About Andersen

Three love stories in Andersen's life.

Ha, I tell you, there are people like me who like to know about these ancient things and people.

About Andersen's life, what others say about homosexuality is what others say after all. It's not that he has never been in love, but this love has never been answered by the woman he loves deeply.

Let's talk about his personality first. Andersen is a shy and introverted person (better when he is older, or better after he has achieved something), but his feelings are easily excited. Even when he grows up, he will cry because of a little emotional fluctuation, which has created his inner beauty and future suffering. In Denmark in his time, the distinction between rich and poor was the creed of doing things. Andersen's family is very poor. This situation can be seen in his story "She is a Waste". The prototype of the washerwoman in the story is the mother who remarried after his father's death, struggling to support her son, and once the son grows up, he has to be ashamed of this background. After his 14-year-old confirmation ceremony, he left his hometown for Copenhagen. Since then, he has been alone, with no money and no relatives there, but he has been trying to pursue his dream of becoming an actor. After his failure, he turned to literature. The people he entrusted at that time were all celebrities at that time. He is a poor boy with a poor education. Even a child can see his spelling mistakes in Latin, so he has to lower his head. In addition, Andersen was not a handsome man when he was a teenager, and he may not be in the future. He was a scrawny boy with a big nose. This is of course unspeakable pain. It was such an Andersen who began a hard life.

Of course, like us, Andersen had a girl he liked when he was very young, but it was not love. His first love was at 1830, and he was delighted with Bao Libor Voight, the sister of a college classmate. She is engaged, but he doesn't know it. This woman admires his talent and likes to show off her girlish style. Andersen gradually felt that he could not live without her. Beuter complain in the heart, he pointed out that

"My sister is engaged and can't change it. Poor Andersen! My sister's joke is too big! It seems that she likes to enjoy herself before getting married. But why don't you think Andersen loves you so single-mindedly? How did this end? "

He wrote to propose to this woman, and she wrote back saying

"I'm sorry, please don't make me an unfortunate person! I can be your good friend and sister and try my best to serve you. "

Such scenes are shown in Ib and Little Christine, Dream under the Willow Tree and Nightcap of the Bachelor. This is how the first love ended, but he kept Bao Li's letters and notes during his correspondence all his life. At that time, he was 25 years old, and it was late autumn in Denmark. He had to heal the pain in his heart silently, and he recovered from it silently. A lonely person's love and sadness are inhuman, but the silent feelings in his heart are annihilated forever.

The second love was in June of 1833. He was 28 years old. That woman's name is Louisa, and she is Colin's daughter. She can be regarded as his mentor and Bole. However, although Andersen was famous at that time, everyone knew that the writer was all down and out, and his humble background also made the Colin family dissatisfied. Louisa doesn't seem to love him either. At the end of the story, Louisa soon married a lawyer, while Andersen roamed Europe in April. This love is silent, he might as well express his admiration. Later, when writing "Liu Xia has a Dream", he repeatedly said in the text that love "a man should speak first", perhaps because of his feelings at this time, but he will eventually understand that even if he speaks first, he will sometimes get bitterness and pain. When fate is like this, "or should I believe it is fate" is right. Although she is a stranger, he always thinks about her. /kloc-in the spring of 0/837, he wrote "The Daughter of the Sea" based on this experience. The girl who didn't speak with her tongue and fell in love silently was him.

It is not that men and women have love together, and it is not that feelings can be gently erased every time. 10 years, he was lonely, but he became famous. 1840, he met the Swede Jenny Linde. She is a singer and is called "Swedish Nightingale", but she is very cold. The result was a crazy welcome, and their friendship began like this. In the end, this friendship did not reach love. When he wanted to express his love, she put it away, and his desire slowly turned into disappointment. His love was confined to Plato.

Spiritual love, take her as an artistic partner and write "The Nightingale" for her. At this point, he is almost 40 years old. Since then, he has spent a lot of time on the road, traveling, and then traveling all his life. He loves children and believes in religion, and his love has shifted.

In the fairy tale Butterfly, he wrote: "This butterfly has never married a wife. He has been looking for a lover for too long. One shouldn't do this. This butterfly has become an old widower. " He has never lived in his own home, staying in a friend's home, looking for happiness there, and at the same time suffering from the sadness of life.

1875 On August 4th, 1 1: 05, the king of fairy tales stopped breathing at his friend Melchior's house, and all his love and sadness just drifted away. This is his life.

This is an ancient fate. This is both a blessing and a curse. It gives one thing and takes another. Love each other, and the end of love is only pain and parting.