Do you agree with her husband that it is a woman's bounden duty to have children and take care of the family?

I saw a realistic cartoon the other day, and I was deeply impressed. I learned a truth. There is nothing between husband and wife to do and not to do, and no one needs to make sacrifices for anyone. If one of them is willing to make concessions and sacrifices for the other, there is only one reason, and that is love.

Jing Wong and Sun met in college. After graduating from college, they chose to get married directly. They all majored in law. In school, among all the boys, Sun is the best, not only because he studies well and looks good, but also because of his mouth. No one can speak better than him in the debate.

Sun's first affection for Jing Wong was after another debate. Sun's team won the first prize, so he invited all his classmates to dinner, including Wang Jing. After dinner, Jing Wong felt that he could not eat other people's food for free, and insisted on asking everyone to sing.

When checking out, Sun also scrambled to pay the bill, saying how it was possible to make girls spend money. But Jing Wong put the money for singing into Sun's bag while Sun was not paying attention. This incident left a profound impact on Sun. After they got together, Sun also talked about it. "When you sneak money into my bag, I feel that you are different from other girls and don't take the boys' efforts seriously. So I think you must be a good girl, and that's probably when I fell in love with you. "

Wang Jing pretended to be angry at this. "You are not greedy for my beauty." In fact, my heart has already blossomed.

After graduation, both Wang Jing and Sun went to work in a law firm, but as interns, their income was not much. At first, their monthly salary was only in their early 3000 s. At that time, Wang Jing was catching up with appendicitis and needed more than 8000 yuan for surgery at once. Sun looked at Wang Jing, who was lying in bed with tears in her face, and was at a loss because they didn't have that much savings at all.

Finally, the proud Sun bowed his head and asked for 8,000 yuan at home like his parents to let Wang Jing have an operation smoothly.

This incident also moved Jing Wong. She knew that Sun loved herself, and Wang Jing loved Sun as always. Although becoming a lawyer is their dream, their dreams sometimes need to be bowed like reality, so Wang Jing chose to sacrifice her dream, leave the lawyer industry and switch to real estate sales.

One thing that is particularly good about real estate sales is how much you earn. In the first year of sales, Wang Jing won a bonus of 60 thousand yuan at the end of the year. She happily tugged at Sun's neck like a child. Since then, Sun's work has gradually improved. In the third year of marriage, the two finally saved enough down payment to buy a house, so they finally had their own house.

In the fourth year of marriage, Jing Wong became pregnant. Some people react violently before giving birth, even pulling and vomiting, and some people are depressed after giving birth. Jing Wong, on the other hand, has no such mood at all, and his mind is full of work. Even in the seventh month of pregnancy, Jing Wong sold four sets of commercial houses with a big belly, and her heart was full of sense of accomplishment. She likes working, and she likes the feeling of giving and returning.

When my daughter was born, it was winter. Wang Jing held her daughter in her arms and asked Sun to name the child. Sun looked at the snow outside and just stopped, so she named her daughter Xueting. Xiaoxue Ting heard these two words and slowly stopped worrying and fell asleep. Everyone says this name is good, and my girl likes it herself.

My mother-in-law also came from her hometown to help with her granddaughter. After the maternity leave, Wang Jing immediately returned to work non-stop. In order to satisfy customers, Jing Wong sometimes goes out to socialize, and drinking is inevitable. Sometimes when I go home after drinking too much, my mother-in-law will immediately dislike it. "You are a mother, and you still drink five fans. What is this like? "

The old man doesn't understand Wang Jing's hard work. In fact, she was not angry, but I didn't expect Sun to understand her.

Once Sun was on a business trip, her mother-in-law accidentally flashed her waist when she came back from dinner. Wang Jing quickly sent her mother-in-law to the hospital. Just after completing the formalities, she received a phone call from the teacher of Xiaoxueting Kindergarten, saying, "When Xueting waited for you to pick her up after class, you accidentally fell off your chair and broke your head."

At this time, Wang Jingcai found that her daughter had reached the point of going to school. Unexpectedly, something happened. The kindergarten was anxious to get angry and sent her daughter to the hospital. At this time, the family, old and young, entered the hospital.

Sun saw this scene when he came back from a business trip. In these years, he quarreled with Wang Jing for the first time. "In your eyes, work is important or family is important? Can you care more about your family? " And Jing Wong silently accepted Sun's words because of guilt.

After her mother-in-law was discharged from hospital, she went back to her hometown to cultivate her self-cultivation, so all the work of taking care of her daughter was placed on Wang Jing alone. It happened that this time, her son was promoted, so Sun and Wang Jing discussed and asked Wang Jing to be a full-time wife.

