How to choose the traditional method of choosing the wedding date?

How to choose a good wedding day? China people attach great importance to the choice of auspicious wedding date, and attach great importance to the theory of "Runyue" and "Runnian", that is, there will be a Runnian every two or three years, that is, there will be two "beginning of spring" and one "Runyue" in that year. Choose an auspicious day to get married, preferably in the year of full moon.

In recent years, the opening of spring during the Lunar New Year is as follows:

20 1 1 Year of the Rabbit: Single Spring

20 12 (the Year of the Loong): Double Spring

20 13 (year of the snake): No spring, few years.

20 14 (Year of the Horse): Double Spring

20 15 (Year of the Sheep): Single Spring

2. Avoid 379

It is best to avoid the three auspicious days of March, July and September of the lunar calendar, because these three months coincide with Qingming, Yulan and Chonggong respectively, which are traditional ghost festivals and are not suitable for joint happy events. In the "Mid-Autumn Festival" month, that is, the beginning of the month is full, that is, August of the lunar calendar, which is the most suitable month for holding a wedding.

Step 3 avoid sannianzi

According to legend, Yue Lao didn't give Sanniang a red line, so that she couldn't get married. Based on revenge, Sanniang likes to go against the old lady and ruin the wedding of the couple, so the third, seventh, thirteenth, eighteenth, twenty-second and twenty-seventh days of each month are not suitable for marriage.

4. Marriage and date selection method

The principle of choosing the date of marriage is to take the date of birth of the bride as the main factor and refer to the date of birth of the man and others. As the saying goes, "As soon as a child is born, a woman marries a girl". Therefore, if this principle is reversed or ignored, it will lead to problems in married marriage and even divorce; On the contrary, it is good luck.

5. Don't choose your parents' birthdays

In traditional habits, parents' birthdays should not be the same as wedding auspicious days. In fact, it just means that it is not appropriate to get married on the exact date of parents' birthdays, but it is absolutely appropriate to get married within that month.

6. Real wedding day

If you decide to separate the registration date from the wedding date, you'd better do it on both days. If you want to choose, you should choose an auspicious day based on the traditional wedding banquet and wine setting etiquette, because China tradition has always regarded this day as a truly auspicious wedding day.

7. auspicious day method

Some people think that there should be a stricter method for calculating auspicious days, that is, the most auspicious wedding date should be calculated by the date and time of birth of both men and women. However, this practice is quite complicated, and more people would rather see the date chosen by the Yellow Calendar or listen to the suggestions of people who study Zhouyi.

8, to consider the actual work and study of both sides.

If one party is studying in his spare time, avoid the tense review date; If one party is engaged in major technical research projects of the unit day and night, the other party will wait patiently for a period of time, and then choose "auspicious day marriage" when the good news comes.

9. Consider the reality of both families.

Choosing "auspicious day" needs to take into account that the elderly and relatives and friends have time to participate and can witness the festive and harmonious scene.

10, considering the physical condition of both parties.

If one party is temporarily unwell or sick, it is best not to rush to arrange a marriage, but to make a diagnosis and treatment in time, and then consult after recovery. Otherwise, it may affect the harmony of new life and easily aggravate physical condition. The wedding date should avoid the woman's menstrual period, and the woman should not be ashamed to say it. When choosing an auspicious day, the man should pay special attention to the woman's opinion.

1 1, unify the wedding date and holidays.

If the wedding date is unified with holidays, it may be wise. The advantages of doing this are: deep memory; Newly married people put on festive clothes to add interest; Relatives and friends have time to attend the wedding, and the atmosphere is warm. It is economical and festive to entertain relatives and friends at home. However, there are many new people who get married during the holidays, so we should pay attention to booking hotels and motorcades in advance.

12, the definition of a good day

In any case, the definition of "good days" is always different. No matter which day you choose, try to choose those days that are satisfactory to everyone.

Choose an auspicious day correctly

1, female life marriage year taboo

Please refer to the last line, for example, noon is the year of the horse.

Avoid children in the year of rabbit and ugliness in the year of tiger.

Cows avoid yin years, while rats avoid Mao years.

The year when a pig dies is the year when a dog dies.

People who love chickens avoid afternoons, while people who love monkeys avoid young people.

Sheep are jealous of Shen Nian, and horses are jealous all year round.

Those who love snakes avoid years, while those who love dragons avoid the sea.

Starting with the method: starting with a screwdriver, that is, marriage is forbidden and not suitable.

2. The year of forbidden marriage for men

The first five periods of a year are also taboo for men to get married. Namely:

The year when snakes are forbidden and horses are forbidden.

The year when sheep are forbidden, the year when monkeys are forbidden.

No chickens for one year and no dogs for four years.

No pigs in the afternoon, no rats in the afternoon.

