What if the family is broken, heavily in debt and immersed in decadence?

The most important thing is to make money and live. Only you are alive. to change status There is still great hope in the future. When your debts are paid off slowly through your hardworking hands, your psychological burden will also be reduced. Life will get better and better. Because you have no debt pressure. As for the fragments of feelings, it takes time to heal. The breakdown of marriage must be the responsibility of both parties. First of all, you should realize your mistake and remember not to make the same mistake again in your future marriage. You can harvest happiness. I hope my answer can help you and you can start a better life. Come on, dear partner, you are the best.

I haven't had a good day in 86 years. I have never seen my mother, grandparents since I was a child. My father married my stepmother in order to earn money. I convinced myself to endure in order to survive. How many days and nights my sister and I fell asleep singing songs, crying every night and others playing. I am considered a teenage rural woman in the field and in the soil. I didn't give up. Maybe I took back my words. Senior high school lives on a monthly subsidy of more than 100 yuan for poor students. After three years in high school, I didn't have enough to eat. As soon as I serve dinner, others eat with bowls. I went out and bought a 50-cent toast, and I became fat in one semester. After graduation, I joined my cousin and came to Guangdong. I have no travelling expenses. My second aunt gave me more than 600 yuan to borrow from the class teacher for the college entrance examination. I never used money when I came out. I gave it to my family. I was soft-hearted and gave everything. I have a father who likes to make trouble. He has to deal with many bad things every year. I'm so tired. Until 20 1 1 in 2005, I had no savings at all. I met my dad, opened Taobao together for several years, earned some money, built a house at home, and lived a better life. My dad divorced again. I begged me to give it to him, but my heart melted again. There may be many reasons. In the end, my dad and I couldn't get along. 20 16 separated for a year after giving birth to the ball, and finally separated completely. I have not lived a good life, but I am not decadent. As my fortune-teller said, I was unlucky. Anyway, I think it is bitter. Just work hard. The ball is still small, probably because I was too short when I was a child. I will give him all the love I lacked when I was a child, hoping that he will grow up happily in his mother's love. Although I have borrowed so much money for mortgage decoration now, I have a goal and a home of my own. I am no longer a person with nowhere to hide. There is no choice but to work hard. Come on, make money. Come to this world, it is better to live with positive energy, and life will be better.

The most important thing is to make money and live. Only you are alive. to change status There is still great hope in the future. When your debts are paid off slowly through your hardworking hands, your psychological burden will also be reduced. Life will get better and better. Because you have no debt pressure. As for the fragments of feelings, it takes time to heal. The breakdown of marriage must be the responsibility of both parties. First of all, you should realize your mistake and remember not to make the same mistake again in your future marriage. You can harvest happiness. I hope my answer can help you and you can start a better life. Come on, dear partner, you are the best.

You are only in your thirties, and your life has just begun. Experiencing some setbacks may play a valuable role in promoting your later life. What is important is that you adjust your mentality now, face the current difficulties bravely, combine your own advantages and find a road that suits you. Don't hesitate and move forward bravely. ...

Ten years later, when you look back on today's difficulties, you will feel that there is nothing at all.

A man rolled from the top of the mountain to the foot of the mountain and fell into the pit from the foot of the mountain. This is the pain that many people have experienced.

But the final outcome is different: some people sum up the lessons of failure, start again or choose a new road to climb the peak of success again, while others are never recovered and are confused and decadent all their lives. ...

See if you struggle or not, as long as your struggle is always upward! Isn't it?

I think mentality is the most important thing. I grew up in a single-parent family and got married very early. My husband is also a single-parent family. I got married when I was six months pregnant. There is no glamorous wedding like others, no car, no house, and the house is still a red brick house in his grandfather's time. I was married from beginning to end and quarreled and fought every day when I was pregnant. I jumped into the river with a big belly because no one could know my despair and understand me. No one knows the pain of marrying far away. I am a stranger, I don't know the language, my life is different, I have no relatives, no friends and no one to talk to. There is no one to take care of when giving birth, and there is no so-called confinement. As before, I washed clothes, bathed the children, changed diapers and held them in the snow all night. I caused all this by myself, so I suffered from headache and tenosynovitis at the age of 25. ? Anyway, I have to rely on myself. At that time, I was also very decadent and desperate. I think my life is not good. I have never had a good life since I was a child. I feel too painful and tired to be a human being. At that time, because of the bad conditions, we quarreled every day and lost a lot of hair. I also envy other people's homes and live a harmonious and complete life. I feel inferior. His father 165438 rented it for 4000 yuan a month. It is enough that the child is not sick. We are not old enough to bear more than the average person. I am very happy when my son is two years old every year. I adjust my mind every day, enlighten myself and comfort myself, and it will get better and better. I can take a part-time job while my children are at school, and then get better gradually. In fact, the road is coming out. If you are really desperate and decadent. My fate is in my own hands. As long as I work hard, I will get ahead one day. Although I am really hard and helpless, I am also very lucky and gratified because my son is very healthy. Life is too short to be satisfied. I hope every family is happy, healthy and happy. Parents are the best teachers for children.

Without ups and downs, how can we talk about future glory and make a comeback? Who is she? Come on!

At this point, the choice between thoughts can be said to determine whether your life is positive or negative.

If you choose to be positive.

Then it should be cleared first. You can't let the past continue to consume yourself. As Mr. Lu Xun said, "That's it, don't be sad." Bad things have happened, and if you continue to be depressed, that is, bad things continue to release bad effects. Therefore, it is the first step to straighten your mind.

Then, ask yourself what you can do.

If you have no money, then go to work to make money. You are not lazy if you have hands. The world is starving.

Being in debt means trying to make money and pay off debts. What's the point of moping all day?

A broken family is regarded as an emotional experience without love and affection.

Eat well, sleep well and exercise to stay healthy.

Keep learning and improve yourself.

With so much to do, I don't understand why you let depression take up so much of your time.

Finally, block all the voices outside, endure the most lonely and silent time, and stick to it.

Many people have experienced your experience. As long as life exists, what is there to cross? Unless you are weak, get up at once and start an active life.

I'll show you a video, so you won't be decadent.

The family is broken, the responsibility is great, and it is immersed in decadence. How can we get out? Unfortunately, this has become a reality. Broken cans and falls can be used as a temporary way to vent. If you go on like this after this, you will ruin yourself. You look up and adjust yourself from these aspects:

1, facing the misfortune that has happened. If you are divorced, don't pester each other yet. Let's keep a cool distance.

Debt will not decrease because of your pain, but will increase with time, and interest will only increase. People who can't get the money will get angry and keep asking you for it.

3. Clean yourself up and be happy. In the face of your debt, take out your repayment plan and tell your sincerity and truth. What the other person wants is money, not driving you crazy. So a concrete and feasible repayment plan is what they want.

4. It may be difficult to make a comeback. You can do your best. If you really have no choice, making money hard is your only way. More is less. I believe these creditors will also face the reality. What they want is for you to live and pay back the money. If you are forced to die, they will get nothing. This is what they don't want.

When you decide to face the reality and solve the problem in a down-to-earth way, everything will be different and the difficulties will be solved step by step.