Which is more unsuitable for being together, the eight-character disagreement or the three-view disagreement?

In my opinion, the three views are not harmonious, and they are not suitable for being together.

In fact, there are many couples whose characters are incompatible, but there are also many who have not successfully married and lived a happy life. I have such a real example around me.

When my little brother and sister-in-law got married, my second aunt deliberately gave them birthdates. People say that the eight characters don't match, but they are still married and have a good life.

As the saying goes, if you believe it, you don't believe it. I don't know much about it, and I don't believe it. I don't think whether two people are suitable together has much to do with the eight characters.

However, the disagreement between the three views is different. It is impossible for two people who can't get along, let alone live together. It is easy to produce contradictions and quarrels, and there is no happiness at all, which is definitely not suitable.

It is more suitable for two people to be together, and there must be little difference in thought or other aspects. If the three views are not harmonious, the difference will be great. For example, when it comes to making money, boys don't have any goals in making money. He thinks it's good to spend enough, and he doesn't have much concept of money. Two or three thousand a month is enough.

However, in the eyes of girls, this view is not motivated, and it is a manifestation of not being motivated. Girls think making money is a very important thing. They attach great importance to money and know that it is impossible and impossible to live without it. If they want to improve their quality of life, they must earn more money.

When two people disagree, there will be contradictions and the quarrel will begin. If two people don't know how to make concessions, this relationship will easily end and there is no way to get along for a long time.