pattern of fighting should not be chosen. Harmony leads to a smooth marriage, while conflict leads to an unstable marriage. Second, if the yen is angry, the financial official seal has roots. The day of engagement is the best time to stamp the official seal. The official star represents the husband star and the wealth star represents the wife star, which should be prosperous rather than declining. The main document contract, that is, the engagement, should be prosperous and solid. 4. It is not appropriate to use Japanese yen without gas. Third, the official seal should be thoroughly dried. The official star is thorough, representing the civil affairs clerk on duty, the official student seals the letter, the work is smooth, and the marriage certificate can be obtained smoothly. Because the Indian star represents the document contract, the marriage certificate is born by the official star, which is very easy to handle. Fourth, it is best to be in place as soon as possible. The day of going out to do business is still quite favorable, which means that it is smoother to go out with the help of nobles. Fifth, it is not appropriate to choose the day when peach blossoms are in full bloom. If the Peach Blossom Day is misused, it will easily lead to peach blossom right and wrong, which is quite unfavorable to marriage. Sixth, the selected days should try not to conflict with the lives of both men and women. Seven, choose the five elements of the day, it is best to use God in the life of both men and women. Eight, should not choose four unique, four from the sky. Nine, it is not appropriate to choose too dry patterns. The five elements are too dry, and most disasters have happened in reality. If you go out and meet a traffic jam at the scene of a car accident, it will be bad for you to do things. Special planning-choose the wedding date according to the constellation and the engagement wedding date according to the zodiac.