Why do you hesitate to get married after 80?

It can be said that he is the big boss now. Before liberation, children of this age ran around. Looking around, there are also many people of the same age who are married and have children. But most of them are still hesitant. Yes I twitch at the mention of marriage! The hesitation of getting married after 80 is first of all a matter of mentality. In the past. Getting married is not a thing at all. When you get old, find someone similar. Everyone was poor at that time. Simple and clear. Nobody cares how much they love. But now this human has evolved to take himself more and more seriously. I don't know anything about personality, family background, looks, work, education, future or even hobbies. Repeated research. Dig deeper. Compare carefully. Watching it toss and turn complicates simple problems. The problem of two people is expanding! The more you ponder, the more confused you get. We can't get married! Get married, two people live together. It's too simple. Let's talk more than building a space shuttle. Chasing the reason. I don't think we are pure about the purpose of marriage. I always want to get some other added value through marriage. Such as houses, cars, and good days in the future. When you want to get something for a lifetime through a piece of paper. It's a little difficult. Psychological problems also include fear of marriage. Our generation. Kind of like growing up in a honeypot. Never experienced war, never hungry. Spoiled by parents. Always feel young. Why are you getting married? Marriage means having children. I'm still a child. Why did the next generation come out? Young women nowadays are very narcissistic. It's really hard to let go of your youth and take over the daily necessities. Boys of the same age are even less mature. I used to be a son, but suddenly I made him a father. I really can't adapt at once. Parents earnestly said, for the happiness of our life. But when I hear the word life. I immediately thought of my old age and the vicissitudes of life after 50 years. It seems that as soon as you get married, you will run to the end. If this marriage is really fixed for life. Then we'll live a fart in the future. Secondly, it is also a human problem not to get married after 80. People who want to marry don't want to marry. We don't want to marry those who want to get married. People are all bitchy animals. What you can't get is not necessarily good. But I just can't forget it. Please obsequiously put people in the most beloved position in your heart. Crying and shouting to marry somebody else. People may not appreciate it yet. But I just turn a blind eye to the silent devotees around me Holding you and loving you. I really think of myself as an emperor. No matter how good the other party's conditions are, I feel wronged. Always unwilling to get married at a low price. After all. Ta, it's unlucky to have a crush on you first. There are others. Neither want to marry, nor want to marry. The whole love has stopped. Little corner forgotten by love. Well, if you can resist the pressure of being single. So ... it better be more than enough. Once such people are abused. I can't take it back Getting married is no longer easy. It's also a matter of two people. I looked around for someone. Marry who? Don't mention blind date to me yet. I started to get in touch with this five years ago. Major. Blind date, to put it bluntly, is picky. Wear colored glasses to buy cabbage. Yes, they are all green. Delicious. Purple never slips away. Finally, the core issue of unmarried post-80s generation is undoubtedly the issue of money. But not as those who used to be poor together know. There must be some truth in this statement. Money. Must be the biggest obstacle faced by many poor couples. Lang is affectionate, but I am interested. The soldiers are in position. Mentality is always ready like a young pioneer. They love each other very much. I can't wait to build a nest and have a baby. But where can I find this nest? To put it bluntly, it is a house. To put it bluntly, it is money. No money, no house. You have to pay even if you rent it, right? It is said that marriage is the grave of love. You can't even get into the grave without a house! Then it will end badly! The so-called sense of security and belonging of women. It is a reliable shoulder and a warm embrace when you are in love. But as soon as they get married, women immediately change their flags from romanticism to realism. What a warm and generous hug it used to be, it is not as real as reinforced concrete. Used to be in the countryside. You can have a wedding with a tile house. Later, my parents' generation. As long as you get married, you will have a unit welfare housing distribution. Now the popularity of universities has enriched the people. We can't even live and work in peace. I graduated from college in my twenties. It's not bad to have a fixed unit with stable income. But even the best units don't send free rooms. How can you get married without a house? If parents have some money. Buy you a house and a car. Fortune teller. All right. How many college students borrowed money from scratch to go to school? Want to buy a house after graduation? Let's pay off the debt for five or six years first. Except the house. There are many places where money is needed to get married. There are many deposits, bride price, rings and wedding photos. Let's say the ring. I don't know who invented it anyway. You have to get married! From marriage proposal, engagement and marriage. Which step missed the ring? It can't be an ordinary ring yet. It must be a diamond ring symbolizing eternal love! When you proposed, you were all made of copper, iron and plastic, even with straw. Women don't care when their romantic feelings come up. But you can't fool people like this when you get married, can you? Do you have the heart to let the bride walk into the rented new house with an aluminum alloy ring? But this bigger stone is very valuable for some reason. It will definitely ruin the self-reliant young people! So ... The great longing for marriage ruined the future with a few pieces of cement and stones. Of course, some relieved people don't care about this. When it comes to getting married for four years, no diamond rings, no wedding photos and no banquets. A brand-new man with three noes. You saved yourself the trouble. But how many women want to save trouble? Most women can't anyway. Wedding photos must be taken. Take a good picture.