What do you mean, money advances and retreats?

There is an old saying: at first, there was panic. Although rich in clothes and wealth, there is little force to advance and retreat. Women take pleasure in blood and wealth.

It means: when you were young, you had bad luck to be scared (Northeast China said you were scared and didn't call back). Even though you are rich, you still failed. You are all by yourself, and your relatives can't help you. If you are a woman, your luck will begin to change after having children. Grasping the opportunity will double the fortune and help her husband's career.