What influence will a "strong" mother have on her son's marriage?

A strong mother means taking herself as the standard everywhere, forcing her thoughts on her children and using her children to realize her imaginary ideals.

The children brought out by this kind of mother will resist in the early stage, but because the mother is too strong and the resistance is invalid, she will gradually become obedient and have no ideas of her own, and will become more and more cowardly, which will be manifested in both the workplace and marriage.

The direct feedback to married life is to choose a wife, listen to my mother, and dare not question what my mother doesn't like, so we broke up. A strong mother after marriage will interfere with her son's married life, from buying food and cooking to buying a house and car. My son has also become a boy in her mother-in-law's house. It seems that the mother, not the son, contributed to the marriage.

For a daughter-in-law, if she is more obedient, she will be bullied everywhere and submit to humiliation. Angry, even if I tell my husband, there will be no result, because my husband grew up under the long-term pressure of his mother-in-law.

If you meet an equally strong daughter-in-law, then this family will be lively. Mother-in-law should be in power, bossing her son around and obedient. Daughter-in-law is also a big pet of her family. Where has she been so angry, she is bound to lift the table and resist, not allowing her mother-in-law to interfere in family affairs, and even asking her mother-in-law to move out to reduce her appearance time. There is no room for two tigers in one mountain, so it is restless at home. Once the daughter-in-law is in power, the mother-in-law will be miserable at night. If you can't fight, the next step is divorce. But no matter where you go, your husband will be rejected by his wife as weak and incompetent.

Therefore, an overly strong mother is not good for the healthy growth of children. In the process of children's growth, we should distinguish between what to intervene and what to make our own decisions. The choices made by parents, not children, are not necessarily the best. Children should learn to choose and be responsible for the results of their choices. Only in this way can we grow into an independent person.