Cattle are forbidden in Shen Nian, and tigers are forbidden in the year.

The year when rabbits are forbidden, the year when tigers are forbidden.

3. Life of women married in Italy.

Zhengqi welcomes chickens and rabbits 28 tigers and monkeys

Sanjiu snake * * * pig forty dragon dog

Cattle, sheep, fifty-one, mouse, horse, six, twelve.

This refers to people who are chickens and rabbits, who get married in July of the first month, and the rest are the same.

Relative photos: Zishu, Ugly Cow, Silver Tiger, Hairy Rabbit, Chen Long, Sishe, Wuma, Weiyang, Shenhou, Youyou Chicken, Dog and Sea Pig [3].

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Marry Tiande, Yuede, Tiandehe, Yuedehe, Xietian, Tian Yue, Sanhe, Tianxi, Liuhe and Niri. Don't marry on the day of the broken moon, on weekdays, close the day, rob, disturb, punish, hate the moon, five tombs, harm the moon, be an official, abolish four things, avoid four things, be poor, leave five things, specialize in eight things, and hate marrying the sun.

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Respect both parents.

Old people will be very concerned about choosing a date. We must respect both parents, and it is best to discuss with them before making a decision.

Don't be too superstitious

Although "auspicious day" is a tradition in China, at the same time, we should understand that the happiness of marriage lies in whether the emotional foundation of two people is solid, and it does not depend on a certain "auspicious day", so it needs to be arranged from a scientific perspective.

Set a wedding date as soon as possible.

In foreign countries, of course, you can choose the date according to the actual situation, but try to set the wedding date earlier, prepare enough time for the wedding planning, and don't act in a hurry! You can ask for the opinions of important guests before setting the wedding date, but you don't have to cater to too many people. Once you have set a wedding date, don't change it easily.

Try to avoid peak days during the wedding rush hour.

An auspicious wedding day

Due to the influence of climate and environment, there are different wedding peaks all over the country, because new people hope to hold weddings on these good days. When choosing a wedding date, first of all, you should know the wedding peak period and the peak days in the city where you are going to hold the wedding, and try to avoid the peak days. In this case, it will be of great benefit to choose emcee, camera, float, hotel, dress, etc. And it will directly reduce your wedding budget or improve the quality of your wedding. In fact, sometimes as long as one day in advance or one day later, you can choose the ideal hotel, book the car you have long wanted, have the best master of ceremonies to preside over your wedding, have an excellent cameraman to record the ceremony of your life, and even your relatives and friends don't have to worry about handling several weddings at the same time. Because, choosing a day in a year is very important and memorable for you, but it is a very ordinary day for others. Like the anniversary of your first kiss. In this way, you can not only get the best service with less money, but also walk into the wedding hall with a very leisurely mood and enjoy the wedding wishes of relatives and friends. Good day, good mood. Of course you can have your cake and eat it!

The weather on the wedding day

Maybe you think it would be romantic to have a wedding on a rainy day? But most couples still want sunny wedding day. Whether you like light rain or sunshine, knowing the weather on the wedding day can let you know what you are doing and make some contingency arrangements in advance. You can also choose the corresponding service of the local meteorological station according to your own needs, and get the real-time weather information on the wedding day, so as to plan ahead.

The bride's menstrual period

Avoid the bride's menstrual period

An auspicious wedding day

If the wedding day happens to be the bride's menstrual period, it will be a troublesome thing, so we must make the wedding date as far as possible to avoid the bride's menstrual period. There are two ways. First, if the bride's physiological cycle is regular, her menstrual period can be calculated. Second, if it is inevitable to choose the bride's physiological cycle or the physiological cycle is irregular and it is impossible to determine the menstrual period, you can consult a doctor 10 days before the wedding. If there are no contraindications, you can take medicine before the wedding under the guidance of a doctor, and generally you can postpone your menstrual period.

Work plans of both parties

Try to avoid affecting your work plan because of the wedding, because in those days when preparing for the wedding and holding ceremonies and wedding banquets, newcomers often can't concentrate on their work. Therefore, when setting the wedding date, you should also refer to your annual work plan. Don't choose your own peak hours or before and after a business trip, so that you can have enough holidays to spend a sweet honeymoon, and you can also avoid the situation that you can't hold the wedding as scheduled because of work emergencies or the important work plan is affected because of wedding preparations.

There are several points to consider:

An auspicious wedding day

First, the wedding year and wedding day can't be rushed to the husband and wife palace.

Second, the wedding date cannot be used by both parties' birthdays [2]

Third, the date of marriage should be the same as the five elements of male life and the five elements of female injury.

Four, in the case of meeting the above conditions, try to choose the wedding day with Tiande nobles or Noble Moon.

5. For both men and women, try to choose a day when they can live together or wash away the evil spirits, which is also called resolving the evil spirits of marriage.