But Jing Wong loves his job very much, and he also likes the sense of achievement in his work. But for the sake of children, husband and family, Jing Wong finally chose to sacrifice herself and agreed to be a full-time wife.

At first, being a full-time wife, Jing Wong was quite interesting. She can cook for her daughter with peace of mind, clean the house carefully, and no longer have to worry about sending her daughter to kindergarten. Looking at her daughter's doodle face, Wang Jing felt extremely satisfied.

With more leisure time, Wang Jing began to raise some flowers and plants on the balcony. Now Sun's favorite thing to do after work is to look at the sunset glow and flowers, and tell Wang Jing some interesting stories and cases at work.

Jing Wong feels that although he sacrificed his ideal and career for his family, he still has a great sense of accomplishment in doing these things now. However, this feeling seems to be unique to Jing Wong, but Sun doesn't think so.

After a busy day, Wang Jing washed dozens of clothes and tidied up the toys and bookcases that were messed up by her daughter. She was so tired that she couldn't keep back. After work, Sun's daughter knocked over the water glass, which was all over the floor. In addition, vegetables are still stewed in the pot in the kitchen, so Wang Jing asked Sun to change clothes for her daughter and clean the ground.

But Sun said, "I'm tired all day, so don't stop cooking. Change your daughter's clothes first, and then clean the floor."

Wang Jing was dying to hear these grievances. You have been working all day, but I have not been idle for a day. Such things are endless.

The day of reunion with Sun broke out completely. I haven't seen my old classmates for years. Many people have gone abroad or haven't heard from them. Most people who come are not even married. Only Sun and Jing Wong not only have a successful career, but also have a lovely wife and daughter. The boys all envy Sun. "Wang Jing was also a great beauty. Now she has stopped being your lawyer and become a full-time wife. How hard it is to have a baby for you. "

Sun drank several glasses of wine. "Did she work hard? It is her duty to have children and take care of the family. It is really difficult for me to make money outside. "

With these words, the whole party was silent, and Jing Wong was embarrassed to get in through the gap in the ground. After returning home, Wang Jing and Sun quarreled.

Sun still don't give in, "what I said is wrong? You put on a bad face as soon as you get home, as if I owe you. "

Jing Wong retorted, "Do you think it's easy for me to be a full-time wife? Wake up every day, it's like a war. Everyone in my family depends on me. You still have a weekend to rest. I work 360 days a year. So you still say that about me. Do you have a conscience? "

Sun stopped talking, and Wang Jing and Sun fell into a cold war for the first time. Wang Jing thought he had been wronged, and Sun proudly kept his head.

In the past, no matter how hard she worked, Wang Jing was able to cope with the harassment from the customer leaders. Later, she became a full-time wife to take care of the family and let her husband criticize her so much. She sacrificed too many marriages and even lost her courage. For the first time, she found it difficult to be a woman and a wife, and wanted a divorce!

Many people say that Jing Wong makes a mountain out of a molehill, but I can understand her feelings. She has been sacrificing herself for this family and her grandson, giving up her ideal of not being a lawyer, selling real estate, giving up her career and being a full-time wife for her family. It seems that Jing Wong can only sacrifice for the overall interests of the family. So Sun has a question for those who think that Wang Jing is making a mountain out of a molehill. Why?

As far as ability is concerned, Wang Jing is no worse than Sun. Why did Jing Wong, as his wife, sacrifice on family issues? After making sacrifices, she not only didn't get the respect she deserved, but was regarded as "duty".

In fact, Jing Wong chose to sacrifice not because Sun continued to pursue his own ideals, and it would be more successful to continue working outside than Jing Wong, but because Wang Jing really loved his grandson and daughter and his family, which is why Jing Wong always chose to sacrifice himself to be a complete grandson.

And if this love is not properly reported, then this love will be so obscure and monotonous. If there is no love, then these sacrifices will become meaningless.

So, I can totally understand Jing Wong's idea of divorce. I think if Sun can't understand Jing Wong's sacrifice, Jing Wong's best choice is divorce. She doesn't owe her grandson. She is a person, and she has the right to choose the love she deserves and the love she doesn't deserve.

If a person sacrifices too much and pays too much, it is easy to be considered as what you should do in the end. Therefore, when a person is doing something, even in the face of a loved one, he should know how to refuse appropriately, at least let him know that it is not your responsibility to make these choices, but because you love him and the other person must be grateful.

With a grateful heart, this love will be more colorful, then the length of marriage will be longer and longer, and the husband and wife will be more and more loving.